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#3951 Taro.

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 12:44 PM

friend and i were debating this the other day so i need your guys opinion

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 12:46 PM

Flat out no, but since you're saying 'less' intelligent, maybe. If he were one of those meat heads, I wouldn't be able to stand it.

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#3953 abusegirl

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 12:47 PM

no.

like i said before, we all get old and saggy and wrinkly and start smelling like ben-gay.

i don't care how hot the guy is, if he can't hold a decent conversation or can't figure out how to use google without my assistance...not gonna happen. I'd do him...but absolutely no to keeping him.

#3954 LightsPower

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:05 PM

Haha, nope...the guy's intelligence needs to be the same as me or be smarter than me. Stupidity turns me off completely. I wouldn't care if he looked like [insert hot korean celeb here].

#3955 mitchybits

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:12 PM

Depends on how "less intelligent" that person is.
I mean not all people can be book smart.
There are many people who don't have book smart but
they're really clever on their street smart & vice versa.
As long as that person can hold a conversation & know
exactly what the hell they are talking about then I'm fine.

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#3956 Kittykitt129

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:16 PM

I wouldn't if I had half a brain and wasn't a TOTALLY INFLUENCED teenager...but I have. Twice. And I don't think I'll do it again...it's so awkward.

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#3957 CitrusFlower

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:19 PM

No. I'm not even that smart myself, I only get good grades for doing my work so if that guy IQ isn't as good as mine

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#3958 tofu plushie

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:23 PM

No, I want to date someone more intelligent than me. Looks are great but, they eventually fade, I prefer intelligence.

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:26 PM

QUOTE (mitchybits @ Aug 14 2008, 05:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

That sums up my position. The guy doesn't have to be smarter than I am, nor does he have to be exactly at the same level in all respects. As long as he's intelligent enough for me to get along with well and take seriously, there's no problem. I would never date an idiot, though, no matter how physically attractive. Also, if a guy's not as smart, he'd better at least be a great guy in other ways.

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#3960 manlytoe

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:28 PM

you know, i was debating this question with myself.
there's this chinese guy i know, he's very good looking, has a sweet personality, and has a great sense of humor, but isn't really smart.

i mean, i just didn't know what to do or say because i am smarter than him. ahhhhh!
so, what he was really good at was teaching me chinese. so that's what happened.
i mean, would i date him sure. it would never hurt to give it a try. hahah! plus he's already gotten 3 positives.

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#3961 random koohkie

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:32 PM

Depends on how "less intelligent" he is than me.
I would much rather have someone who is on the same level of intelligence as me so I can have a meaningful conversation with them.

#3962 ttris

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:33 PM

no.. he has to be more intellegent then me or the same as me... who cares about how hot he is... in a few months he will turn upside down.. so yeah.. intellegent guys are hotter... way hottter... =)

#3963 hippiehop

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:34 PM

you spelled intelligent wrong.

Anyway, I think most girls find intelligence attractive. But I think hardworking is more important... if he shows to work hard at his schooling or his work then that definitely means more... but I wouldn't want to be with a guy who struggled at a community college to get C's. That's.... just.... too extreme.

#3964 coconuttiez

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:38 PM

QUOTE (hippiehop @ Aug 14 2008, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

you spelled intelligent wrong.

I was just about to point that out myself xD

I probably would not date someone who is significantly less intelligent than I am -- but intelligence is not limited to book smarts.

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#3965 Taro.

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:48 PM

for example:
the guy is about 60-75% range student
the girl is about 75-90% +

#3966 colloquy

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 01:52 PM

Yes. It is easier for me to manipulate guys who are dumber than I am.. KEKEKE.

But I don't think we'd have a fun, balanced relationship, so it would not be good for him.

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#3967 beana*

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 02:37 PM

yeah it really 'depends' on how less intelligent they are because i'm slow as it is, it takes me awhile to comprehend some things and i need someone that's able to help me work through that.

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 02:40 PM

My girlfriend is 10x smarter than me and were doing fine...at least in my eyes. I hope she wasn't thinking like this when she got with me :/

#3969 YukiHana

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 02:44 PM

LOL! my mom said you can date someone stupid.. but you can't not marry one.....
if your a girl you will always marry so one smarter then you...
^^ i dont really get it yet.... but she study physicology so yah...

My theory is that... if you dating someone who is supposeely stupider then you... you are even more stupid for dating them ^_______^... not to be mean or anything... hopefully you get what i mean.. ^^ There are many ways to express intelligent.

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Posted 14 August 2008 - 02:46 PM

QUOTE (colloquy @ Aug 14 2008, 02:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Yes. It is easier for me to manipulate guys who are dumber than I am.. KEKEKE.

LOL hahahahaha

I've dated a guy deemed "less intelligent" than me in the past. He wasn't genuinely stupid though....just lazy when it came to studying. Okay, I guess that doesn't really count

Anyways.

I would never date a guy who was not on at least the same level of intelligence as myself. Looks are nothing; personality is everything. I like a guy who's articulate and cultured. My parents are against me dating someone with less education than myself as well.

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