[-epik]

Umm... there's a thing called a phone? You could try that.
If worse comes to worse, talk to a mutual friend about it and if they're mature enough, they'll relay what you said back to the girl without twisting your words.

But if I were in your situation... I wouldn't bother. People who spread rumors are immature douche bags and just want attention. If she's gonna be a douche bag about it then let her be. And if my friends choose to believe her over me? That just tells me what great friends I have and whether they're worth my time or not. At most, I'll tell them "that's not what happened. THIS is what happened, if you don't want to believe me, that's your problem."

Thanks, that's basically what I'm doing.
But it feels kinda rather infelicitous to just leave it as it is. And phoning her would be a no-no. I HATE phoning her. Ugh.
thanks though!

[eximius]

Well, I guess you're either going to have to talk to mutual friends or just leave it be. :\

[EtherealEnigma]

roughly 40 minutes after. oh wait i'm a guy.

How much did it cost?

[Harbl]

okay so i have a question for you ladies. lets say that youve been with a guy for about a 7 months and like.. suddenly you had to move to like 350 miles away. and like the next time you see your bf will be in 5 months or so... when winter break is. and then your bf wants to suprise you. what would be the best suprise ever. it can be mails, cards, anything. well except the bf flying there to see you . what else would really be excited to get?

Shave all your body hair off and mail it to her. So hot.

[Sweetraindrops]

i walkk too arbyy too buyy some stuff.. and wheen i walk outt myy carr.. thiss girll look far awayy and smilee mee... i look her and look awayy.. later i look back her.. she make this frown face... what ii doo wrongg..

[litoaznbabix91]

okay so i have a question for you ladies. lets say that youve been with a guy for about a 7 months and like.. suddenly you had to move to like 350 miles away. and like the next time you see your bf will be in 5 months or so... when winter break is. and then your bf wants to suprise you. what would be the best suprise ever. it can be mails, cards, anything. well except the bf flying there to see you . what else would really be excited to get?

Well you can't fly over there but you can mail yourself. Hahha Not literally but like make a video of yourself telling her how much you miss her blab blab and all that mushy romantic stuff. It would be cute and she would be able to see you.

[myxo]

i walkk too arbyy too buyy some stuff.. and wheen i walk outt myy carr.. thiss girll look far awayy and smilee mee... i look her and look awayy.. later i look back her.. she make this frown face... what ii doo wrongg..

You're a sad, sad kid, you know that?

okay so i have a question for you ladies. lets say that youve been with a guy for about a 7 months and like.. suddenly you had to move to like 350 miles away. and like the next time you see your bf will be in 5 months or so... when winter break is. and then your bf wants to suprise you. what would be the best suprise ever. it can be mails, cards, anything. well except the bf flying there to see you . what else would really be excited to get?

Coming from someone who's been in an LDR-ish before, receiving anything in the mail from him made me happy. I only like cards if there's a thoughtful message inside. I remember he used to send me cards, but all he wrote inside were his name, and not even an "I miss you" or "I love you." I've always thought handwritten letters were sweet too, though he never did write me any because he said it was "a waste of time." Clearly, anything that shows you've put in some effort will be appreciated... or anything expensive will have the same effect too. Kidding.

Okay, so this girl I dated and broke up with is being a b.itch and spreading weird rumours and stuff..
I used to be friends with her before we hooked up, and I really don't like the idea of her being an enemy or anything.
How could I approach her and talk to her about it? Can't IM, we did blocked + deleted each other.
Man. This girl was weeeeeird. She is very manipulative, and a lot of my friends believed the weird things she spread. = =

That's quite unfortunate for a relationship to end that way. You have to approach her. I don't know what mechanisms you have to get through to her, but just talk to her and try to have a nice closure.

[gyeonxx123]

i walkk too arbyy too buyy some stuff.. and wheen i walk outt myy carr.. thiss girll look far awayy and smilee mee... i look her and look awayy.. later i look back her.. she make this frown face... what ii doo wrongg..:unsure:

i don't think you did anything wrong.
unless she wanted you to come but...
i still think you did nothing wrong LOL (:

[watcher]

if u know ur butt is big, why must you ask your boyfriend every time you get ready to go out whether ur butt looks big? do you just want to find a reason to hurt someone or get angry???

[shirahime]

^ she just want to share her worries I guess or thinking out loud. At those occassion just say that you don't notice anything unnormal on her and kind of brush it of like it's no big deal.

[Rhiya]

Delete Delete

[mintcracker]

^ you know how heaps of ppl after breaking up feel the need reinvent themselves (cutting their hair, dyeing it, or changing their style)


I think it's just a way to gain your identity back. For these two years, you've become used to be thought as 'one' person, or as a couple, now that you're by yourself, you're kinda trying to find yourself again.

Well that's what I think. Hope that helped <3

[Sweetraindrops]

You're a sad, sad kid, you know that?

what...

what you thinkk i doo..

i don't think you did anything wrong.
unless she wanted you to come but...
i still think you did nothing wrong LOL (:

i knoww righht.. i lookk awayy.. whatt wrongg that..

[Slug]

How much did it cost?

85mph person, roughly 60 dollars
75mph person, roughly 53 dollars

[[HyuNi]]

You're a sad, sad kid, you know that?

that has to be the best reply in here.

I think our trigger happy friend believs any eye contact with a female means she's interested.

[marvinoppa]

what drives a girl to be a complete b-word?

it seems that she targets me only. i mean...please, get off my nuts. some kind of mental deficiency? do i remind her of somebody that did her wrong? did she make a pass at me that i lightly brushed out? did i mis-signal? maybe she's bitter? or ugly? or both?

[ShinAoshi]

what drives a girl to be a complete b-word?

it seems that she targets me only. i mean...please, get off my nuts. some kind of mental deficiency? do i remind her of somebody that did her wrong? did she make a pass at me that i lightly brushed out? did i mis-signal? maybe she's bitter? or ugly? or both?

Although I'm not a girl this has happened to me. I basically told her to mind her manners and didn't talk to her till she started being nice. Let her know that your not going to put up with it and will talk to her when she learns some basic manners and common courtesy.

[ju-ju]

Ever since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, I've felt the need to change myself. I don't think I've been changing myself to his likings but I have been trying to change, whether it be my personality or my clothing. I've grown to be more conscious of my appearance and behaviors. In a sense, I've gone from tomboyish to a tad more girlie.

I suppose I should add more about our breakup: In short, he was my first real love. We'd known each other for over a decade and dated for nearly two years. Our relationship didn't end well, and today we're not on speaking terms. He broke up with me and I soon learned he cheated on me, had secured a relationship with his current girlfriend, and then broke it off with me. It's been nearly 6 months since then.

What exactly am I doing? And why? I would've understood it better if I did this while we were dating..

I think you feel like you need to change yourself is because... you don't know what you did to make him cheat on you. Like, your changing your personality and your looks because you think that maybe this is why he broke up with you. I had the same problem too.. my boyfriend a year ago broke up with me and he never really gave me a reason why, and i just kept on guessing that it was my problem. I don't have style like other girls and my personality is just weird. Did he every give a reason why he cheated on the first place? Is the girl that he is currently dating girly and wear stylist clothes?

Also it is very hard to forget about him, he was bascially your good friend and your first love.

[songssiissii]

what drives a girl to be a complete b-word?

it seems that she targets me only. i mean...please, get off my nuts. some kind of mental deficiency? do i remind her of somebody that did her wrong? did she make a pass at me that i lightly brushed out? did i mis-signal? maybe she's bitter? or ugly? or both?

MAYBE u did or said something and now she hates you

[BrittanyKim]

what drives a girl to be a complete b-word?

it seems that she targets me only. i mean...please, get off my nuts. some kind of mental deficiency? do i remind her of somebody that did her wrong? did she make a pass at me that i lightly brushed out? did i mis-signal? maybe she's bitter? or ugly? or both?

LOL, probably she has a mental deficiency... Jaykay
I'm not that mean.
But on a serious note - Maybe she does it cause she likes you?
If she only acts like that to you, it's cause you're special
I don't know if it's a good special or a bad special, but you're special
enough for her to act like a female dog around you...