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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:23 PM

QUOTE (Noncinema @ Aug 3 2008, 01:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Interesting. Like what?


Well, it depends on what kind of relationship you already with the girl. If you already know her, a compliment is always nice. Something not too creepy, of course. If its just a random girl, try to talk about something that is happenning around where you are, or something that you think you might have in common with her. Works better than any pick-up lines I know.
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:23 PM

QUOTE (7thprincess @ Aug 3 2008, 02:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A compliment isnt meant to be awkward. Now sexual harassment that is pure awkwardness and creepiness!

There is a difference:

"You look nice in that shirt" vs "Dang, shorty, you got junk in your trunk!"

You see what I mean?

1st one is the better one right? lol jk. So if I see a pretty korean girl, just go up to her and say "Nice shirt"?
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:30 PM

You know I'm a guy, but I'd think a random "nice shirt" is kinda creepy. But then again, it all depends on the release. You COULD make it work.

I have a related question though - would pick-up lines intended to fail work? As in, you say it for the lulz; to get the conversation going.
Or are you automatically fail-listed by the girl haha
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:35 PM

QUOTE (Noncinema @ Aug 3 2008, 02:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1st one is the better one right? lol jk. So if I see a pretty korean girl, just go up to her and say "Nice shirt"?


HAHHAHAAH. LOL! You are too cute!

Well you could be indirect and ask her for directions to some place. Lets say you are at the mall, you see a cute girl. Go up to her and ask her:

Hello, do you know where [insert store name here] is?

She replies.

Oh thanks. Btw, I am shopping for a gift for my younger sister, and I would like to know what is the latest fashion craze.

She replies.

and then you talk about what she said, and then you carry on the conversation.

I dunno, something like that is better than saying a pickup line. Sorry people, this is JUST AN EXAMPLE.

QUOTE (KAITOU KID. @ Aug 3 2008, 02:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You know I'm a guy, but I'd think a random "nice shirt" is kinda creepy. But then again, it all depends on the release. You COULD make it work.

I have a related question though - would pick-up lines intended to fail work? As in, you say it for the lulz; to get the conversation going.
Or are you automatically fail-listed by the girl haha


Hahaha LOL. It was an example!

It really depend on the release also! If you are going for the lulz it might work. It could work. If she laughs, then yeah there is a higher chance that i worked. But if she looks at you weird, you failed!
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:39 PM

QUOTE (7thprincess @ Aug 3 2008, 02:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
HAHHAHAAH. LOL! You are too cute!

Well you could be indirect and ask her for directions to some place. Lets say you are at the mall, you see a cute girl. Go up to her and ask her:

Hello, do you know where [insert store name here] is?

She replies.

Oh thanks. Btw, I am shopping for a gift for my younger sister, and I would like to know what is the latest fashion craze.

She replies.

and then you talk about what she said, and then you carry on the conversation.

I dunno, something like that is better than saying a pickup line.

Hey cute? IM 17 and too old for that dangit lol. Anyways, should I say it in korean? And what if she gives a weird answer like, I don't know?
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:43 PM

QUOTE (7thprincess @ Aug 3 2008, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hahaha LOL. It was an example!

It really depend on the release also! If you are going for the lulz it might work. It could work. If she laughs, then yeah there is a higher chance that i worked. But if she looks at you weird, you failed!

Excellent. For the lulz it is.

QUOTE (Noncinema @ Aug 3 2008, 05:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey cute? IM 17 and too old for that dangit lol. Anyways, should I say it in korean? And what if she gives a weird answer like, I don't know?

Cute is better than ugly. Etc. xDD

If you're trying pick up lines/conversation starters like those, I'm assuming you don't know the person. How will you know if she's Korean?
For what it's worth (as a guy) I'm semi-taken aback everytime someone talks to me in non-English when I first meet them, because I'm expecting English.
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:46 PM

Lol. pickup lines is a way to make girls laugh at you. yeahh... LOL.
well not all. but mostly whenever me&my friends hear a pickup line being used on us. we just laugh lol x_x

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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:46 PM

QUOTE (Noncinema @ Aug 3 2008, 02:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey cute? IM 17 and too old for that dangit lol. Anyways, should I say it in korean? And what if she gives a weird answer like, I don't know?


Most likely she will have an answer. She might actually say: I dont know, but I really like....blah blah blah.

The thing is, you dont know if she is korean or not. Unless you know she is korean, go ahead and say it in korean. But if you dont know, then say it in english.

If she doesnt know, then be witty and think of something quickly! LOL.
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:47 PM

LOL. I love it when my boyfriend uses pickup lines on me

a little odd when it's somebody else though
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:48 PM

it all depends on your level of hotness. if you're gorgeous...they're funny and cute.

if you're normal...you get punched.
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Posted 02 August 2008 - 11:51 PM

QUOTE (abusegirl @ Aug 3 2008, 02:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
it all depends on your level of hotness. if you're gorgeous...they're funny and cute.

if you're normal...you get punched.

Speaking of punched, that reminds me. I must be crazy, but i'm into those types of girls. The "gangster" ones. For some reason, they turn me on (not in a perverted way), just kind of my type sometimes. You know, someone with a KimJungHwa look. But ok, I can't say i'm gorgeous, but i'll say a lot of girls say im "cute". Wow, this is more complicated than i thought
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 12:51 AM

QUOTE (sunza @ Aug 2 2008, 11:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
whats yall ladies phone number? jk... hmmm

im approaching my 1 year and 4 months aniv and i want to give her something special, what should i give her?

and is it okay to ignore girls?


hum that's good you remember the anniversary...get something thoughtful.
not just flower & chocolate...something personal & handmade.
it's more than a year..you should be able to know what she likes..

and NO!!!! it's not ok to ignore girls..
what do you mean by ignore girl? you have other girls beside your gf?

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Posted 03 August 2008 - 01:04 AM

your pickup line must be something funny and something that is not used often
otherwise girls will have animated invisible cold sweat appeared from her forehead
when those pickup lines are too normal it will be 'lame'

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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:06 AM

this thread is confusing........
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:07 AM

i was watching wedding crashers yesterday...
ladies, does the pity card really work?
do you sleep with a guy because life sucks and you need someone next to you?
any of you grieving right now? laugh.gif
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:11 AM

QUOTE (watcher @ Aug 3 2008, 01:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i was watching wedding crashers yesterday...
ladies, does the pity card really work?
do you sleep with a guy because life sucks and you need someone next to you?
any of you grieving right now? laugh.gif



No. Life is too short to grieve. And why would I want a guy for that! I might as well get a dog.

The pity card? I dont know. I mean its kinda weird to sleep with someone right after you find out their grandfather passed away.

I mean thats just not right.

But if you are looking for a "boobie rub", then the pity card might work.
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:22 AM

Ok, this may be the dumbest and most obvious question asked in this thread, but I'm a bit shy and insecure so watever lol. So if a girl and I are "hanging out" just the two of us, and suddenly she holds my hand, and we like hold hands for awhile, that means she likes me right?

So sorry, may sound dumb, but I just need reassurance I guess lol.
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:37 AM

QUOTE (Javus @ Aug 3 2008, 01:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok, this may be the dumbest and most obvious question asked in this thread, but I'm a bit shy and insecure so watever lol. So if a girl and I are "hanging out" just the two of us, and suddenly she holds my hand, and we like hold hands for awhile, that means she likes me right?

So sorry, may sound dumb, but I just need reassurance I guess lol.



Hahah. LOL you are too cute! Yes of course she is interested!
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 10:48 AM

QUOTE (7thprincess @ Aug 3 2008, 11:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hahah. LOL you are too cute! Yes of course she is interested!


dang... where can i find a girl like that? im tired of making the move
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Posted 03 August 2008 - 01:20 PM

Ahh, missed my chance to goto the mall today. Ill try this week and keep the people updated here
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