[kryiss]

ahaha i would have to say no.
no matter how great looking he is... i like to have intelligent conversations so he should be at least as smart as me or smarter. but then what i see as "intelligence" is just knowing the basics and just be a normal all-around all-knowing guy. like i don't expect him to know how to do calculus or explain everything about chemistry... but he should just be... you know... knowledgeable. heh heh... i hope i made sense there xD

[s a t a n g *]

depends how less intelligent

if he's one of them lost cases that dont anything then no.

if he was just a bit then maybe

[7thprincess]

Asked this is the Ask the Fellas thread, but I'd like my fellow girls input as well...

I know the likelihood of a college relationship working out is slim to none, but my boyfriend is convinced we will work. I am less optimistic and I told him, but he is still convinced it will work. I just don't think he knows how difficult it would be, what with our schedules, and him commuting to school and then getting a part time job. He told me he'd always be thinking of me, and he'd call, and visit whenever he could, but...I just don't know. He's a very steadfast guy, and we're so happy together. But I just wonder sometimes.

What's your opinion? Would we last?

I understand why you feel that way. Because honestly it is hard. Its all about time management, really. If he is willing to, and from the looks of it he definitely does, then you should give it a try.

[IATEYOU]

Asked this is the Ask the Fellas thread, but I'd like my fellow girls input as well...

I know the likelihood of a college relationship working out is slim to none, but my boyfriend is convinced we will work. I am less optimistic and I told him, but he is still convinced it will work. I just don't think he knows how difficult it would be, what with our schedules, and him commuting to school and then getting a part time job. He told me he'd always be thinking of me, and he'd call, and visit whenever he could, but...I just don't know. He's a very steadfast guy, and we're so happy together. But I just wonder sometimes.

What's your opinion? Would we last?

hey. i think i know exactly how you feel. i know a lot of my other girl friends are having lots of trouble with this with their boyfriends, too. i decided to stay together with my bf. why break up over something that might happen in the future? we're very good over the phone and fb and even if we break up, it doesnt have to be now.

my other close girl friend just went to college today and broke up with her bf of one year yesterday. she cried so much (and him too) and it was the saddest thing ever. they still text each other but they are just miserable.

i seriously debated breaking up with my bf, but now i am so happy. i have someone who will always be there for me (i mean, im sure my friend's bf will be there for my friend as well...but its different in a way)

give it a shot. if you guys break up, well...that happens. but why not make an effort to try staying together? good luck =)

it really depends on the girl. like for me, i'd think it's cheesy coz i'm not a jewelry person. if he gave me a ring tho, that'd be a different thing.

yup i see. thanks!

I don't know exactly what that looks like but if he put thought into getting it for me, that would be cute. d=

lol it looks like this:

except it is yellow gold and stuff

if you like it then accept it, right?

for me, the only jewelry i am accepting is from my husband/my fiance. and right now i am single. lol. i personally think when a man gives you jewelry he is either: 1) wants to get into your pants, or 2) wants to commit to something more deeper [i really dont like "promise rings"]

and basically those are the 2 reasons why i wont accept jewelry from men. only when i am ready for #2 then i'll accept it.

hahah well i did accept it, but i felt a little O_O because...yeah. i think you know what i mean. i know for sure his reason was not number one, but most likely number two. it was for our 100th day....and i feel like my mother will share your same feelings about jewelry from men lol.

i tried to not accept and he said that he couldnt take it back because it was already mind. so....i guess i have a new necklace! lol

[myxo]

Asked this is the Ask the Fellas thread, but I'd like my fellow girls input as well...

I know the likelihood of a college relationship working out is slim to none, but my boyfriend is convinced we will work. I am less optimistic and I told him, but he is still convinced it will work. I just don't think he knows how difficult it would be, what with our schedules, and him commuting to school and then getting a part time job. He told me he'd always be thinking of me, and he'd call, and visit whenever he could, but...I just don't know. He's a very steadfast guy, and we're so happy together. But I just wonder sometimes.

What's your opinion? Would we last?

What's with the pessimism? Nothing ruins a potential relationship more than one of the party not believing in it. Don't start a relationship if you're already doubting it. Have faith and believe in the impossible.

question for my fellow girls:

if your bf gave you one of those stairway to heaven couple necklaces (very expensive btw gold and all that jazz O_O) would that be cheesy or awesome?

If I had a bf, regardless of what he bought me, I'd be jumping with joy. Yeah, I'm one of those sad and deprived girls with ex's who never bought her anything. Anyway, on a more serious note, that necklace has been out for so long with so many versions that so many couples have them. It loses originality. If I were a guy and had that much money to shell out on something expensive, I'd make sure it was original and something of significance.

I thought women likes older men because they are more masculine, they dont play around so much, they're more romantic and so on.
But if the younger man can do the same or even better. Why even so if woman hears that the man is younger than she is its instant NO. (not everytime, but it seems so in many situations.)
What is so good about older men if you dont count acts?
They have wrinkle?lol
Is the number of your age so important?
I thought the acts are.
Confusing...

I'd love to meet a younger male with the same sophistication, class, maturity, and romanticism as an older male. That is something I have yet to see.

[Xyeun]

Why would the girl who is your closest friend forget about you and make new friends while she is at it?
For example, there are no more normal conversations.

[Falcior]

I'd love to meet a younger male with the same sophistication, class, maturity, and romanticism as an older male. That is something I have yet to see.

If you havent seen any it doesnt mean there wouldnt be someone as you described.
Or you are just assuming..... I have seen many as mature or maturer younger guys, maby its just because girls doesnt hang out with big groups of men.
If girl have this certain "friend group" which includes boys, they are younger and immature and because of that the stereotype just grows.
I undertand where you are coming from but there is mature younger guys just under your noses but you are just closing your eyes from them and ignoring them (because you think they're as immature as the others) or you just dont want to admit that they are mature too.

[clear_blue_rain]

I'd love to meet a younger male with the same sophistication, class, maturity, and romanticism as an older male. That is something I have yet to see.

my guy friend is this person. well he is more than a friend but not a bf... yet XD
he's 1 year and 5 months younger than me lol

he really is sweet
and you know what's great about having a younger guy?
he keeps you young and youthful hahah
wow that makes me sound really old lol
honestly having a younger male gives you more joy because...
you can have more fun and at the same time when he says the sweetest stuff,
it means sooo much more than when it would've came out from an older man who is idealistically suppose to know how to please the girls and what not

hehehehe

[Raix]

question for my fellow girls:

if your bf gave you one of those stairway to heaven couple necklaces (very expensive btw gold and all that jazz O_O) would that be cheesy or awesome?

I'd be like 'awww....' *wears it all the time* ahahaha I think it would be sweet. Even if it wasn't my thing, the idea of it would be enough to think it was awesome.

[[HyuNi]]

I'd love to meet a younger male with the same sophistication, class, maturity, and romanticism as an older male. That is something I have yet to see.

I haven't seen a guy like that yet either. haha
I think younger guys have the heart, but lack the head; while older guys have the head, but don't have the heart.

I have a question.
Things with this new girl and I were going really well. We talked, and met up a couple times. I remembered that she wanted to eat something from her hometown, so I took her to a restaurant that had it and she was like, "You're a mind-reader!" I got her a pair of comfortable dress-like PUMA shoes for her birthday because she works as a waitress and is on her feet all day. I'm usually Mr. oblivious, but I've been on an amazing smooth streak.
Then she sends me a message through cyworld that she doesn't think she likes me as much as I like her, how she think's there's a difference between knowing a guy is good and liking him, and if we can just be friends.

whoa. where did that come from?

This wasn't a one-sided relationship either. She called me up and set up times to meet up, too.
In the month and a half that I've gotten to know her, I really think she is a good girl. I don't think this is some kind of test or her just being a drama queen. Plus, I'm 24 and she's 23 and we've grown out of playing stupid mind games.

So I messaged her back telling her I was shocked and mad, but I could kinda understand because she hasn't been in a relationship for two years, and how I was thankful for her starting to open my heart again and at least telling me before things progressed even further.
At the same time, I told her it's only been a short time and how she wasn't giving me a fair chance. I asked her to think about it again and if she doesn't get back to me, then I'll just take it as the end.

I'm not expecting her to contact me again, and that really sucks because I feel like I was penalized for being good to her!

If you can see where she's coming from, would you mind explaining it to me?

[joongielove]

I understand why you feel that way. Because honestly it is hard. Its all about time management, really. If he is willing to, and from the looks of it he definitely does, then you should give it a try.

Yeah, he says he's willing to, but I'm just afraid our schedules would conflict so much.

hey. i think i know exactly how you feel. i know a lot of my other girl friends are having lots of trouble with this with their boyfriends, too. i decided to stay together with my bf. why break up over something that might happen in the future? we're very good over the phone and fb and even if we break up, it doesnt have to be now.

my other close girl friend just went to college today and broke up with her bf of one year yesterday. she cried so much (and him too) and it was the saddest thing ever. they still text each other but they are just miserable.

i seriously debated breaking up with my bf, but now i am so happy. i have someone who will always be there for me (i mean, im sure my friend's bf will be there for my friend as well...but its different in a way)

give it a shot. if you guys break up, well...that happens. but why not make an effort to try staying together? good luck =)

Yeah, but he doesn't have a FB and he doesn't like the phone. O_O; I've been with him for almost a year now too, he's my longest relationship[and my best one lolol]

Thank you though! We'll try :]

What's with the pessimism? Nothing ruins a potential relationship more than one of the party not believing in it. Don't start a relationship if you're already doubting it. Have faith and believe in the impossible.

I'm not starting the relationship, I'm already in it XD

Thank you. ^_____^

[Deadalready]

If you've been friends with a girl for a while and she asks you out, does she expect you to act differently or be more or less the same? Romantic interests and friends are obviously treated differently...

~

I know this is a hard one to answer because it requires generalisations, I have a friend who I've noticed who gets lots of younger girls flirting with him. It makes me curious since these girls are about 5 or more years younger than him and I don't think he looks very young. If anything I think my friend is a quiet, super mature, serious type and these girls seem to be bubbly party girls.

Is there something he's doing or these girls are seeing in him that I don't understand? As far as I know he just goes about his bussiness and the girls almost seem to seek him out.

Anyone willing to give my questions a try?

[OldSpice]

^ if you change and act differently she might lose interest of you, but you should just stick to being you and if it dont work it, then it dont. Just do what you would do as if you guys werent friends before.


What do you girls say or think when you walk by but a guy is checking you out? strange? disgusted? I CANT HELP IT I CANT DENY MY LOOOOOVE FOR BIG BOOTIES

[IATEYOU]

What do you girls say or think when you walk by but a guy is checking you out? strange? disgusted? I CANT HELP IT I CANT DENY MY LOOOOOVE FOR BIG BOOTIES

during senior week my friend and i got lots of cat calls. i know some girls hate them or think that they are demeaning, but we just laughed and enjoyed the moment (hey, isn't it a compliment? lol) and then strutted our stuff some more.

so unless the guy is like SUPER creepy/perverted, i would like to be positive and be a little bit bashful/pleased that someone finds me attractive for a moment.

[xreminisce]

^ if you change and act differently she might lose interest of you, but you should just stick to being you and if it dont work it, then it dont. Just do what you would do as if you guys werent friends before.


What do you girls say or think when you walk by but a guy is checking you out? strange? disgusted? I CANT HELP IT I CANT DENY MY LOOOOOVE FOR BIG BOOTIES

to be totally honest i wouldnt mind (i would hahaha totally be for it) if the guy was cute
(and did it in a "classier" way than others scuh as some mexicans on the street and truckers -
if yu know what i mean).

but if the guy was a little.... "blehh" i would feel kinda awkward and... "blehhh" lol.

i dont know if that made any sense.

[xsilentangel]

Ladies help please!

I rejected a guy about one month ago.. and right after that I suddenly liked him. I thought it was normal, just regretting it a bit and then moving on but now it's been like a month, and I haven't seen him but I know he's found someone new that he likes and now I feel like another "fling"! What do I do? We haven't talked since either! I lost a friend and I like him too..

[小甜密]

Ladies help please!

I rejected a guy about one month ago.. and right after that I suddenly liked him. I thought it was normal, just regretting it a bit and then moving on but now it's been like 2 months, and I haven't seen him but I know he's found someone new that he likes and now I feel like another "fling"! What do I do? We haven't talked since either! I lost a friend and I like him too..

To be honest, I will have to say, "It's your lost."
Well you lost a friend, so what? You lose some and you gain some. No big deal.
I was in your position before. Rejected a guy and end up thinking about him.
But the twisted part was that I did get him BUT it ended up as a disaster. And I didn't like him anymore.
Honestly, I don't think you miss him. You just miss the feeling of him chasing after you. The flirting, am i right?

[darker than black]

why r some of u ppl so touchy, if u don't like a guy, then y the heck do u do it, its so annoying

[litoaznbabix91]

Honestly, I don't think you miss him. You just miss the feeling of him chasing after you. The flirting, am i right?

Exactly. You don't really like him, you just want him now cause you can't have him anymore. This happened to me as well. This dude ask me out a bunch of time but I just kept turning him down but when i found out he moved on and liked another girl I started to feel jealous. But think about it would you actually go out with him now if he came back to you? If you can honest say yes then maybe you do like him but if not then you just liked the chased. (wait is that a word?)^^

[junkers]

if i say thing like "youre such a nice girl, i wish i have a girlfriend like you". What would be going through your mind?? Do you think this is a good way to drop hints that i like her??