Ask The Ladies - Read First Post discuss about behaviors and relationships from female P.O.V.
#51
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:12 PM
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
#52
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:21 PM
Do you mean whether they want to get married or if they actually do? Because of course everyone has their own wants and needs, and I personally know a few people who just don't want to get married, but most girls do - whether they're ugly/pretty/fat/ugly/old/young...Do ugly girls get married?...It all depends
Girls only have so many secrets with guys...Of course there are things that girls don't tell anyone or only their close friends, but just to let you know...Girls tell their girl friends everything. So it's not that we have so many secrets in general...We just have so many secrets that we keep from guys :]
The same goes for guys...It's all about the line of confidence versus cockiness I guess.
Because we just are. I think that's all I can say.
#53
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:22 PM
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
1. They may plan to live their life single but most likely will get married to that one guy that sees their beauty from within. (How is this affect YOU if ugly girls get married or not?)
2. Umm...because we like secrets? I guess some girls just like to keep stuff to themselves
3. They're confident in their looks and think they're better than 'not pretty' girls and can get away with anything
4. Everyone likes to have nice stuff to show off
#54
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:35 PM
4) What are common signs of disinterest girls show to a guy if he is chasing after her and she does not want it?
thanks for easing my curious mind.
3) I would just be a bit
4) Say he asks me to hang out or something, I would refuse but in a nice way?
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#55
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:36 PM
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
1. Preference. Some women want to get married and look for the right guy to marry. Others may not want to get married. Others may have no one to marry.
2. Everyone has secrets. Shameful past. Blackmail gossip? Anything.
3. Looks gives them more power. Probably pretty girls are popular. They know they have back up so they use that power in an abusive way sometimes.
4. Gosh who isn't materialistic? The human race wants more more more. But yeah girls can be more materialistic than guys. Some nice and expensive stuff to show off isn't a bad thing.
#56
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:36 PM
#57
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:39 PM
Dude, srry to break it to you, but maybe she's not interested? <---
#58
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:42 PM
- Kissing me on the neck
- Warm, warm hugs (especially when he smells good)
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
It's like this:
When a dog doesn't behave, some people resort to choke chains.
If the dog keeps ignoring its instincts and just follows through with its urges, it will get choked.
The dog will eventually learn to hold back.
I guess it's because (I'm sure) almost every girl has believed a guy's words only to find out their intentions weren't sincere.
Fool me once, shame on you...Fool me twice, shame on me.
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time?
I guess it varies. If I really believe that I am right, I will fight for it, but if I'm corrected - I'm not afraid to admit it.
I like your questions...Keep 'em coming :]
#59
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:46 PM
#60
Posted 26 June 2007 - 07:57 PM
Now I'm just confused..... What does this mean, is she angry at me? What is she doing?
I might be wrong..but in my pov (Since i do this)
she might like you, but is very shy, so she pushes you away. Therefore she wont make eye contact or talk to you because she might get nervous or something...
huh? lol... i dunno..to listen to us rant?
#61
Posted 26 June 2007 - 08:10 PM
The reason why we have unworn clothes is because we're indecisive, changed our minds and don't like the clothing, or we are waiting until we're in better shape before we wear what we haven't worn yet, get? LOL
#62
Posted 26 June 2007 - 08:19 PM
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
1. I'm not sure by what you mean when you say do ugly girls 'get' married b/c I've seen many unattractive girls, in my POV, get married before. I think that every girl has daydreamed or thought of getting married before.
2. Everyone has secrets =p
3. I think maybe it's because they think they have more power & that because they're pretty, it's ok for them to mean or something lol XD
4. I don't know XD I think everyone is materialistic but girls are more materialistic than guys because they want to compete with other girls O.O
I think it depends on most girls but yeah XD
For most girls, if they feel the same way, they would probably listen to you.
& if they didn't like you, they'd still listen but they would say something to you like "I don't feel the same way" or something politely.
If they say they want to talk about it later, it may be because they don't like you or they're too shy lol XD
#63
Posted 26 June 2007 - 08:27 PM
Now I'm just confused..... What does this mean, is she angry at me? What is she doing?
maybe she expected something from you....
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
1. some get marry, some remain single
2. because there are things that a girl would like to keep to herself
3. because they're cockier and they think that beauty is power, therefore, they think that they can act anyway they like and get away with it
4. not all girls are materialistic
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#64
Posted 26 June 2007 - 08:39 PM
question.
why do women put protection and wealth before love?
hence the fellas that flash their material and being at the gym.
#65
Posted 26 June 2007 - 08:45 PM
Now I'm just confused..... What does this mean, is she angry at me? What is she doing?
No no, she's not angry at you haha. Maybe you're just interpreting this wrong. She probably didn't do it on purpose. Maybe that friend was telling her something interesting (haha gossips and such).
She's unsure about her feelings for you OR she's trying to buy time to find the nicest way to reject you.
Oh dear lord... the list will never finish. Me, I just want my guy to be there for me. Like lowdown4155 said, we're needy creatures who seeks you guys' attention and affection.
**Locking up Pandora's Box**
#66
Posted 26 June 2007 - 09:37 PM
question.
why do women put protection and wealth before love?
hence the fellas that flash their material and being at the gym.
Subconsciously, women look for safety and protection on the most basic of levels. They probably see a guy who has power (physical strength or money and authority) as naturally more attractive to them than...someone without those things ^^; And what good is a poor, weak bf when you want to 1) impress your friends, 2) have a family, 3) live the lifestyle you've always wanted (or that society told you, you should want =O)..? Obviously, that sort of logic is not followed by EVERY woman, but it makes sense, doesn't it?
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#67
Posted 26 June 2007 - 09:41 PM
men give and show what they need.
women give and show what they want.
hence the bunches of girls giving guys expensive wallets, pants, etc for valentines.
it's said they do it because they want them to have something nice, but you all know you're expecting something equally as awesome, rite, rite
or like when girls call guys, they're expecting it back, rite, rite
or guys' reasons for not totally being "there" all the time.
maybe the guy just needs space.
etc, things like that.
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#68
Posted 26 June 2007 - 09:47 PM
2) Why do you girls overanalyze things when our (guy's) intention are sincere?
3) Why do you feel the need to be correct most of the time? huh.gif
-A Hug. I'm not use to people giving me hugs so it'll really touch my heart.
-Insecurity.
-I can't speak for the other girls, but who likes being wrong? For me, I have this overbearing stubborn ego that doesn't like being wrong, but I'll own up to it if I am--well after a few hours xD
-I think thats a good quality in a guy, <3
2) How can we tell if you have a bf or not? Some girls wear rings and that is an obvious sign. However, some girls wear it for fashion purposes. Also what about bracelets and necklaces?
3) If a guy you do not know but is in your class comes up to you, and asks you on a date, what are the chances of he being shot down? Consider the guy to be average looking. This question is too arbitrary and has too many factors but please ascribe an answer in the context of this SCENARIO.
4) What are common signs of disinterest girls show to a guy if he is chasing after her and she does not want it?
-No idea. i don't toss my hair--at least not intentionally. Its probably in the way, I don't think its a sign for anything.
-You can't tell unless you try to hit on them and get turned down or their obviously with their boyfriend.
-If they come up to me and ask me out, I'd actually feel flattered and go (depending where), but I rather get to the know the guy first before going out with him. :\
-When she avoids you as much as possible. Ignoring/taking a long time to answer you on the internet. Trailing her friends at school etc.
-imo, she's avoiding the subject, probably not interested.
Q. Why do girls have so many secrets?
Q. Why are girls meaner, when they're pretty?
Q. Why are girls materialistic?
-Every girl would have a dream of one day being accepted and getting married to that special person.
-Because they have past scars.
-This is a general statement, but I'll answer anyway. Its probably because they're stuck up and know they can get by with appearances easily.
-Because the world is materialistic and we live in a materialistic society.
Being loved and appreciated.
Do looks matter most?
How would you like for a guy to ask you out?
What could a guy do to make you more likely to date him?
If you got into a relationship with a guy what is a must in the relationship in order to prevent it from falling apart?
What is it that attracts you to a guy?
-being loved and appreciated.
-Simply approaching me and saying, "You. Me. Let's go out, OKAY?" xD
-Be persistent and just talk to me more to get to know me so I can get to know the guy.
-Honesty, love and appreciation
-His opinions, being humorous, confidence, and appearance.

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#69
Posted 26 June 2007 - 09:52 PM
Why do women wanna change their attitude around you but is okay with everybody else?
I was friends with one girl and everything was all good (never got her pissed off or anything).
After winter break, she started ignoring me everytime I came around. At different times she would sigh, leave me in dust when I asked questions, and then I got the message.
So I lef her alone.When I did that, it seem like didn't exist to her and she was a lot more open to other people.
#70
Posted 26 June 2007 - 09:55 PM
Why do women wanna change their attitude around you but is okay with everybody else?
I was friends with one girl and everything was all good until winter break came.
After winter break, she started ignoring me everytime I came around and then I got the message. So I lef her alone.
When I did that, it seem like didn't exist to her and she was a lot more open to other people.
Maybe she found something out about you or you did something that upsetted her but you didn't know. just a guesss~



























