[forgottenmemories]

Sometimes I forget my phone number so I have to whip out my cell phone and check it. And yes, when someone asks for my number I expect to get their number also. I don't like it when a random number call me and I don't know who it is. Lol.

[grainsofrain]

Well, my bf wouldn't appreciate me giving out my number to a guy.
If it's like a classmate for school purposes, sure, but otherwise, no.

If the girl flips out their phone, it means they want your number, too. Unless it's those girls that don't know their own number and have to check it through their phone............

[pinkxstrawberry]

Hey ladies! I got a couple questions...

1) All my guy friends tell me that to attract girls, I should act kinda ass-holeish to them first, but then eventually turn out to be the nice guy. Is this really the right approach (I hope not cause I can't really act like a jerk)?

2) Whats a good way to show your girlfriend that you appreciate her?

Thanks!!

1) lmao! if u act like an a$$hole to them first then the first impression they ever get of u is that ur an a$$hole (which isnt a good thing )

2) I guess just to always be there for her and pay attention to the little things she says. i'd be flattered if i said somethin bout myself, e.g. wot my fav flower is then the next time we meet, he hands me a bouquet of my fave flowers or somethin. (corny...i kno but i can't explain any better)

[bumpngrind]

I'm trying to ask this one girl for hers. She's in my summer class. I've been gaming her up for weeks.

If she says no I don't know what I'll do lol...

[polaress]

I normally filter out phone calls, so I would need his # to know who to pick up and who to ignore. I don't see giving your phone number to a guy is a big deal, I guess its because I normally don't pick up phone calls unless I feel like talking to that person.

[saysjessi]

A few questions thanks ladies

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1: What would you do if you liked a guy and he told you he'd rather be friends? Would you still try and get closer to him or would you keep your distance? Does dating in the past make any difference to your decision?

I would give it up, because I'm not gonna chase after someone who's flat-out told me he's not interested. We can still be friends, though. The dating part of your question...I don't quite understand, sorry.

2: How often does age fit into your decisions when dating? Do you have any rules regarding who you date, like the fabled "Half guys' age + 7 years" rule?

To me, age is not really a factor, although I prefer guys older than me. I would go as far as 15 years my senior, but I stop there because then it's like dating my youngest uncle, and that's kind of gross. But age is not a make-it-or-break-it thing.

3: Would you rather be friends with someone first then date or would you date someone then become friends if it didn't work out?

Be friends first, then date. I don't stay friends with my ex-bf's.

4: Normally I don't meet/flirt with girls unless I find them attractive. Now that I think about it, I'm really not giving some beautiful girls the chance to show their me personality and I'm being really shallow. Is it wrong for me to meet girls who appear to attracted to me as potential friends rather than potential girlfriends?

4b: How can I avoid giving girls the wrong idea if I talking with her while she's flirting with me?

4c: Am I likely to fall into the friend zone permanently if I take this approach?

Well, since you've acknowledged the issue yourself, maybe work on seeing past a girl's appearance to her potential. It's kind of hard, but basically just be more open to meeting all kinds of people, not just those who show interest in you. If she's flirting with you and you don't want to lead her on, then just don't flirt back. Be polite and direct, no subtle messages or entendres. To your last question, there's actually nothing wrong with only flirting with ladies you find attractive...it's natural selection, after all. But the more receptive you are to meeting girls who might not live up to first-impression-standards, the more choices you will have available. ...So no, you won't permanently be in the "friend zone."

Edit
2b: If you're attracted to someone will find out their real differs from how they look and act, change your leve of attraction completely?

It depends, I guess. I've been (strangely) attracted to guys who are kind of arrogant, but then later I see a side of them that's actually very warm-hearted and genuine, and it makes me more interested. On the other hand, I've experienced people who are exactly the opposite of that, and it turns me off right away.

[oneday]

hi ladies,
would it be wise to ask your crush if he HAD any feelings for you? he asked me how to impress this other girl, so i'm assuming there's nothing between us now. But i'm curious as to if there ever was, should i ask, or hold my silence?

[FusionGT2]

Update:

So originally I thought she gave me the wrong number cuz the area code she gave me was 301, and it was a Maryland area code (she originally said it was an LA area code). So I figured ok I'll try 310 cuz that's an LA area code, maybe she was buzzed so she gave me the wrong area code, and to my surprise, it really was an error! So yah.. we talked for a bit about last night and all. Good stuff.. thats all the info i can say for now *cough*

[abercrombie_lover]

oneday

hi ladies,
would it be wise to ask your crush if he HAD any feelings for you? he asked me how to impress this other girl, so i'm assuming there's nothing between us now. But i'm curious as to if there ever was, should i ask, or hold my silence?

I say if you're interested you should ask him, but then again if he never have any feelings for you, then things are going to be different. He might act strange around you, maybe you should ask one of his friends to ask him.

[mocha-almond-fudge]

Yeah from all the info you gave I figured she was truly interested. About the whole 'player' thing she was just trying to be a little flirtatious with you. At least that's the vibe I get. Anyways, way to go buddy

[FusionGT2]

Yeah from all the info you gave I figured she was truly interested. About the whole 'player' thing she was just trying to be a little flirtatious with you. At least that's the vibe I get. Anyways, way to go buddy

hah she looked kinda serious when she was telling me that..but i guess im not used to how overseas japanese girls express themselves. lol was an interesting night though. I'm just glad i took the courage to go up to her and start talking, cuz normally i dont do that sorta thing (:

[bebeboo.]

hah she looked kinda serious when she was telling me that..but i guess im not used to how overseas japanese girls express themselves. lol was an interesting night though. I'm just glad i took the courage to go up to her and start talking, cuz normally i dont do that sorta thing (:

good for you for actually striking up a conversation with her (: (:

[Yuyu<3]

If a person that i think is interesting and what not is asking for my number I give it to them
If i don't want to give it to them i apologive and walk away
pretty much if she gave it to you
she digs you
if she didn't give it to you then she wasn't into you

[LOVE&FREEDOM_beautyofX]

well for me, i don't pick up random #s on my cell so if i think the guys okay, ill pull my cell out too... if i don't want him to have my #, i won't give it to him.. simple eh? or i'd put itin my cell and whenever that guy calle, i wouldn't pick up..

[Sleepy213]

I never asked anyone for their number..haha im so scared.
Anyways if anyone asked me for my number and I'm not interested..I would say I have a crush on someone sorry XD
yeaa I do have a crush on someone though..sigh

[mocha-almond-fudge]

Hey ladies! I got a couple questions...

1) All my guy friends tell me that to attract girls, I should act kinda ass-holeish to them first, but then eventually turn out to be the nice guy. Is this really the right approach (I hope not cause I can't really act like a jerk)?

2) Whats a good way to show your girlfriend that you appreciate her?

Thanks!!

1. How old are your guy friends? Honestly, that sounds like something middle-school kids do. If you like a girl the best way to win her over is to be nice and kind. Majority of girls like guys that are sweet and gentle towards them.

2. I would say the best way is by telling her directly. Of course thoughtful gestures are always nice too but personally I appreciate it when someone can just tell me in person all the things they appreciate and love about me.

[:0486]

haha usually when i pull out my cell i have to find my own cell phone number cos i forget XDD

but other than that, i wouldnt pull it out

is that mean?

[SUKIloo]

Wow kudos for you on asking the girl for her phone number.
From your comments though it seems as though she's quite
interested and you guys actually talked on the phone haha meaning
she's STILL interested.

[nefikaulika]

Got another one, what do you girls think of a guy that is good with kids?

lol I would hope that he doesn't have kids himself. lol jkjk. I'm thinkin long term so I would say, "Great he'll take care of them." But that's just me

[jacky48]

A few questions thanks ladies

~

1: What would you do if you liked a guy and he told you he'd rather be friends? Would you still try and get closer to him or would you keep your distance? Does dating in the past make any difference to your decision?

2: How often does age fit into your decisions when dating? Do you have any rules regarding who you date, like the fabled "Half guys' age + 7 years" rule?

3: Would you rather be friends with someone first then date or would you date someone then become friends if it didn't work out?

4: Normally I don't meet/flirt with girls unless I find them attractive. Now that I think about it, I'm really not giving some beautiful girls the chance to show their me personality and I'm being really shallow. Is it wrong for me to meet girls who appear to attracted to me as potential friends rather than potential girlfriends?

4b: How can I avoid giving girls the wrong idea if I talking with her while she's flirting with me?

4c: Am I likely to fall into the friend zone permanently if I take this approach?

Edit
2b: If you're attracted to someone will find out their real differs from how they look and act, change your leve of attraction completely?

~

Thanks Girls

1. Rejected. Keep my distance.

2. For me, I prefer older guys, but not too much older. I want to be with someone who's in the same place in life as I am.

3. I'd like to get to know them as friends first.

4. I don't really understand this question. Meet with whomever you want, and it doesn't have to be romantic, or even you know, a date.

4b. Don't flirt back, which means no touchy-feeliness, and just kind of lay off.

4c. No, you can become more than friends once you get to know her.

and 2b. Yes, it can.