[iEatPowder]

Dear lord, I just read that you were going to start modelling. Don't be so modest... that means you do have the looks. It's just bad experience girls have had in the past that makes them think that attractive guys are players (true story). Also, when girls push you towards the bed, have you ever thought of saying 'no'? Maybe if you do, they'd get that you want something serious.

Well, that's kind of who I am. I'm really nonchalant about everything. So it's basically my inaction that screws me as I mentioned earlier.

[megaSTEPxo]

Referencing to the video "Just a Nice Guy" ([media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrnK-qPARYI).[/media]

Do you girls think nice guys do finish last? How do you think guys feel when they are too nice, and they are being "forced" to change their attitude in order to be with someone they like?

I keep thinking that there are girls out there that would love being with a nice guy, and not USE them as well. Am I wrong and defying reality?

I personally think that nice guys shouldn't change the way they are in order to "get" a girl, but just be themselves.

What are your thoughts on this, girls? What are your point of views on nice guys?

No, you are not defying reality. I think there are definitely girls out there that would love being with a nice guy and not use them.

I think what may confuses a girl is that the guy is too nice to everyone that she might feel insecure to how he would treat his gf? If they end up in a relationship, would the nice guy places his other friends or family before his gf because he's too nice to reject them..and the guy might assume his gf would understand that when deep down, she's probably a bit upset that the nice guy never pays special attention to her??

Hmm yeah, I think it really depends on the scenario.. and how nice the guy is, the girl's personality, the depth of their relationship etc.

I personally wouldn't mind a nice guy as long as it's obvious that he treats me differently than he would treat his other friends.

[MiShi*~]

I just want to find a girlfriend that wants to get to know me and vice versa so we can have a steady relationship.

i have a hard time saying "no" i guess. I'm pretty nonchalant about everything and I just go with whatever's happening. =P So you're saying it's my lack of action that is working against me, because I'm not intentionally "playing along" with them.

WOW. guys like that actually exist?? where do i find more guys like you?
haha ur totally like my male counterpart. i have the same problems..
i want to find someone to share a steady relationship w/ but it seems all the guys just wanna fool around & aren`t looking for long term.

i have a hard time saying no too, so i know what you mean.. but it really is a disadvantage. i`m trying to fix it. & as stereotypical as it sounds, communication really is important if u want to build that steady relationship you want.

good luck!

[iEatPowder]

WOW. guys like that actually exist?? where do i find more guys like you?
haha ur totally like my male counterpart. i have the same problems..
i want to find someone to share a steady relationship w/ but it seems all the guys just wanna fool around & aren`t looking for long term.

i have a hard time saying no too, so i know what you mean.. but it really is a disadvantage. i`m trying to fix it. & as stereotypical as it sounds, communication really is important if u want to build that steady relationship you want.

good luck!

lol, yeah, guys that are sick of hook ups and flings. Generally, it seems like there are more girls with this problem than guys. Most guys I know are as you described - just looking to fool around. But I've been in a pretty serious relationship before, and I kind of want that again.

[aironeousB]

Lastly, answering your questions are one heck of a job..YOU better pay me !!!!

You are in Malaysia. Isn't the cost of labor pretty cheap there? Just kidding.

You didn't have to answer all of them. I thought this was a public service thread since we have a male p.o.v. thread it is an exchange.
I'm just trying to keep it interesting. But then again i really do appreciate all of this info. Some of it is very enlightening. All of my past gf's didn't like the unshaven face for sex.
I think it is cool that you know about light wavelengths.

[michele17]

ANSWERS::::

1) What's your definition of staring cuz i think it starts somewhere around 6 or 7 seconds or if you are obviously pretty and sexy and multiple guys are all looking at you at the same time then it's 4 seconds? staring is staring. if you look at someone for longer than a glance, its a stare

1a) What if i am "visually challenged?" If I'm near sighted it might take me 10 seconds of squinting and looking to figure out if you are attractive.
haha it still looks likes ur staring

Not to be confused with Stairing (hangigng out in the stair well) or Starring (being a lead in a movie).

2) Those buttons in the center of your shirt are interesting. Can i just gaze at them for a few seconds or will you get mad/annoyed?
NO. please, no

2a) You look at our chest and we don't say nothin! wazuppp?
(Can i get a high five from another guy)
we have boobs. our chests our different...there should be nothing to stare at. unless, ur not wearing a shirt and ur hot. then exceptions apply =]

2b) It is normal for people to occasionally turn their eyes away from looking at the other persons face when they are talking to them. Sometimes your chest is where i turn my eyes to. We can only avoid looking at it for so long ok? Can you just be understanding?
unless ur our boyfriend, no staring should occur where we can NOTICE its going on.

3) If you are obviously getting hit on by every category of guy cuz you're pretty and sexy is their any acceptable way to express my 2 cents to you that i also think you are very attractive?
For example, I walk out of the 711 and turn my gaze upwards from the stuff in my hands as i am pushing on the door and see you there all pretty/sexy and you see me looking at you. Can i just tell you "you're really attractive" without it getting filed under annoying comment number 113,834.
haha yeah, compliments are hot.

3a) Can i say, "You have a nice figure?"
no

4) why is the sky blue? I think it is the color of oxygen but i just want to hear what you girls think. I have a feeling that you have different theories about it.
oxygen isnt blue...the skys blue cause of a thing in physics called scattering. light molecules of cyan and magenta scatter in the air, reflecting blue. plus, the cyan-green of the ocean reflects and scatters in the sky.

5) I didn't know that so many of you don't like over confidence unless it's on the dance floor. That is really hard for me to wrap my wits around. Is their any other place or situation that you like us to be over confident? In bed maybe? Does it turn you on?
theres a difference between confidence and cocky. confidence is hot anywhere, even in the bed. and yes, it would be a turn on. cockiness is just lame. so dont do it

6) Why can't you just admit to all the guys here that you want us to shave (get rid of the sandpaper face) before sex and it is more important than shaving before work?
its a matter of a girls preference. i like shaven. i dont think it'd be more important than doing it before work, but it doesnt hurt

6a) Your BF hands you the electric shaver and turns it on and says "go ahead, shave me."
but he starts doing foreplay using his hands and it's really good. Is this ok or annoying?
its ok

7) Multiple choice
Your BF says to you "Your mom is kind of pretty. If i was an older guy i would have sex with her."

a) I can't believe you just said that, go away.
b. Thanks. she is pretty.
c) Really? I dare you to go tell her that!
d) Whatever
e) you really should keep those kinds of things to yourself
f) ooooooooo kkkkkkkkkk
ooooooooooo kkkkkkkkkk hahaha u perv

8) I have this funny habit of referring to females as girl or gal if they are in any way attractive to me and the other words (woman and lady) for females i use for those who i find unattractive. If you are in your early twenties will you get offended as if i am talking down to you if i refer to you as a girl? Do you want me to refer to you as a lady or women?
How about "Chick," can I call you that? Like "your the best chick I know." I am in my thirties which is why i am asking.
dont call me a girl. it sounds feminine coming from guys. and dont call me a chick either. haha just weirdddd

9 Can you share an apartment with a muscular guy that maybe looks average in your opinion?
..yes. y wouldnt i?

9a) Will you enjoy walking in on him showering and pretending it was an accident? Can we call you a pervert after that or is that word only for men?
i wouldnt pretend that its an accident. and thats not being perverted...so dun call us that

9b) For the example guy above, theoretically What would you feel if you find his sex toy? Do you get at all turned on from the mental pictures that pop into your head or do you think, "what a dork!"? i am not talking about a doll I mean something small.
eww. guys should NOT have sex toys. thats just weird

10) Will you appreciate a guy friends efforts that is trying to.... ahem "enlarge himself" if you find his device or pills or will you think he is a dork?
nonononononon never

10a) same question but boyfriend
nononononono never

11) Would you ever ask a guy friend to have sex with you cuz you are depressed or cuz you just got dumped?
i wouldnt. i'm sure some would...but not me

11a) If i am on your list of guy friends that want to be your BF can i move up on the list by beating up one of the other ones? I call it the waiting list.
uhh. no. that moves u down the list



that took foreverrrrrr

[lily-chan]

To aironeousB
1a) Just don't stare. If I can't see if someone's attractive or not, I'd rather not stare longer and creep them out.

2b) Can't you look somewhere else than our chest? I personally don't always look at the person when I talk... I'd look around while listening, but I don't check them out.

3) If I don't know you, I'd find it creepy.

5) If you're over confident, you better live up to your words and back your sh*t up. When you're over confident, you seem to be conceited and narcissic. Would you like a girl who's full of herself?

7) e) you really should keep those kinds of things to yourself.
If you just said my mom's pretty, I'd be okay with it. The rest, you can keep it to yourself.

9a) I find it really rude and inappropriate. So, I wouldn't do it to anybody, no matter how hot they are.

9b) I'd feel uncomfortable. Put it back where I found it and pretend it never happened­.

11) rofl. When I think about all of my guy friends, I don't see myself asking any of them. They're my friends. I'd find it too weird.

11a) Beating up as in physically hurting the other? I hate guys that can't use their brains and instead use their fists .
Okay, these were weird questions... so i decided to answer only a few.

[MoiraElla]

LOL aironeousB your questions are like

1) my defintion of staring is means you're interested to that person or think they're interesting looking or something's on their face.

1a) if you're visually challenged, i wouldn't care if you are. WHY WOULD YOU TRY TO HARD TO LOOK AT THEM ANYWAYS? thats what i would think o_o

2) LOL who looks at buttons? -0- If i notice you gazing at my "buttons" i would think you're looking at something more than that.

2a) what? -________-;;;;;

2b) WHAT? your questions are confusing..

3) yes you can, but you got to show respect.

3a) thats crossing the line for me sometimes o_o BUT yes you can but same answer with #3.

4) idk why the sky's blue. never thought about it

5) i don't like boys being so cocky or too confident...o_o

6) WHAT?!?!?! i dont know how to answer this, sorry.

6a) i dont know how to answer this, sorry.

7) never say that to your girlfriend. i would choose (e) and never talk to you again.

8) just say "miss"

9) depends on our relationship o_o

9a) depends on our relationship again. PERVERT isn't the only word for men. many girls are perverts tooo! we just hide it o_o

9b) what a lonely dork

10) >O<

10a) LOLLL~ dork for sure.

11) I would never ask a guy friend to have sex with me b/c i was depressed or got dumped. stupid stupid stupid way of getting over someone.

11a) NOOOOo!!!!!

[wasabi29]

You are in Malaysia. Isn't the cost of labor pretty cheap there? Just kidding.

You didn't have to answer all of them. I thought this was a public service thread since we have a male p.o.v. thread it is an exchange.
I'm just trying to keep it interesting. But then again i really do appreciate all of this info. Some of it is very enlightening. All of my past gf's didn't like the unshaven face for sex.
I think it is cool that you know about light wavelengths.

Yeah, the cos of labor is pretty cheap. Yeah, I answered because it's a public service thread..But man, that was long

Haha.

[yumiko123]

Referencing to the video "Just a Nice Guy" ([media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZrnK-qPARYI).[/media]

Do you girls think nice guys do finish last? How do you think guys feel when they are too nice, and they are being "forced" to change their attitude in order to be with someone they like?

I keep thinking that there are girls out there that would love being with a nice guy, and not USE them as well. Am I wrong and defying reality?

I personally think that nice guys shouldn't change the way they are in order to "get" a girl, but just be themselves.

What are your thoughts on this, girls? What are your point of views on nice guys?

haha im such a noob i didnt know how to use the quote thingy =p

i think it depends of what type of personality that girl likes, but if the guy has to change his atitude then the girls not worth being with right? thats just my opinion. girls who have a conscience wouldnt use a guy (unless they dont notice it ?)

and there are girls who would love to be with a nice guy (me included) but its just that they have to show that the girl they like is special :] like maybe pay more attention to her than others, maybe special things that dont have to be expensive . Usually girls that like cute things (cake haha). and dont be overly shy, thats a turnoff for me.

i watched that wongfu video, and i hate it when guys try to be someone else and make them jealous.

i think this problem is sortof the same for nice girls, they're never really noticed :[ guys probably think they're boring or something.

be strong nice guys !

[msLyn]

1) Staring is staring. Dictionary.com has a def. Some people can't help themselves.

1a) Do some guys really do that? I find that odd. o_O As for me, I wouldn't be staring at him so I most likely wouldn't know.


2) As long as you're not drooling, rolling your eyes, or having a hard on of lust, then it's all good.

2a) Slap some boobs on your chest & then maybe you'd know how it feels.

2b) Of course. *Refer to #2.

3) Sure. Verbally or in a letter is fine by me.

3a) Sure & I'll reply the same

4) Why the question?

5) Just don't bring it up so much as to be cocky. Almost everything about my guy turns me on.

6) Not me. I adore & prefer the rough look. I refuse to let my b/f shave even when he tells me how 'dirty' it feels. I love the look. Haha, a big turn-on.

6a) I'd tell him to get the shave away if he wants to see his balls function right again.

7) None -- I'd walk away from him.

8) Don't matter to me as long as I'm referred to as a female. I was first called, "M'am" when I was 13. So, yeah..

9 Of course. I roomed with 3 other guys in my apartment this past year and nothing ever happened between us.

9a) Absolutely. Call me whatever, but he'll still love me. =)

9b) I'd be like, "You've got me, why would you need something like this? So what....am I not enough for you?" Basically, ask him questions till he no longer buys anymore.

10) I'd tell him to forget it. Waste of money. Just be glad for what he has.

10a) Yeah. Be natural. Love him for who he is, not the size. -.-

11) Hell no.

11a) No. I only stick to one guy. My first will be my last.

[Mippy]

Do girls tease and call guys "mother f-ckers" or tell them to "go to h-ll"? Do you know anyone that does this? I don't know how to take this. Girls are confusing.

[msLyn]

Do girls tease and call guys "mother f-ckers" or tell them to "go to h-ll"? Do you know anyone that does this? I don't know how to take this. Girls are confusing.

Whoa...whoa. o_O How can saying those 2 things be considered "teasing?"

I myself would find those words really offensive. If a girls 'teases' you by saying those words, I'd leave them & ignore them. No one deserves that kind of talk.


But then again... when I get really angry @ my b/f...I've said hurtful things, but out of pure anger & spite. Go to h3ll was one of them. -.-

[sayuri43]

Do girls tease and call guys "mother f-ckers" or tell them to "go to h-ll"? Do you know anyone that does this? I don't know how to take this. Girls are confusing.

o_O that doesn't sound like teasing...
either that or the girl is very vulgar.
I wouldn't take that if I were you -___-
be a mannnn

[wasabi29]

Do girls tease and call guys "mother f-ckers" or tell them to "go to h-ll"? Do you know anyone that does this? I don't know how to take this. Girls are confusing.

Depends on the situation, you can't just ask a question like this blatantly. If you punched a girl accidentally, and she calls you that..Then you know she's not joking..But if you two were having a chat and you prob told her something outrageous, and if she says that and laughs..then it's just a joke.

[what~the~vu]

Is being called a dork a lot a good thing??

[RiderKamen]

Do girls tease and call guys "mother f-ckers" or tell them to "go to h-ll"? Do you know anyone that does this? I don't know how to take this. Girls are confusing.

rarely LOL
The younger generation and my generation say that crap SMH.

[MoiraElla]

Is being called a dork a lot a good thing??

ahahha, it means you're funny. i think

[predator]

Is being called a dork a lot a good thing??

Well when I call someone a dork, I mean it in a good way.
It means they're silly & cute ;D

[megaSTEPxo]

Is being called a dork a lot a good thing??

I would mean it in a good way too.. usually if I am teasing the guy
coz I don't feel like saying "You are so cute"
My definition of 'dork' would be someone who does something that's cute/sweet?