[beana*]

I think that 'Jane' should just trust 'John'.
'Kelly' has a bf so she should be no threat to her.
But if 'John' keeps acting fishy when 'Jane' wants to get sandwiches by herself, then I think she should try to get a straight answer out of him. Like scared that 'Kelly' may do what to 'Jane'?
And the whole IM thing, maybe since they live in a small town and she doesn't have that many people on her buddy list. xD
If it bothers you THAT much, why don't you just ask 'John' to block her? Maybe because 'Kelly' had a crush on him for so long, she doesn't want their contact to stop.

well said

[onino]

I was JUST about to ask if there was a girl version in the guy thread. I'll ask a really vague question that really depends on the person, Ladies, what personality traits do you look for in a guy?

i like when a guy gets along with everybody!...funny, respectful, and must love me no matter what!...

Got another one, what do you girls think of a guy that is good with kids?

that's just the cutest ever!...

[onino]

I got one for you...ok maybe more than one...but here it goes.

Exactly what do girls want in a guy?
Do looks matter most?
How would you like for a guy to ask you out?
What could a guy do to make you more likely to date him?
If you got into a relationship with a guy what is a must in the relationship in order to prevent it from falling apart?
What is it that attracts you to a guy?

1: to be there for her when she needs it!
2: nope!
3: say it face to face, and not on the phone!
4: be nice with everyone...
5: understand each other!...
6: personality...

1) What specific thing can a guy do to make your knees weak?
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time?

1) carry a baby!...
2) i don't..
3) why not...?

[♥P U R E D O L L]

a.) Do you girls care if the guy has long hair?
YUP ! longish hair on asian guys are soo fly ~
but i think it varies for other races

b.) How long is too long?
anything that goes beyond the neck hair is EEEEK !

c.) Do guys worry about the repercussions of having long hair?
doesnt matter

[ShadowMax76]

do you fight your urge to change a guy for the better? or just do it, because it'll mean he'll grow into a better guy all round?

[XiaoMeiMei]

do you fight your urge to change a guy for the better? or just do it, because it'll mean he'll grow into a better guy all round?

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[junkers]

a.) Do you girls care if the guy has long hair?
YUP ! longish hair on asian guys are soo fly ~
but i think it varies for other races

b.) How long is too long?
anything that goes beyond the neck hair is EEEEK !

c.) Do guys worry about the repercussions of having long hair?
doesnt matter

i dont quite understand the "anything that goes beyond the neck hair". cuz my hair is at neck lenth. its medium-long. do you mind posting some pics

[1lasthope]

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[Slug]

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

[junkers]

ok, have one question,

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

[foreverursVi]

ok, have one question,

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

yes....haha.....show's he's thinking of me

[_ATELIER]

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

depends, it's always more flattering coming from someone you like,
you'll get more of a respond ie; blush, "you really think so?", giggles, omgg you're cute too aha... aha.
stuff like that, whereas random person gets a normal thanks with a smile =]

ok, have one question,

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

yes, sounds clingy but it's reasonable, considering he's my bf.

[sarah_kim]

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

Slug
Personally, I'll be happy but I won't be showing it outside too much if someone
called me "cute". (Maybe that's just me)
and since you said the latter (not knowing) I'd be looking for signs
or something that shows you're interested and there is something more
behind that comment.

and about fighting..
as long as it's not like fighting with people because your ego is the size of the
Himalayas, I think it's okay

[foreverursVi]

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

smile and say thanks.....i think you're (insert compliment/opinion here)

guys who fight are usually nicely built so NO...lol

[Xiaoba1tu]

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

1. If online: I'd take it as a compliment and assume he wants to be friends? Apparently the 'you look cute' thing doesn't really mean anything. >__>
(Was stupid enough last time to think that was he interested).

If offline: probably blush and think he has a lot of guts to say that.

2. Fight as in for keeping fit, like martial arts or something? There's nothing wrong with that. Just don't practise your moves on the streets and start useless fights.

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

At least once a day, either a call or msg would be good.

[Antz]

a.) Do you girls care if the guy has long hair?
b.) How long is too long?
c.) Do guys worry about the repercussions of having long hair?

well. my bf had kinda long hair and i thought it was cute but it was cuz i was used to it and i met him with that hair.. but ever snce he got a hair cut, i was like waaah too short. but now it's perfect and everyone said he looks better with shorter hair, i was like wtf. then i looked at old pics of us and omg! he seriously suits short hair. omfg. so long hair kinda is a no no for me now.

if a guy has long hair, it's gotta look clean and neat, and styled really nice. the only long hair i'd take, is Jaejoong from DBSK. but that's my opinion~

ok, have one question,

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

yes. LOL. to show that he still has time for me.

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

1. i'd be flattered ^^ and think that you're sweet, haha.
2. fight? hmm. my bf always pretends to fight.. it's kinda childish but cute in a way. if it's serious fighting, it's scary O_O

do you fight your urge to change a guy for the better? or just do it, because it'll mean he'll grow into a better guy all round?

i'd want to change a guy only if it would benefit OTHERS too. and that he desperately needs changing. if it's the guy as a whole, i'd forget about him altogether. :/

[junkers]

hey, i have more questions

How long do you usually talk to your bf on the phone? (Long story, she said i never have time for her..)

Do you like your guy being unclingy?? Like hed only call you if somethings important or he really misses you. But you guys do hangout every weekend.

[koneee]

Ok ladies, please enlighten me.

1. If I tell you you're cute, how do you react? [you don't know if i'm interested in you or not, but likely the latter]

2. Do you mind if a guy likes to fight(mma, boxing, kick boxing, etc.)?

1a. When my bf tells me I'm cute, I say, "YAAA I KNOWWWW, *tosses hair around*"
1b. If it's a friend who told me I'm cute, I would say, "YAAAAA, I Know, right??"
1c. If it was a stranger, I was say, ".. thanks...". ... *walks away....*

2. I don't mind if guys fight, as long as it's clean and nobody gets hurt.

ok, have one question,

do you expect your bf to call you everyday or at least text message you?

Well, since my boyfriend calls me everyday, I've gotten used to it. So if he doesn't call me, I would drive over to his house and run him over. .. And then give him a call.

hey, i have more questions

How long do you usually talk to your bf on the phone? (Long story, she said i never have time for her..)

Do you like your guy being unclingy?? Like hed only call you if somethings important or he really misses you. But you guys do hangout every weekend.

I talk to my boyfriend for... ranging from a couple of seconds on the phone.. until.. an hour or two? I can't talk on the phone with my boyfriend for that long, we usually talk right before we hit the sack too, so we end up falling asleep within minutes after hitting bed.

I don't like my guy clingy.. it's annoying. It's nice if he calls to say hi, but I think hanging out is a must. I enjoy quality time together.

[Nana.YahXD]

hey, i have more questions

How long do you usually talk to your bf on the phone? (Long story, she said i never have time for her..)

Do you like your guy being unclingy?? Like hed only call you if somethings important or he really misses you. But you guys do hangout every weekend.

well me and my ex at first we talked for like..4 hours maybe spend the whole night on the phone
but after awhile it became 2 hours? i dunno
but we talked everyday hahaha
D: man over work?

hmm for me i sorta like a guy whose clingy like i need a guy whose willing to spend time with me
and if he cant he better have a good reason why he cant
but like im used to not seeing my bfs for a while since most of my relationships
have been long distance

[Xiaoba1tu]

Do you like your guy being unclingy?? Like hed only call you if somethings important or he really misses you. But you guys do hangout every weekend.

For the clingyness it would be good if it was somewhere in the middle. Hanging out every weekend and calling when ''somethings important or he really misses you'' sounds alright.