[xtiinee]

Why do girls do hella stuff with guys (making out, cuddling, goin to for advice, etc) and still wants to avoid a relationship and wants to stay friends?

Uhh, lol I don't know any girl like that but idk, it's the same reason guys do that too. I guess they don't wanna be committed.

Why do girls hide their problems and never tell the guy they're talking to straight up and instead wants us to pry it out of them? Like telling them bits about their past experiences, but wants to hide details because they don't wanna reveal everything to the guy.

Because the girl always has to be "okay". We don't wanna feel like we're bothering you with our problems, but the prying thing shows that you care about our problems.

Why do girls just randomly grab the guy's arms, putting their hands around their waist while they walk, and have makeout sessions randomly? Same girl, and she still wants to be just friends.

What an odd girl.

[ultaeja]

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

[rooss]

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

Its usually different for everyone.
There are the parents that are happy because their daughter has something to be happy about.
But there are also the parents that don't think teenagers should have boyfriends at this age.
Personally, my parents were understanding and happy that I found someone that made me happy.
Just make sure you make a good first impression when you meet them!

[linny]

Why do girls do hella stuff with guys (making out, cuddling, goin to for advice, etc) and still wants to avoid a relationship and wants to stay friends?

Why do girls just randomly grab the guy's arms, putting their hands around their waist while they walk, and have makeout sessions randomly? Same girl, and she still wants to be just friends.

Girls who cuddle, go to guys for advice, and hug their guy friends a lot are usually just really affectionate or flirty people. The girl you're referring to just sounds plain confusing. I'm thinking she doesn't want a relationship, just a friend with benefits, or she's not sure what she wants herself. If you're okay with that, just make sure you're both on the same page and keep doing what you guys have been doing. If you like her and want more, don't let her do this kind of stuff with you until she's ready for a relationship.

Why do girls hide their problems and never tell the guy they're talking to straight up and instead wants us to pry it out of them? Like telling them bits about their past experiences, but wants to hide details because they don't wanna reveal everything to the guy.

Whenever I don't tell the whole story, it's either because I'm kind of ashamed of those past experiences, I don't like thinking about the memory, or I don't want to make a guy worry too much about me.

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

First, it was, "This better NOT affect your studies!"
Then after, it was "He's not your boyfriend anyway, he's just a 'special friend'."
And now they tease me about him all the time and bug him to come over so they can see what he's like.
I have great parents.

[Bk.]

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

my mom was like "omggg! who is he? whats his name? how old is he?" and the questions cont.

[monchichi]

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

My mum would be, "THANK GOD! WHEN'S THE WEDDING?????" but that's because I'm 23 and I'm single >.< She seems to think that I'll die an old maid or something...

[Noochie]

My mum would be, "THANK GOD! WHEN'S THE WEDDING?????" but that's because I'm 23 and I'm single >.< She seems to think that I'll die an old maid or something...

I totally understand where you're coming from. I'm turning 21 in a couple of months and my close relatives give me a lot of crap. Why in the world would I want to be with one guy for the next 50+ YEARS of my life???

[monchichi]

^
LOL, so true. I'm not up to that stage in my life where I want to be committed for life.

A question for the girls because I'm having trouble:

A lot of relatives, friends etc keep asking me this, "Have you found a man?" or "When are you going to get married?"

What's the best way to answer this? Or what do you usually say? Or what would you say?

My lines are usually, "I don't want to get married yet" or "When I find the right one" or "---silence---" (this is when I get annoyed).

I always get disapproving glances after that and some relatives are saying that I'm really picky with guys! >.< I'm not! It's just that I don't feel like being in a committed relationship but they never listen T.T

[ilovesongyoona]

Ladies, you always complain that all the good ones are either gay or married. You want someone that'll treat you right and make time for you, and not judge by appearance, let's just face it. i think we are all a little shallow at times. yeah I'm an average joe whos working on trying not to be so damn nice all the time. Because you say personality is important but ya'll keep gettng mixed up with the bad boys (or white guys pertaining to you asian women! j/k! I'm open to inter racial couples). He doesn't do this he doesn't do that why can't he be this why can't he be that?

If you've guessed I've been single all my life and is romanically frustrated than you are right. As for the being shallow comment, I'm willing t commit to someone but it's a little hard for me seeing that I'm not actually the most handsome guy in town. people always say looks aren't everything, well they play a pretty damn big role. Girls aren't going to see me walking on the street and say "OOOoooh, that guy has a nice personality". No. They'll say "EEwww, that filipino guy is hella dark." The reason why I've been going to the gym is because I want to get noticed. Not trying to change the interior, just the exterior.
people just get treated differently based on looks. I'm sorry to be rude but that's the harsh reality.

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Oh, and sorry I didn't actually post a question. I couldn't think of one.

[xLionHeartx]

GOOD HEAVENS!! Are you sure that wasn't sweat?! The only thing coming from her that would produce so much liquid would require certain stimulation. And if that stimulation wasn't given, it probably wasn't her... Did fingers wander in the make out session? Because then it sounds more plausible. Otherwise I'd say it was sweat...

Initially I thought it was urine. I was soaked from mid chest to knee down and mattress was completely soaked. I was in jeans and a sweater so I didn't realize it was wet until the lights had came on. I went to the bathroom and smelled it, it didn't smell like urine. I ended up throwing out my favorite shirt and jeans.

No way in hell can someone sweat that much, I sweat a good deal amount too and I've never drenched a mattress even after playing like 5 hours of ball.

My fingers didn't wander down anywhere south, I worked from the chest up =/
Female ejaculation maybe?

[modelwal_k]

Why do girls do hella stuff with guys (making out, cuddling, goin to for advice, etc) and still wants to avoid a relationship and wants to stay friends?

Why do girls hide their problems and never tell the guy they're talking to straight up and instead wants us to pry it out of them? Like telling them bits about their past experiences, but wants to hide details because they don't wanna reveal everything to the guy.

Why do girls just randomly grab the guy's arms, putting their hands around their waist while they walk, and have makeout sessions randomly? Same girl, and she still wants to be just friends.

I'm just confused right now.

1. because they're scared of a commitment/ they don't feel ready/ shes playing with you.
2. ladies give you hints because its much more romantic if you figure it out by yourself. they might hide their past from you if they are insecure or feel they can't trust you enough yet.
3. because they want to have fun & maybe shes scared to commit to you/shes feeling insecure/ shes playing mind tricks with you.

understandable why you're confused.

[-AngelzKiss-]

Why do girls just randomly grab the guy's arms, putting their hands around their waist while they walk, and have makeout sessions randomly? Same girl, and she still wants to be just friends.

some girls do it for the attention.
it's like they don't even like the guy... but they want the attention, want others to see it, want to act intimate with a particular guy that they absolutely have no interest in... it's for attention, to let others see purposely... and because they wanna see the reactions of other people.

it's messed up, but it's what they want.. to mess up other people.


sadly, i know a girl like this.

[hibari]

Ladies, you always complain that all the good ones are either gay or married. You want someone that'll treat you right and make time for you, and not judge by appearance, let's just face it. i think we are all a little shallow at times. yeah I'm an average joe whos working on trying not to be so damn nice all the time. Because you say personality is important but ya'll keep gettng mixed up with the bad boys (or white guys pertaining to you asian women! j/k! I'm open to inter racial couples). He doesn't do this he doesn't do that why can't he be this why can't he be that?

If you've guessed I've been single all my life and is romanically frustrated than you are right. As for the being shallow comment, I'm willing t commit to someone but it's a little hard for me seeing that I'm not actually the most handsome guy in town. people always say looks aren't everything, well they play a pretty damn big role. Girls aren't going to see me walking on the street and say "OOOoooh, that guy has a nice personality". No. They'll say "EEwww, that filipino guy is hella dark." The reason why I've been going to the gym is because I want to get noticed. Not trying to change the interior, just the exterior.
people just get treated differently based on looks. I'm sorry to be rude but that's the harsh reality.

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Oh, and sorry I didn't actually post a question. I couldn't think of one.

Girls are personality oriented, we go for looks too but sometimes we do go for the ones that aren't "hot". A nice body is great but you should work on your personality. You don't have to be uber nice. If your caring, funny and somewhat kind you can score a girl thats pretty or cute. I do notice that lots of guys do want girls that are a lot prettier than what they can get. Either go for girls on your looks level (or below) or change your persoanlity, otherwise your going to be single the rest of your life.

[xtiinee]

Ladies, you always complain that all the good ones are either gay or married. You want someone that'll treat you right and make time for you, and not judge by appearance, let's just face it. i think we are all a little shallow at times. yeah I'm an average joe whos working on trying not to be so damn nice all the time. Because you say personality is important but ya'll keep gettng mixed up with the bad boys (or white guys pertaining to you asian women! j/k! I'm open to inter racial couples). He doesn't do this he doesn't do that why can't he be this why can't he be that? If you've guessed I've been single all my life and is romanically frustrated than you are right. As for the being shallow comment, I'm willing t commit to someone but it's a little hard for me seeing that I'm not actually the most handsome guy in town. people always say looks aren't everything, well they play a pretty damn big role. Girls aren't going to see me walking on the street and say "OOOoooh, that guy has a nice personality". No. They'll say "EEwww, that filipino guy is hella dark." The reason why I've been going to the gym is because I want to get noticed. Not trying to change the interior, just the exterior.people just get treated differently based on looks. I'm sorry to be rude but that's the harsh reality.Watch 200 Pounds BeautyOh, and sorry I didn't actually post a question. I couldn't think of one.

Excuse me, when I first saw my boyfriend, he wasn't a good-looking guy to me. Then we became really good friends and he started to like me and now we're going out (5 months). I think he's absolutely the most handsome guy in my eyes. If you want a girlfriend to like you for your personality, my advice to you would be to make lots of friends that are girls and SHOW them your great personality. You're right, personality doesn't just show through as much as appearance, but it's soo much more important. Don't force yourself to change into some... idk, underwear model just to get noticed. Because those won't even last long.

Ladies, what are your parents reactions after you have told them that you have a "Boyfriend." ???

Well.......... my mom only found out because she caught me and him making out in his car after school. She was all mad and mini cooper because "I wasn't supposed to have a boyfriend during junior year because I was supposed to study for SATs." She hated him for a while until she got to actually know him. Now she loves him lol. (More than me, I'd say. T_T) My dad just gave me a sex talk. Lol. He loves my boyfriend too.

[강유미]

What changes everything from oppa/dongseng to girl-friend/boy-friend?
Could you list them, please? I would really like to know.

[JELLOO]

What changes everything from oppa/dongseng to girl-friend/boy-friend?
Could you list them, please? I would really like to know.

im not korean but looking @ soompi im pretty sure oppa/dongseng is like brother sister type thing?
well, for my friends, when they call each other like bro/sis
they end up talking more, learning more about each other, hanging out more, then just start feeling like they really know each other, liking the other's personality, and how they are, feeling comfortable around each other etc....
i hope that helps, not sure if this is what you want to know

[ilovesongyoona]

Girls are personality oriented, we go for looks too but sometimes we do go for the ones that aren't "hot". A nice body is great but you should work on your personality. You don't have to be uber nice. If your caring, funny and somewhat kind you can score a girl thats pretty or cute. I do notice that lots of guys do want girls that are a lot prettier than what they can get. Either go for girls on your looks level (or below) or change your persoanlity, otherwise your going to be single the rest of your life.

Thanks Hibari, I was going to say that un requited love is just an endless circle, and you have reminded me that someone is probably going through the same thing as me but she is a little bit "Lower" than my standards, and i was to selfish to notice her. I try not to go for grls who always dress like their going to a club all the damn time. Even when their just going out just to watch a movie. point taken.

Excuse me, when I first saw my boyfriend, he wasn't a good-looking guy to me. Then we became really good friends and he started to like me and now we're going out (5 months). I think he's absolutely the most handsome guy in my eyes. If you want a girlfriend to like you for your personality, my advice to you would be to make lots of friends that are girls and SHOW them your great personality. You're right, personality doesn't just show through as much as appearance, but it's soo much more important. Don't force yourself to change into some... idk, underwear model just to get noticed. Because those won't even last long.Well.......... my mom only found out because she caught me and him making out in his car after school. She was all mad and mini cooper because "I wasn't supposed to have a boyfriend during junior year because I was supposed to study for SATs." She hated him for a while until she got to actually know him. Now she loves him lol. (More than me, I'd say. T_T) My dad just gave me a sex talk. Lol. He loves my boyfriend too.

thanks xtiinee,that's actaully a pretty good idea. i haven't thought about that yet. Any activities you think that i would be able to go out and get involved with, with my gal pals?

[deportedkorean]

What changes everything from oppa/dongseng to girl-friend/boy-friend?
Could you list them, please? I would really like to know.

imo, its easier to turn an "oppa" into a boyfriend than a "dongseng" into a boyfriend...
and its hard to turn an "unnie" into a girlfriend but is easier to turn a "dongseng" into a girlfriend (than "unnie")

why?

age.

also, "dongseng" kind of suggests that they're a tiny bit inferior to you (even if it's just age). "oppa"...its easy cause most girls call any guy thats older than them "oppa" (even if they're relationship material).

[xsilentangel]

how do you tell a guy you don't want him to flirt with you?

[deportedkorean]

how do you tell a guy you don't want him to flirt with you?

dont flirt back...

...but if it's something like he puts his arm around you and you dont want it there...tap the other arm...and when he looks the other direction...quickly and swiftly slip out of his arm .

it might take a week or two but he'll get the message...