[Elee]

im a guy and i have a girl best friend. when ever we talk she would always talk about other guys like "oh i met a really cute guy today" the thing is i like her and it gets me pissed whens shes talking about it and idk if she likes me. i always think tht shes doing this to make me jealous but i dunno. help?

idk about your situation. it depends on what kind of girl she is. of course your friends... she would tell you these things, it means she opens up to you. you like her? why not go for it ? it sucks how guys go like "oh she doesnt like me". she doesnt have to like you the same time you like her... try telling her YOUR feelings.. maybe her feelings will develop.

[xSuperrAnnx]

im a guy and i have a girl best friend. when ever we talk she would always talk about other guys like "oh i met a really cute guy today" the thing is i like her and it gets me pissed whens shes talking about it and idk if she likes me. i always think tht shes doing this to make me jealous but i dunno. help?

yeah, i really don't think she's trying to make you jealous,
she probably sees you as a good friend and feels like she can tell you these things,
but then that's what i think,
i say you just tell her how you feel and see how it goes?

[DBSK_love]

Do I have to look for girls or do they come themselves?
I didn't go out with a girl for a while, so I'm sort of confused.
Girls, help me. ^^;

its both ways...
but its better to go look for yourself...

okay, i'm a girl.. but i have a question for other girls..
does your boyfriend ever ignore you? as in.. not pick up your calls, not text you back, etc...
do you girls keep trying to contact him, or just wait it out?

and how would you feel if your boyfriend was going out of town(clubbing, shopping, sightseeing) with a group of girls for several days..without you?
i mean, he asked if i could come along.. but i can't go. T__T
how would you girls react?

well if that happens, i would call like once a week, otherwise jus let him be...
i mean once clubbing with a group of girls is okay..but several days, is a dont for a guy...it jus means the relationship isnt going well...i guess it could be that hes bored of the relationship

Ok.. Not exactly a relationship problem. I just sorta want girls' opinion. I have a Pucca & Garu soft toy and I wanted to give one to a guy. Which one do you think I should give? ^^"

Thanks in advance.

garu~

im a guy and i have a girl best friend. when ever we talk she would always talk about other guys like "oh i met a really cute guy today" the thing is i like her and it gets me pissed whens shes talking about it and idk if she likes me. i always think tht shes doing this to make me jealous but i dunno. help?

talk about other girls..see if she gets jealous...if she does its a sign that she probably likes you

[modelwal_k]

im a guy and i have a girl best friend. when ever we talk she would always talk about other guys like "oh i met a really cute guy today" the thing is i like her and it gets me pissed whens shes talking about it and idk if she likes me. i always think tht shes doing this to make me jealous but i dunno. help?

sounds like shes unaware that you like her and she probably doesn't know the affect it has on you....
you should probably ask her who she likes...

uhh i guess... hahaha.

[LunaDiviner]

Thanks for the replies everyone.

[i n c _ m p l e t e]

this actually could be answered by either gender, but since there are more ladies i`ll post it here.

how can u tell when you are completely over someone? (like your ex) or is it impossible & part of you will always be w/ them because of the relationship?
how do u tell the difference between if you miss them or if you just miss the way they treated you? or is it the same thing?

i`m just really confused right now so if anyone can provide any insight, thanks in advance! ^^*

I knew I was over someone when I was completely unfazed by the thought of never speaking to them or seeing them again.

LunaDiviner: Definitely give Garu. Giving a guy a Pucca plush is ALMOST as bad as giving a Hello Kitty.

[Sapphire852]

say you find out a guy has been on your facebook profile alot (without actually posting anything), and this guy has been your ok-close-friend for awhile...what would you think of him after finding out, aside from "he likes you"? like... would you get weird out?

[hibari]

i wouldn't think he was weird. I'd just think he liked me and must be too shy to admit it. *Besides, I've facebook stalked somone i used to like too.

[eunhae]

^
^
i think one of my closest guy friends likes me now
but at first it was kind of shocking when he was like, "i like you"
but now, i just try to avoid those awkward moments & just be normal

[mojomunkeez]

So this girl and I have liked each other a lot for a long time. And yet she wary of entering into a commitment with me. Why is that?

[missdiana45]

say you find out a guy has been on your facebook profile alot (without actually posting anything), and this guy has been your ok-close-friend for awhile...what would you think of him after finding out, aside from "he likes you"? like... would you get weird out?

Hmm.. if he's my ok friend, i'd be okay, but if he's semi-stalking my facebook.. i gotta think it over... i say i would be hesitant, but i'd give him a chance because he's an okay friend hope that helps!

So this girl and I have liked each other a lot for a long time. And yet she wary of entering into a commitment with me. Why is that?

Maybe not ready for a relationship? Or she's unsure of your/her own feelings.. give her some time and talk it over, good luck!

[mojomunkeez]

Hmm.. if he's my ok friend, i'd be okay, but if he's semi-stalking my facebook.. i gotta think it over... i say i would be hesitant, but i'd give him a chance because he's an okay friend hope that helps!Maybe not ready for a relationship? Or she's unsure of your/her own feelings.. give her some time and talk it over, good luck!

We "talk it over" all the time, she just refuses to commit to me.

[patie]

Ladies
i'm a girl too and well ii sort of have a guys crisis lol
Okey so there are four guys T.T that's why it's so hard
Two of them ii dont think i'll see very much unless we hook up
one of them i'll see from time to time due to club activitives
and the last one ii see everyday in school and walk home together sometimes
okey so let's call them guy number one, number two, number three, and number four. Number one is a fobby guy, like really fobby! ii mean ii have no offense or anything because frankly...i'm a fob too rofl. Well he's cute looking and his skin complexion is really good [ii love guys with nice skin], he breakdance and all. Yah see he confessed to me that he likes me T.T I mean ii would give him a chance but the thing is, his attitude annoys me really bad LIke he's really stuck-up and arrogant just cuz he knows how to break and ii dont like that oh and he's shy oo almost forgot, he's vietnamese
Anyway so guy number two, he comes over to my seat in art class everyday [summer school] and iono according to my friend, he's "all over me" lol. He's like a slave =O he does everything for me, even when ii dont ask him to. He's filipino, he's pretty cute, his voice is a bit deeper than guy number one. But ii dont really like him or anything, ii just enjoy flirting with him x.x
Then there's guy number three - ii know him for 4 years now, we're pretty good friends. In fact he's my closest guy friend lol, at the end of the school year he was um..very touchy with me lol. We spend like two hours in my room cuddling ._. iono he woudlnt let me go, and i'm not strong enough to get our of his grasp lol. Anyway his skin is not as clear as guy number one and two but ii guess it's not that bad. He's rather tall though, alot taller than the other two guys, he's 5'10ish ii think. The thing is, i'm really comfortable with him lol, ii can tell him anything and he would say the stupidest thing that makes me laugh. =O and he's korean
And lastly there's guy number four. I met him around 8-9 months ago, but just recently got to met him officially. He's taller than guy number three xD lol and ii love tall guys even though i'm short compare to them. He plays basketball like number three but ii think he's more skilled lol and he also breakdance, he's really good at it haah that's why i'm not really impressed with guy number one. He's rather funny at time =O and his skin GAH IT'S SO PERFECT!! and and his cute dimples lol. I die everytime ii see him smile T.T I'm pretty comfortable with him too and oh he's taiwanese lol.

I just realized they're all different race funny
anyway ladies
if yu were me, which one would yu go for? knowing that all four has feelings for you?
oh and i'm not sure if this goes with it but
what would yu usually ask to start a good flowing conversation?
or just questions that would help to not let the conversation dies? and not stuff like "what's yur hobbies?"
thanks so much <3
and sorry for so much typing

[linny]

You need to pick the one who kind of has the whole package for you. Just pick the guy you feel attracted to the most, the one you like the most. I mean, you can make pros and cons about each of these guys all day long, but it doesn't really matter if you don't like them in that way. And if you don't like any of them enough to make a decision, then just keep hanging out with them until it becomes clear who you do like. If you just pick and choose because you have a choice, and not because you genuinely like the guy you pick, you're doing him a disservice.

Anyway, from the way you're talking, it sounds like you're more attracted to Guy 3 and Guy 4 with maybe a little lean towards Guy 4. Hopefully that helps?

As for good flowing conversations...I usually ask how their day went/what they've been up to and go from there. Music and movies are kind of standbys because most everyone has some kind of preference on these two. You can talk about Harry Potter from now until probably the middle of August and be guaranteed some kind of conversation. Usually I'll just say whatever pops into my head. -___-;;

[NuChee]

patie: they all like you but the question is, is there one you really like? they all seem like really great guys. And yes, like linny said. You seem to be more attracted to 3 and 4...if you're unsure about your feelings, let time do its thing. Also to start a conversation, sometimes I first ask how their day was and bring up things that we both talked about last time. sometimes i bring up what i have planned for the summer, for the school year, etc. and just go on from there.

[apple920]

say you find out a guy has been on your facebook profile alot (without actually posting anything), and this guy has been your ok-close-friend for awhile...what would you think of him after finding out, aside from "he likes you"? like... would you get weird out?

if he's a friend and i know he's interested, knowing he's cyberstalking me won't freak me out as long as when we hang out, he doesn't give me the creeps.

So this girl and I have liked each other a lot for a long time. And yet she wary of entering into a commitment with me. Why is that?

there could be a lot of reasons. she likes you but her schedule is so busy she doesn't have the time or energy to commit to a relationship. as bs as this might sound it does happen. or she might be interested but not quite enough to enter a relationship. have you guys outright told the other how you felt? if not, then what you think is interest coming from her, could in fact just be (in her eyes) harmless flirting. or maybe she's not quite ready to get committed period. while she likes you, she's enjoying her single life too much to become exclusive. these are just a few possible reasons but unless you discuss with it over with her, you'll never really know.

[patie]

linny - wah! is yur name linh? or lin or some something like that? cuz my name is linh!! hahah be kewl if we have the same name =O hahah yur right >.< ii am leaning toward guy four and three more, i'm trying to find a way to keep him interested in me while i'm gone for a whole month T.T Thanks for the advice though

NuChee - heheh ii shall find a solution! muahha ii cant wait to try out these new found questions on them tonight rofl
thanks

[mojomunkeez]

there could be a lot of reasons. she likes you but her schedule is so busy she doesn't have the time or energy to commit to a relationship. as bs as this might sound it does happen. or she might be interested but not quite enough to enter a relationship. have you guys outright told the other how you felt? if not, then what you think is interest coming from her, could in fact just be (in her eyes) harmless flirting. or maybe she's not quite ready to get committed period. while she likes you, she's enjoying her single life too much to become exclusive. these are just a few possible reasons but unless you discuss with it over with her, you'll never really know.

We've discussed it many times, we both know that we like each other a lot.

[missdiana45]

We "talk it over" all the time, she just refuses to commit to me.

Oh, okay... hmm... i guess she's just un-willing... i'm sorry but i think this is just how she is, perhaps she'll change... you could wait, but i'd either ask her point blank (why won't you commit?) or let it go... sry, but thats my honest opinion.. i wish you all the luck!

[jphase]

what do you girls mean or what can it mean when you girls say

"I don't want a relationship right now?"