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#4301 User is offline   RawrRawr 

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 02:01 AM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 2 2008, 11:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


Break up that moment.
Then cry a lot. lol


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Posted 03 September 2008 - 11:20 AM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 3 2008, 02:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


uh...i would seriously punch u. and chances are when my friends find out they're all going to do the same.

sometimes violence is the answer.
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 01:16 PM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 3 2008, 01:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


HHAHAHAHAHA
i'd kill you.
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#4304 User is offline   jaaym33h 

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 02:25 PM

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hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


hahahaha... my friend did that. his grlfriend dumped him on the spot. vicx.gif
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#4305 User is offline   Sam Sik 

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 03:48 PM

If about a half a year ago or so, you ended a relationship with a guy because he couldn't treat you like a friend (because he asked you out and got rejected, and couldn't manage his feelings), would you let go of that past when you weren't hurt?

Issue is. I have a class with this girl that I used to like, but I ended our friendship because my feelings for her were too strong. But this class isn't an ordinary Math or Science class. It's a Student Govt class so there will be collaboration and group work.

If I had to co-operate with "you (the girl)" after 8 months of no communication. Would you want me to talk to you as a friend, a work partner, or just ignore you and let everyone talk to you. I'm not sure what this girl thinks of me anymore.. I'm not sure if she doesn't care about me..I'm not sure if she hates me..I'm not sure if she still kinda likes me as a friend.. But I don't want to look like a fool. Although I can't predict anything, how should I go off and talk to this girl again. To possibly restore our friendship?
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#4306 User is offline   songssiissii 

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 04:13 PM

QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Sep 3 2008, 06:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If about a half a year ago or so, you ended a relationship with a guy because he couldn't treat you like a friend (because he asked you out and got rejected, and couldn't manage his feelings), would you let go of that past when you weren't hurt?

Issue is. I have a class with this girl that I used to like, but I ended our friendship because my feelings for her were too strong. But this class isn't an ordinary Math or Science class. It's a Student Govt class so there will be collaboration and group work.

If I had to co-operate with "you (the girl)" after 8 months of no communication. Would you want me to talk to you as a friend, a work partner, or just ignore you and let everyone talk to you. I'm not sure what this girl thinks of me anymore.. I'm not sure if she doesn't care about me..I'm not sure if she hates me..I'm not sure if she still kinda likes me as a friend.. But I don't want to look like a fool. Although I can't predict anything, how should I go off and talk to this girl again. To possibly restore our friendship?


sticky sticky situation...
it all depends on the person
personally for me, it'd be pretty hard talking to you after 8 months of not communicating.
the same thing happened to me with a close friend...he stopped talking to me for a month but there was no reason behind it.. then he started talking to me again and i b.itched him out for the longest time............but now we're ok.. but that was only a month..unlike your situation...
sucks that you have class with her tho... things could be really awkward if you two ended up having to work together...which im sure its gonna happen.
i dont think talking as a friend is gonna work... and i dont know if she'll answer you if you talk to her.. so you can either not talk to her and see if she talks to you first.

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 05:08 PM

Approach her outside of class or call her before you have ANY group activities.
Tell her you're glad she's in your class.
Talk.
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QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Sep 3 2008, 07:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If about a half a year ago or so, you ended a relationship with a guy because he couldn't treat you like a friend (because he asked you out and got rejected, and couldn't manage his feelings), would you let go of that past when you weren't hurt?

Issue is. I have a class with this girl that I used to like, but I ended our friendship because my feelings for her were too strong. But this class isn't an ordinary Math or Science class. It's a Student Govt class so there will be collaboration and group work.

If I had to co-operate with "you (the girl)" after 8 months of no communication. Would you want me to talk to you as a friend, a work partner, or just ignore you and let everyone talk to you. I'm not sure what this girl thinks of me anymore.. I'm not sure if she doesn't care about me..I'm not sure if she hates me..I'm not sure if she still kinda likes me as a friend.. But I don't want to look like a fool. Although I can't predict anything, how should I go off and talk to this girl again. To possibly restore our friendship?



QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 3 2008, 02:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what if you told me that my fly was open, and i replied with "im advertising." how would that make you feel?


If it is my guy friends, I'd laugh and tell him he's stupid.
If it is a guy I don't know very well or maybe like.... I wouldn't say anything. Just shows me he's cocky. or acts like it a lot.
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 05:13 PM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 3 2008, 01:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


Your dumbass lost a bet! How dumb!


QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 3 2008, 01:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what if you told me that my fly was open, and i replied with "im advertising." how would that make you feel?


Where is the advertisement? I dont see anything. Let me peek! LMAO!


QUOTE (Sam Sik @ Sep 3 2008, 06:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If about a half a year ago or so, you ended a relationship with a guy because he couldn't treat you like a friend (because he asked you out and got rejected, and couldn't manage his feelings), would you let go of that past when you weren't hurt?

Issue is. I have a class with this girl that I used to like, but I ended our friendship because my feelings for her were too strong. But this class isn't an ordinary Math or Science class. It's a Student Govt class so there will be collaboration and group work.

If I had to co-operate with "you (the girl)" after 8 months of no communication. Would you want me to talk to you as a friend, a work partner, or just ignore you and let everyone talk to you. I'm not sure what this girl thinks of me anymore.. I'm not sure if she doesn't care about me..I'm not sure if she hates me..I'm not sure if she still kinda likes me as a friend.. But I don't want to look like a fool. Although I can't predict anything, how should I go off and talk to this girl again. To possibly restore our friendship?


Talk to her with respect and friendliness. LOL.

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 05:58 PM

QUOTE (songssiissii @ Sep 3 2008, 05:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sticky sticky situation...
it all depends on the person
personally for me, it'd be pretty hard talking to you after 8 months of not communicating.
the same thing happened to me with a close friend...he stopped talking to me for a month but there was no reason behind it.. then he started talking to me again and i b.itched him out for the longest time............but now we're ok.. but that was only a month..unlike your situation...
sucks that you have class with her tho... things could be really awkward if you two ended up having to work together...which im sure its gonna happen.
i dont think talking as a friend is gonna work... and i dont know if she'll answer you if you talk to her.. so you can either not talk to her and see if she talks to you first.


One of my friends told me this. The reason why she isn't talking to me is because:

blake says:
she probably thinks youre still the same because you arent talking to her either
Bnguyen | says:
i guess you're right
blake says:
and you havent showed her otherwise

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Post icon  Posted 03 September 2008 - 07:07 PM

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 2 2008, 11:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
what if you told me that my fly was open, and i replied with "im advertising." how would that make you feel?


id laugh

QUOTE (marvinoppa @ Sep 2 2008, 11:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hypothetical situation. lets say 'you' are my gf and you ask me, "why are you with me?" and i reply with "because i lost a bet." how would you respond/feel?


kick your balls, slap your face, pinch you really really hard, and say goodbye
I love your smile. Smile more ^^
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:15 PM

you all should realize both were jokes....gosh no sense of humor.
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#4312 User is offline   TaTo 

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:23 PM

When I mean guys that take pictures of themselves I mean the ones who use their cell phones to take a picture in the mirror or use a camera to take 23423 fob pictures of themselves :T. Usually covering his mouth or nose. Or blowing up their cheeks. I mean I know girls do this a lot but I don't really expect that behavior from guys for some reason. I feel if a guy was really good looking and confident he wouldn't be doing this (Or maybe a guy is so cocky that he would like everyone seeing 3423 angles of himself). I mean, can't a guy just take one good lighted full face picture of himself or just not put one up at all :T.

I guess guys can also pitch in on what they think about girls that do that -_-. I just find it a bit unmanly for a guy to do this kind of stuff. A bit of a turn off ya kno?!

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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:25 PM

LMAO! LOL. Hrmmmm I guess everyone has a lil camerawhoreness in them, huh?
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:26 PM

QUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER!
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:30 PM

QUOTE (niubi @ Sep 3 2008, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEER!

yeah

also guys who use a bunch of cute emoticons like ^__^ =) ^0^ :T T__T when they write stuff.
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:30 PM

lol. i think nothing. as long as i get some good eyecandy wink.gif
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:31 PM

Lots of fobs do that. I will guarantee that.
Blame the asian dramas, they make everything look exaggeratedly cute/adorable.

Edit: I hate it too. That's why I never trust pictures.
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:39 PM

the only time that i would probably take pictures of myself is when its a before and after picture of me from the time that i work out through the results that i've gain
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:42 PM

gay! guys should never do that

period

only i can get away with it cuz im so gosh darn good looking
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Posted 03 September 2008 - 08:42 PM

^Sry, that was totally fail right there. NT, though.

I also find it unmanly. I admittedly think less of a guy who takes pictures of himself.
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