soompi forums: Ask The Ladies - Read First Post - soompi forums

(454 Pages)
« First
←
199
200
201
202
203
→
Last »

Ask The Ladies - Read First Post discuss about behaviors and relationships from female P.O.V.

#4001 love_hurts

KPOP lover

Group: Members
Posts: 335
Joined: 30-June 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 06:38 PM

LOL.
Well, it depends. I mean I am willing to date someone stupider than me.
That way, I will feel smart.
But really, girls do anyways. It depends how cute he is.
I mean, if he is cute. Who cares if he is stupid. I mean, I won't. Love the question.

currently reading: Covered in Shadow :
recommendation: A Year and A Day :________SAVED :
My Creation: Oracle

#4002 phanda

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 162
Joined: 01-July 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:01 PM

depends HOW stupid the guy is. ROFLLL

#4003 MaryMagdalin

ⓡⓔⓘ♥≧ω≦

Group: Friends of Soompi
Posts: 15,117
Joined: 09-October 05

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:06 PM

um sure if i like him
as long as he`s not a complete idiot

maybeforever

MyShop. clickit.

#4004 chaoticrose

back in the game

Group: Members
Posts: 1,311
Joined: 04-October 05

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:23 PM

It would be far easier to have an interesting relationship with an intellectually stimulating person. I mean, humor’s important too, but humor also stems from intellect. Not that knock-knock-who’s-there kind of humor. Looks are only important for a first impression, but for a relationship, I guess you need a little of both? If you can't have both, go with the latter. I think it'll be tiring to explain when he doesn't understand something for the umpteenth time LOL.

#4005 xdeathberry

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 1,564
Joined: 06-July 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:29 PM

For me, being less intelligent's kind of an issue.
I mean, if their sincerity and hard-working-ness
out balances, I'm fine.
As long as they're not stupid.
=__=
If they're an idiot, heck no.

But I'd prefer someone whose
intelligence matches or exceeds my own.

Are we human or are we dancer?

#4006 可愛い

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 775
Joined: 19-May 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:49 PM

hell yeah. especially if he's really hot. he can just stfu while i stare at him & make him my eye candy arm-piece @ the freakin mall.

#4007 ` ilytoo;

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 1,414
Joined: 30-April 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:55 PM

god no, i had a fling with a guy who was like stupid, and i couldn't take it anymore. i always had to explain things to him and when i say never mind, he would go " no no no no come on tell me" when i did he got confused!

#4008 Rekidai

Ritsuka Fan ♡

Group: Members
Posts: 2,471
Joined: 04-October 05

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:57 PM

maybe; depends how less intelligent : )

My 411 - ✩♚happy-bunbun♚✩

#4009 x_twinkletoes

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 277
Joined: 06-October 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 07:59 PM

it depends,
but i perfer for him to be at the same level of intelligence as me or smarter (:

#4010 bbyxwinnie

strawberry milkshake`

Group: Members
Posts: 3,759
Joined: 26-January 06

Posted 14 August 2008 - 08:15 PM

if he's a retard then no. if he's just a little less intelligent then most likely

#4011 juiceybox

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 989
Joined: 07-February 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 08:20 PM

It would depend on how less intelligent he was.
If he was a complete idiot, then I wouldn't cus I'd feel like.. I was talking to a brick wall most of the time.

♥ Be who you are and say what you feel because
those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

tumblr. facebook. twitter.

#4012 `123

I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND!

Group: Members
Posts: 568
Joined: 22-April 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 09:04 PM

i wouldnt mind but as long as he wouldnt be the type that would be like .... STUPID with no common sense when he does things

#4013 joie.de.vivre

"..the air in your lungs is there for a reason"

Group: Members
Posts: 1,987
Joined: 29-March 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 09:12 PM

i can deal with a guy a *little less intelligent than i am

Our species is the only creative species, and it has only one creative instrument, the individual mind and spirit of a man... Posted Image

#4014 Chanellas

Commander-in-chief of my pimp ship flyin high ♪

Group: Members
Posts: 2,635
Joined: 15-December 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 09:19 PM

It doesn't matter, as long as they smell nice. =]
I'm attracted to them for their looks, but I'd only stay for their personality.

I wouldn't mind if he was a complete idiot, as long as he isn't an ahole.
He may be an idiot, but he is nice. lol

#4015 bloopy_babo

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 4,614
Joined: 04-October 05

Posted 14 August 2008 - 09:26 PM

Probably not. I would one - feel like super geeky or smartbutt if I see "intelligent" things, two - he would not get my nerdy/geeky/intelligent remarks.

I prefer similar or the same intelligence level.
I don't rule it out to not date guys who are as smart as me,
but I think it would make it easier.

♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥ -- A N-- O R I G I N A L --S O O M P I --S H O P -- ♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥

- ♡ ♥ N--O--W-----O--P--E--N ♥ ♡ -
empress ck says

#4016 therey

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 55
Joined: 30-March 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 09:44 PM

what differentiates a guy from a "friend" and a "boyfriend?" i always hear stories where some guy likes a girl but she only sees him as a "friend."

#4017 eeemily

Group: Members
Posts: 2,993
Joined: 02-August 07

Posted 14 August 2008 - 10:07 PM

QUOTE (therey @ Aug 14 2008, 10:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

what differentiates a guy from a "friend" and a "boyfriend?" i always hear stories where some guy likes a girl but she only sees him as a "friend."

hmm, for meeee i'd say..
as a friend, that just means she's not looking for a relationship/intimacy
just someone to talk to, hang out with but no kissing, etc.
boyfriend is definitely another level of affection.

shop! :D

#4018 RawrRawr

i put on for my city `

Group: Members
Posts: 524
Joined: 22-July 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 10:13 PM

QUOTE (therey @ Aug 14 2008, 10:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

what differentiates a guy from a "friend" and a "boyfriend?" i always hear stories where some guy likes a girl but she only sees him as a "friend."

Simple.
The difference is whether or not they like each other.

IT HAS TO BE MUTUAL.

If a guy likes a girl, and it's not mutual, HE IS NOT HER BOYFRIEND.

♥♥♥ God, I want to dream again. Take me somewhere I've never been. This time I'm not scared. ♥♥♥ facebook ♥♥♥

#4019 saranghaese7en

Group: Members
Posts: 3,238
Joined: 03-April 06

Posted 14 August 2008 - 10:18 PM

QUOTE (therey @ Aug 15 2008, 12:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

what differentiates a guy from a "friend" and a "boyfriend?" i always hear stories where some guy likes a girl but she only sees him as a "friend."

friend = just a friend
boyfriend = girl has huge crush on guy
lol.

am3izing.tumblr.com

#4020 Wendyyy

Member

Group: Members
Posts: 911
Joined: 04-June 08

Posted 14 August 2008 - 10:26 PM

QUOTE (therey @ Aug 14 2008, 11:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

what differentiates a guy from a "friend" and a "boyfriend?" i always hear stories where some guy likes a girl but she only sees him as a "friend."

For me, the only difference are the "feelings."
If I don't have those I-Like-You-More-As-A-Friend feelings, then I can't see them as more than just a friend.
Different girls get those feelings for different guys.
It's like when a guy finds one girl attractive and another one not as attractive, but his guy friend argues that the other one is more attractive.
Everyone's different yea?