[itrayya]

this is a great question.

i understand where she's coming from. sorta.
i mean, it's like... a person dating a mega super star who's rich, mega popular.
it has that intimidated feeling to it.

i often think that guys who look better than me would look down on me.
besides, would a prince really want to date a poor servant, in real life?
methaphorically.
of course the girl would feel a little, not up to par.

but, anyways, my rant.
at least she was honest.

you'll be fine.
good luck.
take care.

[Molar]

I would... but it depends on what kind of qualities...
Better looking? Then yes.
Prettier? Heck no!
I wouldn't mind if the guy is younger, but it depends on how young...

[envyandy]

i never said this.. i just heard it from somewhere so dont hate me for being not sure so probably dont trust this: some people (NOTE: SOME as in RARELY) believe that they should always date someone that are less prettier than they are because then you are the best thing that happened to the less prettier person.

did that make sense? and i also think i heard it from a movie but you know... its a MOVIE nearly all of them are untrue.

but i dont believe that. but i wouldnt want to date a guy thats prettier than me and spends more time infront of the mirror than me. seriously i wouldnt mind that much if i liked him back.

[megster266]

this is a great question.

i understand where she's coming from. sorta.
i mean, it's like... a person dating a mega super star who's rich, mega popular.
it has that intimidated feeling to it.

i often think that guys who look better than me would look down on me.
besides, would a prince really want to date a poor servant, in real life?
methaphorically.
of course the girl would feel a little, not up to par.

but, anyways, my rant.
at least she was honest.

you'll be fine.
good luck.
take care.

yeah, this is how i kinda felt when my boyfriend asked me out. i figured i would just go on a cpl of dates to see where things went and after we didn't break up for 2 months I kinda got worried lol. he definitely has better "qualities" than i do. he goes to the gym = skinnier waist than mine, his skin is perfect, his eyes are big and beautiful with no dark circles, and so far every girl acquaintance (notice word choice, they're usually not close friends) i've introduced him to have eyed him a lil too much . i had one girl tell me, "u better hold onto him at the party, u know girls are gonna be all over him right?" i was just like cuz she was actually SERIOUS lol. one time, another girl must have forgot i was there or had a blonde moment or something cuz she actually blurted the words, "oh, ur mexican? oh, i luv mexicans. ur hot." every1 just looked at her like she was crazy for a second and then she said "oh, i'm sorry. who are u?" looking at me. in my head i was thinking, "excuse me? wow." but i don't mind, cuz he always lets them know i'm his by putting his arms around me or my waist .

[pockified]

would i ever date a guy who was better-looking than me?

.....what do you think i've been doing my whole life?? HAHAHAHAHA

i've dated guys that were considered good-looking, and i must say that while i'm not the most gorgeous girl out there (not skinny, disappointing chest size, short, average face), i'm not BAD-looking. it's more of a self-esteem issue. if the girl can accept herself the way she is, and if you are attractive to her appearance and personality-wise, i don't see why there would be obstacles.

and i've heard a lot of things like "he's too hot for her." it hurts, but i've learned to get over it. hey, at least i have the personality to get the guy, right?

[hammy_chan]

he would just have to be a sweet guy and not gay...LOL

[SpicyTOFU]

Yea, I would...why not. I mean, as long as we're compatible right.

[cherri82crystal]

of course i would..
but i think my self esteem would be down a little
you know, thinking that i'm ugly being beside such a pretty guy. or that i'm too lucky.
Either way i'd just be happy:D and it doesn't really matter that much as long as we both like each other right..

[d a y.b r e a k]

^^^ DITTO~


LOL DAYM, somethin wrong with that girl ahahha~
i wouldt mind dating a better quality guy
cause then that just means i just dated up;+
ya know wat i mean?
ahhaaaa~


-TEAA`

[eastsea_sarang]

i don't want a guy that's "prettier" than me, cause that's not the type of guy i like.i like manly men =D
but back to the topic: if i end up liking a boy who has "better qualities", why not? i'd feel superficial most of the time though =/
i think i would feel as if i'd just be dating him for the looks, which i wouldn't want to do haha.

[manlytoe]

HECK YES ANY CHANCE I GET I'M GOING! lmao. jk jk jk. i kid.
but i mean, i guess i can kinda see where she is coming from.
you would feel like you're not good enough for him.

like if i was to date a guy that was "better looking" than me, of course.
people'd be sayin "he looks way better than her, she doesn't even compare to him"
in a way, it makes me UGLY because he's like this freakin hot a$$ swan with that little ugly duckling.
that was just an example btw, but yeah. i would if i had the chance and loved him.

[chunsa]

emm if a guy has thinner waist line than me NO THNX

that's all i have to say.

[SaLina]

hmm nooo i dun realli care as long as we like each other than that's fine ehhe and he's taller than me lol ehehh...maybe ur friend was prob just not confident enough..

[tofu plushie]

I want to date a guy that's prettier than me^^ I think I would just be shocked he would want to date me and on the inside I would be like really happy, haha.

[CitrusFlower]

well.. i mean. i wouldn`t want my guy to be THAT nicely 'groomed' like.. i would like his hair to be awesome and all; but he can`t be skinnier than me or younger than me .. or shorter than me ; since i like my guy MANLY bahaha. i kid. but seriously i wouldn`t complain if he was hotter than me.

Nicely put

[asaake]

I would date a guy who has better qualities because it would motivate me to better myself.
...and after I better myself to the point where I feel I surpass him, I'll find another guy... just kiddiiing.

[v13tnammer]

ok i liked this chick for 2 years, well close to 2.
and i have not told her, and i dont think she knows i like her.
had a conversation with her the other day and this came up :



-does that mean she dont like me?
and if so, what shud i do?

well it doesnt necisarily mean that.
For one , she might be saying things just so you'll notice her.
Like..well i'm not entirely sure how to explain it..but..um..^^;
well..okay..its like this..

sometimes she could like you..but maybe shes afraid of admitting it.
so shes using little hints? okay..well now i've confused myself..haha

well anyways, no, it does not mean she doesnt like you =P

[myxo]

I have a crush on this girl.. and we talk a lot on msn. We also exchange tons of emails. I think she knows I'm somewhat interested in her..
Well, today I msged her on MSN and she didn't reply back.. I know she's there though cuz I noticed that her status keeps changing.. So is she trying to ignore me? Playing hard to get? Or am i simply over analyzing this? Or perhaps i'm not giving her enough space? o.O... I'm confused...
Now I'm not even sure if I should email her anymore.. cuz when I'm at work, we usually exchange emails.. it's like a routine thing. So i'm not sure if i should stop...

Wow.. you sound like you've been stalking her MSN. If you think you need to give someone else more space, chances are you probably need to if the thought is entering your head. Sorry to offend (I do not mean to) but you seem clingy.

Question for the girls:

If you had a boyfriend and you felt like things were kind of going south. Not necessarily any fights, but the chemistry was starting to disappear, things were getting stale,

Would you:
a.) tell him that you feel that way
b.) not tell him so that he doesn't worry about it
c.) break up, because you feel that once things get to the level that the chemistry is gone the relationship isn't worth saving
d.) other (if so, please explain what)

If I felt like the relationship was getting stale, I'd definitely talk to him about it, and possibly try to work things out. Now, if he sees my disinterests and does nothing to interest me, that just tells me this guy doesn't care about our relationship. Keeping the chemistry alive requires both parties to see the need for it. One of the reasons my ex and I broke up (besides him lying) was because I got tired of impressing him. I was constantly trying to keep the relationship alive by going out of my way to do things to interest him, but it was useless and it just got verrry tiring. Both sides have to understand the importance of the relationship to keep it going. Good luck.

[aLiC3xNiN3]

Just asking =]

Well~~! awnser it. it's a simple question!! LOL

[mz_imperfect]

Definately the confident guy... I like guys that are assertive and take action.