[7thprincess]

QUESTION:THE DREADED FRIEND ZONE.. HOW DO YOU ESPCAPE IT? What do you all (open to men also) think about it and do you think it's possible to still get the girl after you've gotten out without her feeling pressured to do so?

I'm really sorry to say, but if a girl sees you as a friend, most likely you'll stay as a friend. The best way to get out of the friend zone is to NEVER ever end up in the friend zone in the first place.

I hate to be blunt, but I really think its low that guys become friends with girls with a motive to get with her. If you didn't want to be her friend in the first place, then flirt with her like crazy and let her know that you are interested in her, instead of keeping it in and hoping that she will like you back.

If you are in the friend zone, I suggest you to confess to her and let her know how you feel. It might or will make the relationship awkward, but at least she knows how you feel. And who knows she might've developed a little thing for you.

But dont get your hopes so high, because like I said before, if you're a friend, a friend you'll remain to be.

[Slug]

I'm really sorry to say, but if a girl sees you as a friend, most likely you'll stay as a friend. The best way to get out of the friend zone is to NEVER ever end up in the friend zone in the first place.

I hate to be blunt, but I really think its low that guys become friends with girls with a motive to get with her. If you didn't want to be her friend in the first place, then flirt with her like crazy and let her know that you are interested in her, instead of keeping it in and hoping that she will like you back.

If you are in the friend zone, I suggest you to confess to her and let her know how you feel. It might or will make the relationship awkward, but at least she knows how you feel. And who knows she might've developed a little thing for you.

But dont get your hopes so high, because like I said before, if you're a friend, a friend you'll remain to be.

but wait a minute..

a lot of girls don't want to jump into relationships. so being friends is easier to start off with.

[BrittanyKim]

do girl like virgin boy?

Yes. Virgins are good.

but wait a minute..

a lot of girls don't want to jump into relationships. so being friends is easier to start off with.

Well, you start off as friends but friends that flirt ya dig?
I'm sure you have gal friends that you flirt with - then the relationship builds from that if you two like flirting with eachother. Spend some alone time(:

[7thprincess]

but wait a minute..

a lot of girls don't want to jump into relationships. so being friends is easier to start off with.

True, but I am talking about the "nice guys" that likes the girl, become friends with the girl, doesn't initiate anything because they are "friends", and still hopes that he can get the girl. But in the end the girl only got "friend vibes," and the "nice guy" blames the girl for not seeing his "nice-ness."

I mean starting off as friends is good and safe, but just dont act like a friend, act like a guy who is interested in her.

[CheeseBun]

ok i just post a question on Ask the Ladee topic

LOL! This is too cute! Haha.

Of course why wouldn't the girl like the virgin boy.

now i wanna know the reasons
well yeah i m a virgin, my freind prolly gunna laugh their ass off if they ask me this question
prolly saving it for my one life one love *one*~ do u think i m out-of-date still carry these kind of thought???
now a day everybody is like *doing it *

[7thprincess]

dude you could've just replied back in ASK THE LADIES thread!

[Harbl]

Perhaps they wouldn't like to because of inexperience? Or maybe (and correct me if i'm wrong) i would imagine girls take their first time and virginity more seriously and consider it more important than most guys, and as such they wouldn't want to de flower (sounds so weird) the guy as they know their probably not "the one" especially if they themselves are already experienced sexually.

[CheeseBun]

ok i just post a question on Ask the Ladee topic




now i wanna know the reasons
well yeah i m a virgin, my freind prolly gunna laugh their ass off if they ask me this question
prolly saving it for my one life one love *one*~ do u think i m out-of-date still carry these kind of thought???
now a day everybody is like *doing it *

OKIE DOKIE!
edit: shyt, quoted the wrong person....

[ShadowMax76]

number one rule: girls [+guys] like to feel special.

unfortunately guys don't really think about how a girl would feel about their body being used and trusted to a person.
oO guys feel a little scared when they date a girl who's had sex before. ya know,.. the 'standard' mark already set. =[
but atleast they've had experience, so it'll be fun if you're both open about it. learn new things. x]


-ahem- wonder if that's goin' too far? oO but. interesting none the less.

[CheeseBun]

True, but I am talking about the "nice guys" that likes the girl, become friends with the girl, doesn't initiate anything because they are "friends", and still hopes that he can get the girl. But in the end the girl only got "friend vibes," and the "nice guy" blames the girl for not seeing his "nice-ness."

I mean starting off as friends is good and safe, but just dont act like a friend, act like a guy who is interested in her.

i m a meanass tho >.>
post it on my topic i dont feel like do all the scroll

[CheeseBun]

i kinda dont like used car* tho
since i m not used *

[Harbl]

-ahem- wonder if that's goin' too far?

When things that shouldn't be put in certain places get put in places that aren't meant to have things in them.

[7thprincess]

i m a meanass tho >.>
post it on my topic i dont feel like do all the scroll

sorry kid, most likely the mod will move your thread to here.

[pochacco]

Virgin girls like virgin guys.. non-virgin girls will laugh at virgin guys.. and virgin guys go for both virgin and non-virgin girls, because frankly, we don't give a fcuk, we just want to.

[heyitzthatfc]

I'm really sorry to say, but if a girl sees you as a friend, most likely you'll stay as a friend. The best way to get out of the friend zone is to NEVER ever end up in the friend zone in the first place.

I hate to be blunt, but I really think its low that guys become friends with girls with a motive to get with her. If you didn't want to be her friend in the first place, then flirt with her like crazy and let her know that you are interested in her, instead of keeping it in and hoping that she will like you back.

If you are in the friend zone, I suggest you to confess to her and let her know how you feel. It might or will make the relationship awkward, but at least she knows how you feel. And who knows she might've developed a little thing for you.

But dont get your hopes so high, because like I said before, if you're a friend, a friend you'll remain to be.

I don't need the sympathy, I guess you guys read my question wrong, because I escaped that pinkberry lol. I meant because there's a lot of topics about it, what were your ways to escape it (I should've put how *did* you escape it instead) AND THEN my question was how to get the girl after that situation, without them feeling pressured. It's out in the open that I like her and I'm really "aloof" about it I guess, she already knows that I'm not there to be her friend. I got into the friend zone on accident when we met and then I made that mini cooper clear.

And I don't know if it's just you, but I don't see a problem at all with becoming a friend and then trying to get with somebody. Using the word motive seems backstabbing, but I'm friends with everybody so I don't really know about that kinda mini cooper..

[Harbl]

If a girl tells you that "you're totally disgusting!" but stills go out of her way to say goodbye to you, does it mean she's hot for you?

[chopstick^^]

Is thre a very good reason why i would like a boy who sleeps around with girls? .....
so instead of this ^ .. u think being a virgin is worst? .. where u got this idea from? o_O

i dont know why u think being a virgin is an issue.. i dont think it is.. infact, the chance i will date someone is, if they a virgin!

this does relate so much to personality u know! A guy who is a virgin, means he respects the girl who hes dating, trying to protect her from getting hurt if anything go's wrong.. so she wouldnt had lost anything to him.. that is a gentleman.. pitty not many guys r like that out there! ... all they care about is themselve.. wot they want!!

[Telmedragon]

True, but I am talking about the "nice guys" that likes the girl, become friends with the girl, doesn't initiate anything because they are "friends", and still hopes that he can get the girl. But in the end the girl only got "friend vibes," and the "nice guy" blames the girl for not seeing his "nice-ness."

I mean starting off as friends is good and safe, but just dont act like a friend, act like a guy who is interested in her.

What if you started off as friends, but then slowly started to develop interest during the course of the friendship o_O?

[yunhoXmoi]

first of all..
elaborate "GOING OUT OF HER WAY"

but i think it contained a little flirting though.
just the type of thing to not take too too seriously but yet its still there.
no one knows for sure right? unless youre her..which we're sadly..NOT =(

[shirotaka]

"I can be so much...they just don't give me a chance." I came across this quote and found that it was meaningful.

What do you girls feel about this quote? If its coming from a friend who likes you, a guy of course, how would you feel? This is particularly applying to those that are rejected time and time again. From one or by many.