QUOTE(donporkuloin@yahoo.com @ Jul 15 2007, 01:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I met this girl. Let's call her Christina. I met her in school. I was scared to talk to her, but I just said screw it, and I talked to her. We had a few convos, and we had lunch. She seemed a little nervous. Which surprised me. Anyways, she stopped going to school. I thought she didn't care about school, but I found out she was having some family issues to where she had to stop going to school. Also, I have 2 friends that work with her. Let's call them Marie and Kate. Kate told me one day that Christina started a random 10-15 min convo about me. Kate kept saying to me oh she likes you, etc. So I went up to her job, and I ended up getting her number. We said we were going to hangout, but we were trying to find a day that worked for us, because at times we both have busy schedules. So a week or so after that she sent me a note saying when she wanted to hangout. I was happy to hear from her, because I was going through some stuff at the time, and hearing from her meant a lot to me. So just when we were about to hangout her grandmother died. I didn't know at first. Also, she ended up having some other family stuff to deal with as well. So I called and stuff like I normally do, because I didn't know at first. Then we didn't see each other for a month. We talked on the phone once. It went ok, and she emailed me once. In between that month. I called a lot. I wasn't trying to be a pest. I mean what if you like someone, then all out of the blue you don't speak for a while. Of course you're going to call. Also, I bought her a card regarding her grandmother passing. I made attempts to try to catch her at her job. Every now and then Marie would tell me that oh Christina is working this day so you should catch her. A few times I tried, and she took the day off for stuff like her grandmother's will, etc. So last week I caught up with Christina. We talked, and she said she wasn't trying to blow me off. I told her I wasn't trying to be a try hard, etc. She said once I get back from out of town we would finally go out. She even labeled us hanging out as a date. There's a few things that make me wonder. Her not keeping a lot of contact with me for that month. I know she was going through stuff, but I don't think she was busy every second and minute. My point is do you think she was playing hard to get, or seeing if I would keep interest? Also, ladies.. if you were in her shoes? What would you be thinking?
No she is not playing hard to get. If she was with a death in the family - wow I don't know what to say.
Personally, when I have family problems, guys are the last thing on my mind. She has a lot to deal with especially if she was close with her grandmother. She's just really busy with all that, so just take her word for it.
He calls my best friend's sister FAT, that's like really mean. He's finished with college (went to a 2 year community college), so I'm not sure how old is he. Maybe 20-21, around there.
