[GOOMBA]

Yeah but if you're born with hideous facial features then aren't you pretty much screwed no matter how nice you dress?

Not quite. Your style adds more points than your face.

Cute guy + geek/nerd style = less points than the guy who has the pimple face but jock style.

Of course, this applies to high school generally...

[simplicity90]

i have a friend who is like that. he is quite good looking but he dresses like a nerd. he liked me at one point but i turned him down. honestly i think i would have give him a chance if he put himself together better and was a better dresser. that's just my preference.

[♥oyen♥]

I think cute guys that aren't unaware of it should be aware of it xD
Like give them compliments and stuff, so they gain confidence ^.^

But yeah fashion taste doesn't really matter as long as they are just simple, their fashion sense will improve when they get the confidence I think xD

[BattleRoyale]

hrmm well i guess its better than being bigheaded about the way they look huh? i personally think its pretty cute HAHA bad sense of fashion.. derno if i can handle it if its really full-on-BAD. if they look good but dnt know it and have a really great personality then sure thats fine! you can always help them with their sense of fashion later. ''

Yeah but if you're born with hideous facial features then aren't you pretty much screwed no matter how nice you dress?

oh yeah.. that's not always true. i've seen guys that aren't that great looking facially, i wudnt say "hideous" though, with great sense of style and it does add more points like YOURS2ENVY said... i guess it just depends on your own preference. im attracted to both? =S ???

[YUNICA]

Yeah but if you're born with hideous facial features then aren't you pretty much screwed no matter how nice you dress?

erm, not really.
it always depend on one's preference tho.
wasn't a turn-off at least. i guess.

if a guy who is goodlooking, tall and stuff but no sense of fashion?
i think its alright since we could ya know help him with their fashion probs.
since he has the look already which is one of the extra credit. xD
oh well its still better than guy who is not as goodlooking but have a good sense of fashion
that are all over themselves.

[!Lei]

SHY GUYS ARE CUTE.

Well, for me anyways.

[x. suki]

i rkn its so cute if they're good looking but they dont realise it XD
hahaaa~ its so much better than a guy who knows they're hot and thinks he's all that.
it doesnt matter if they dont hav that great a fashion sense cuz you can help him with that ^^

[**mashmellow**]

I think that's cute, at least he's not cocky like some good looking guys

[ChouChou]

guys like that are great

yeh like the above soompier said, much better then cocky arrogant guys

its good to be humble and modest

but like make sure the guy isn't just like that to get compliments lol

[1TYMRMYVZT]

I think guys like that are really really cute!
I prefer those kind of guys that the ones that know they're good looking and act all conceited. Ugh.
Plus, I can give him some tips on how to dress and stuff. Hehe.
:]

[colloquy]

Ugh... no confidence = the biggest turn off ever.

[egoist]

What do you think about good-looking guys who don't realise they're good-looking?

For example, say you met a guy one day who is tall, handsome and has a great sense of humour. However, he just doesn't realise he's very attractive and so acts like he's just plain and normal. He doesn't know how to dress (trust me, you see plenty of guys with bad facial features but with great fashion sense and hairstyles) and just doesn't really try to bring out the best in him in terms of appearance because he doesn't know that he's actually considered quite cute in the eyes of girls

What's your opinion? Would you think that's really cute or would that be a turn-off to you as you may see it as a lack of confidence and self-esteem?

EDIT: when i meant, does not know how to dress I meant he either has a bad sense of fashion and/or his mum still buys him clothes...which look a bit out of date haha.

ASDFJKL CUTE!!!!!!!!! OMG IN FACT, IM CRUSHING ON THIS GUY THAT FITS ALL THE DESCRIPTION YOU SAY *BANGS HEAD*.

And the thing is. HE IS SINGLE AND HE HASN'T HAS A GIRLFRIEND IN HIS LIFE YET!!!!!! (he's 19 and im 18).

*DIES*


im shy and he's kinda shy. so... damn..... *SIGH*

[INSANE]

so for the girls, if there was a guy u liked, and you went away for a summer +, would you still like him after you come back (even though its been like 7 months since u've seen/talked to him)?

it really depends how much i like this guy and if i would actually consider going out with him.

[fryingbutters]

my pretty close friend (guy) is super good looking, but he doesnt groom himself properly! bad fashion sense. but he's a great guy with great personality. lol. i guess he feels more comfortable that way.

[KOGEPANN;)]

That's exactly kind of how it is with my guy friend, instead his mom doesn't buy him clothes.
He doesn't have much confidence in himself, but ironically he has confidence in others, he's so sweet.
If I didn't know him at all, at all I would go for him.
I personally don't think there's anything wrong with that, at all.
It's cute.

[meliawy]

What do you think about good-looking guys who don't realise they're good-looking

What's your opinion? Would you think that's really cute or would that be a turn-off to you as you may see it as a lack of confidence and self-esteem?

EDIT: when i meant, does not know how to dress I meant he either has a bad sense of fashion and/or his mum still buys him clothes...which look a bit out of date haha.

He would still be so damn sexy.

A few years ago, I met this guy... UNFORTUNATELY, he always comes to class in an old white shirt (sometimes even with holes ), basketball shorts, socks up to his knees and he got a buzz cut. Even so, he was still good-looking. I just imagine him with more hair on his head, better clothes and dyaaammmm... I am sure he would be one of the best looking guy I have ever seen alive! NO LIES! I mean, he looks really handsome just the way he is, and strangely, he looks even hotter when he puts on his glasses. How many of those types of guys do you see in a lifetime? Not many I can tell you that!!

From the way he conducted himself and his personality... can definitely tell that he is not even aware of how handsome he can possibly be. Most probably due to his upbringing, from the childhood photos that I had seen, he was on the chubbier side most of his childhood, buuuutt, totally not the case now, he is so fit now

Too bad we only had that one class together and ended up transferring to different places, and he is unstalkable online

[therey]

it really depends how much i like this guy and if i would actually consider going out with him.

well, lets say you liked him a lot. but do girls lose interest in guys if they don't see them for like 7 months even though at the time they liked him a lot?

[INSANE]

well, lets say you liked him a lot. but do girls lose interest in guys if they don't see them for like 7 months even though at the time they liked him a lot?

if you keep in contact with this girl then she probably wouldn't lose interest as quickly as others. i know i've liked this guy and we haven't seen each other in 2 months and hardly kept contact, and honestly i lost interest. but also because i started liking another guy. honestly it's really hard to tell what she's thinking right now, cus every person is diff, y'know.

[meliawy]

so for the girls, if there was a guy u liked, and you went away for a summer +, would you still like him after you come back (even though its been like 7 months since u've seen/talked to him)?

Well, you know the saying, "out of sight, out of mind", so yeah, over time I would lost interest. But sometimes it so happens that even when I was convinced that I had gotten over a guy after a few months of not seeing/ hearing from him... I would bump into him and I would fall apart all over again I would say that it can happen to some people, others, not so much since they have a tendency to grow out of it and move on quickly.

But like INSANE mentioned... why not keep in touch, it will definitely continue to keep her interested (unless someone better comes along to distract her or something).

[therey]

Well, you know the saying, "out of sight, out of mind", so yeah, over time I would lost interest. But sometimes it so happens that even when I was convinced that I had gotten over a guy after a few months of not seeing/ hearing from him... I would bump into him and I would fall apart all over again I would say that it can happen to some people, others, not so much since they have a tendency to grow out of it and move on quickly.

But like INSANE mentioned... why not keep in touch, it will definitely continue to keep her interested (unless someone better comes along to distract her or something).

it would be because she would have to go back to korea over the summer and i would be in america. last time i would see her before she leaves to korea would be around spring break. and id see her again around thanksgiving. so if u were going out with him, could you wait 7 months without starting to like another person?