[shakki]

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

sure
but can he speak his native language?
have ANY asian frends?

[7thprincess]

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

As long as the guy is happy and proud to be who he is. As long as he is confident in himself. Then he is on fire! Then he is one fine ass man!

[shakki]

how do you deal with your boyfriend's pride? mine is driving me crazy.. everyone in his family (dad, mom, sister) starts arguing and fighting whenever someone tries to correct the other or gives some advice to the other AND he mocks them and laughs at them saying they are really funny and stupid because they have too much pride and everyone feels superior than the others.. but whenever i try to do the same for him (give him advice or correct him) -- like right now he's trying to sell something over the internet.. i was just reminding him to be careful and he completely exploded on me.. --, he reacts in the exact same way.. it's so similar i can quote the words he said that were similar to the words that his family says.. i tried telling him you're being the people you're laughing at and he's like heck no, what are you talking about?! it's soooooo frustrating.. and what sucks more is whenever he gets mad, his favorite remarks are anything that talks about my brain (like 'you don't know anything', 'are you sure you're intelligent?').. it's always my intellect he attacks.. yes, i happen to be really more intelligent than him (he's the one who actually said that).. i also have a higher salary than him even though he worked 1 year earlier than i did and we're in the same field.. sometimes i feel that it all boils down to insecurity.. i tried talking to him about it before and he totally dismissed it..

he's not some bad guy.. he's actually really nice.. it's just that these moments are really frustrating.. i do try to avoid it whenever i can but as his girlfriend shouldn't he try to listen to me? argh, i'm just soo frustrated right now.. sorry for the essay.. x-x

dont deal with it.
dump him.
thats what i would do
i cant stand so much pride. it kills me

[viper2788]

sure
but can he speak his native language?
have ANY asian frends?

lol of course i can and of course i do! =)

[manlytoe]

ladies, what would you think if a guy (obviously he's your friend) you knew for 4 years, just started ignoring you?

ever since i started college, he began ignoring me. he's also older than me by a year. before i started college, he use to like talking to me, we'd have little chats, and he'd email me, message me and all that other stuff, but now, he's like totally ignoring me. what would you think if someone you knew was doing this to you?

all i can think is that maybe he thinks he's too good for me now and is ignoring me. in a way, i'm kinda pissed too. sigh.

[shakki]

lol of course i can and of course i do! =)

then ur awesome!

[&endeavor.]

I might need help answering my question :S

Let's say a guy likes a girl that he hasn't talked to in atleast one full year. The girl is already in a relationship though, and the last time the guy and girl talked it ended up being kind of like an argument. How do you go from there? thnx in advance

Just a friendly gesture is a good way to rekindle a lost friendship. Or you can approach her and talk about how you would like to be friends again and recommend leaving the things that happened in the past behind.

lol i think a hi would do. do girls tend to remember moments in their life that were not so good?? more specifically, things old friends did, or didn't do?? thnx again

Most girls would remember everything that's happened in the past down to the very last details. Which is why most people like to say, "Girls can forgive, but they will never forget."

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

I don't think "being Asian" would have anything to do with how a person may come about liking you. And if that has a factor do with it liking a person, then that person isn't worth it. But I doubt anyone is that shallow. So to answer your question, I am not repel by a person who has a diversity of friends, because I have friends of different culture too. And I personally, do not listen to Asian music so it wouldn't matter much to me. But a girl would be more drawn to a person who probably has similar interests (food, daily activities, etc.).

ladies, what would you think if a guy (obviously he's your friend) you knew for 4 years, just started ignoring you?

ever since i started college, he began ignoring me. he's also older than me by a year. before i started college, he use to like talking to me, we'd have little chats, and he'd email me, message me and all that other stuff, but now, he's like totally ignoring me. what would you think if someone you knew was doing this to you?

all i can think is that maybe he thinks he's too good for me now and is ignoring me. in a way, i'm kinda pissed too. sigh.

Maybe he's just busy and doesn't have time to do the things he did before. Why not talk to him about it? Ask him if he's really ignoring you or if he's just busy. I mean, you won't ever really know unless you ask him.

[xLionHeartx]

Alright, I've had class with this girl a couple times in the past semesters but never got to say hi because she was with a friend and I was with my friends. However this semester we don't really know anyone in the class either and today we crossed eyes about 8 times in a span of 2 hours and a half. I can't really go say hi because we are in assigned seats and the class is very demanding so not much of a place to talk (and I don't have the balls to do it).
Am I getting my hopes up? What do you think she is thinking about when shes staring back?

[Xiaoba1tu]

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

Whether he listens to Asian music or not, it doesn't matter to me. I'm not a huge Asian music listener, I only listen to a few artists.
I don't consider myself really Asian-Asian.

Alright, I've had class with this girl a couple times in the past semesters but never got to say hi because she was with a friend and I was with my friends. However this semester we don't really know anyone in the class either and today we crossed eyes about 8 times in a span of 2 hours and a half. I can't really go say hi because we are in assigned seats and the class is very demanding so not much of a place to talk (and I don't have the balls to do it).
Am I getting my hopes up? What do you think she is thinking about when shes staring back?

Depends how long the stares were for. Eight times is pretty often, I'd say it's a good sign?
If I "stared" at a guy up to eight times in class, I'd think he's cute.

[mango-iee]

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

Eh, I won't care but I know for sure that our relationship won't last that long cause we don't have much things in common...
As long as he doesn't forget his native language and doesn't act all "g-style" like Americanize then I'm cool with it. (:

[saysjessi]

ladies, what would you think if a guy (obviously he's your friend) you knew for 4 years, just started ignoring you?

ever since i started college, he began ignoring me. he's also older than me by a year. before i started college, he use to like talking to me, we'd have little chats, and he'd email me, message me and all that other stuff, but now, he's like totally ignoring me. what would you think if someone you knew was doing this to you?

all i can think is that maybe he thinks he's too good for me now and is ignoring me. in a way, i'm kinda pissed too. sigh.

that happened to me before, too. exact same situation, in fact. i was completely crushed. later i found out he had a new girlfriend all of a sudden and so that was why he was ignoring me. in the end, i got over it and just chalked it up to him being a jerk. needless to say, i have not spoken to him in six years.

Alright, I've had class with this girl a couple times in the past semesters but never got to say hi because she was with a friend and I was with my friends. However this semester we don't really know anyone in the class either and today we crossed eyes about 8 times in a span of 2 hours and a half. I can't really go say hi because we are in assigned seats and the class is very demanding so not much of a place to talk (and I don't have the balls to do it).
Am I getting my hopes up? What do you think she is thinking about when shes staring back?

i think you are thinking too far into it. she probably recognizes you as the only person she knows in the class, and probably wishes to have someone to talk to and be friendly with. if you're thinking about anything further than that--i.e. love--i think you might be setting yourself up for disappointment.

[resa_massu]

i just wanted a few replies on this... but would asian girls like asian guys who arent so "asian?" meaning they have diverse friends, not big into asian culture, not in any asian clubs, doesnt listen to asian music, etc.... basically an american guy(but not whitewashed). or would you automatically feel you should stick to someone you can better relate to.

It all depends on the girl really. But I think most girls would perfer to have similar interests witht he guy they like.
It's just easier to get along... it would be a little hard to find something to talk about if there were no interest right?

[Humilious]

Alright, I've had class with this girl a couple times in the past semesters but never got to say hi because she was with a friend and I was with my friends. However this semester we don't really know anyone in the class either and today we crossed eyes about 8 times in a span of 2 hours and a half. I can't really go say hi because we are in assigned seats and the class is very demanding so not much of a place to talk (and I don't have the balls to do it).
Am I getting my hopes up? What do you think she is thinking about when shes staring back?

"Why is he staring at me?"

HAHA JK.

She probably feels the same way you do. You should talk to her. It won't hurt.

[shakki]

Alright, I've had class with this girl a couple times in the past semesters but never got to say hi because she was with a friend and I was with my friends. However this semester we don't really know anyone in the class either and today we crossed eyes about 8 times in a span of 2 hours and a half. I can't really go say hi because we are in assigned seats and the class is very demanding so not much of a place to talk (and I don't have the balls to do it).
Am I getting my hopes up? What do you think she is thinking about when shes staring back?

she probably thinks ur cute or good looking.
go talk to her.

[izzychoi]

Ahh yess finally haha.


so ladies.. heres my story haha..

I've been "Talking" to this girl for about a year... I told her i liked her after about 4 months. and she said she liked me too but she wasn't ready for a relationship.. So we just kept "talking" for about a year now.. But out of nowhere she starts acting weird and not like her.. I ask her why and she finally tells me she just doesnt like me as much as she used too.. And then so i asked her would you / do you ever see us ever going out? And she said im sorry but i dont see me having a boyfriend for a very long time. Ok so what in the world could be going on in her head. Why would she lead me on for a year ? I was so kind to her and she wasn't even appreciative of anything i did but still told me she loved me and ect ect. =[? thoughts?

[7thprincess]

^^You most likely probably ended in the friend zone.

[junkers]

What does it really mean when girls say "You a perfect man every girl could wish for, but i dont feel the spark b/w us".

does it mean the man is too nice? no excitment in life? too dull and boring?

[7thprincess]

^^It means you are really nice, but I dont like you in that way. You are a good friend.

[sharala]

hey girls
would you consider the penis not completely going in sex or not?
i'm really big on morals, but i guess i was kinda caught in the moment and i let him put his pickle in maybe 1/4 of the way? and i don't know if i can still consider myself a virgin or not.. ughhh.

[7thprincess]

^LOL. Sex to me is the WHOLE ordeal. I would say you are a half-virgin, or virgin. Right now it really depends on how you see it, because its you, its your life.