[MoiraElla]

Perhaps I should clarify. I meant more that singing/playing the guitar usually gives "plus points" to that guy, but from my experience, that never really happens. o.o It's more like a pat on the back, good job kind of thing. So I was just asking if that singing/playing the guitar actually DOES give plus points.. or doesn't.

it definitely does. It sounds your interest in music and hobbies/etc but probably the girls that you've played in front of didn't know how to show their admiration so it probably just make you think it was nothing but it is something.
if you really want us to be like "WOW!!!!"
play popular songs or something...just a suggestion. I wouldn't know how you play but I'm just saying.
just don't play/sing to impress. girls don't really like extremely cocky guys.

If a girl doesn't like the guy, they don't directly tell you right?
They don't say, "I don't like you."
Because their image is supposed to be the "nice" and "innocent" girl.

They wouldn't tell you DIRECTLY unless you made them feel like they just want to spit it out to you.
and what candiicraze said, not all girls want to be looked as "nice and innocent" haha.

[megaSTEPxo]

Perhaps I should clarify. I meant more that singing/playing the guitar usually gives "plus points" to that guy, but from my experience, that never really happens. o.o It's more like a pat on the back, good job kind of thing. So I was just asking if that singing/playing the guitar actually DOES give plus points.. or doesn't.

I think if a guy did that to me, my reaction would probably be "awww" too.. because well there's not really much else to say. Deep down, I'll definitely feel flattered and touched because the guy put effort into doing something like this. However, I am not sure if it really gives plus points because it depends on the girl. To me, whether a guy can sing/play the guitar doesn't really matter.

[predator]

1. Why do always go to the bathroom together? To gossip?
2. People say singing/playing the guitar for can woo girls, but from my experience -- that's not really the case. They're just like, "awwwww," and that's about it. HAHA. Your thoughts?

1. To gossip & talk. We enjoy each other's company.
2. Well for me, it's a plus. Depends on the girls. Some will care but some won't.

If a girl doesn't like the guy, they don't directly tell you right?
They don't say, "I don't like you."
Because their image is supposed to be the "nice" and "innocent" girl.

Personally, I don't think lots of girls like to directly tell the guy.
But for me, I'll just tell them straight-up in a polite way.

[Inevitable]

Thanks for the replies, i've always wondered about that question.. but had no real reason why. I guess someday, if I like a girl, i'll test it out. Thanks again!

[masala_chai_tea]

I heard from someone that girls are more stinkier than boys normally? Is that true?

I think it has a lot to do with what you eat, frequency of sweating, and personal hygiene. I think more often it's men that are more "pungent" smelling. Haha.

1. Why do always go to the bathroom together? To gossip? 2. People say singing/playing the guitar for can woo girls, but from my experience -- that's not really the case. They're just like, "awwwww," and that's about it. HAHA. Your thoughts?

A lot of girls want company or just really want to continue the conversation they were in. Sometimes they want opinions or advice that they may not be able to say in front of the parties present at the table/area. I think that having a talent is something cool and should be appreciated. It's always good to do what makes you happy though, and share it if you like to. Serenading is a different story. A lot of girls like that kind of romance!

[faye2thesky]

hmm... if a girl dares you to see how aggressive you could be in a relationship (in terms of physically), what does that really mean? cuz my s/o dared me to see how far I'd go with her physically a few days ago.... o.o

[masala_chai_tea]

hmm... if a girl dares you to see how aggressive you could be in a relationship (in terms of physically), what does that really mean? cuz my s/o dared me to see how far I'd go with her physically a few days ago.... o.o

That's interesting. Maybe you should have a talk with her about it...ask if she's serious about the dare or being sly.

[yungstar]

why do girls dress in provocative clothing, as if they are trying to provoke improper staring, and then dare to give me dirty looks when i proceed to eyerape them?
am i that ugly?

also, how many girls does it take to use the restroom?

[masala_chai_tea]

why do girls dress in provocative clothing, as if they are trying to provoke improper staring, and then dare to give me dirty looks when i proceed to eyerape them?
am i that ugly?

also, how many girls does it take to use the restroom?

I think some girls like attention, while others enjoy feeling sexy about themselves. I don't care if people look because even I look and observe people, but the catcalling is bizarre. I got someone catcalling when I was just wearing jeans and a t-shirt. I think the guy was wasting his comments! It would be better used on someone wearing a cute outfit.

How many? Approximately four. Two will probably be using the restroom, one will be doing her make-up, and the other one will just be chatting with the others. HAHAA!

[babycakez]

If a girl doesn't like the guy, they don't directly tell you right?
They don't say, "I don't like you."
Because their image is supposed to be the "nice" and "innocent" girl.

not exactly. it's just hard to say it out directly because we understand what it's like to be rejected too, so we say it in other ways that would seem less harsh. especially if that person is your friend, of course it'll be hard to say it directly. it's not so much of maintaining that "nice" and "innocent" image. just don't want to feel that guilt, that's all.

[thisisapigg]

girlies! help!

it feels like the boyfriend and i are starting to drift apart after 9 months. he was always the initiative one in the beginning, like with calling me and saying sweet things. he was so whipped now i'm the only one doing the dirty work!

i really want to work things out. i've already been given some advice from a friend, like not taking crap from him. i'm just wondering if some other girls here have any more advice.

[MoiraElla]

girlies! help!

it feels like the boyfriend and i are starting to drift apart after 9 months. he was always the initiative one in the beginning, like with calling me and saying sweet things. he was so whipped now i'm the only one doing the dirty work!

i really want to work things out. i've already been given some advice from a friend, like not taking crap from him. i'm just wondering if some other girls here have any more advice.

can you give more details?
if you're feeling as if you're the only one trying to work out in this relationship, tell him. communication is EVERYTHING in a relationship. its all about communicating.
what does your friend mean by not taking crap from him? is he bossing you around or something?

[muchacha]

1. Why do always go to the bathroom together? To gossip?
2. People say singing/playing the guitar for can woo girls, but from my experience -- that's not really the case. They're just like, "awwwww," and that's about it. HAHA. Your thoughts?

1) Because girls like to check themselfs in the mirror, talk about things, just chill.
2) Depends on the girl, not all girls are into that sort of thing. It is a romantic thing
to do for a girl though if you want her to be happy

[thisisapigg]

girlies! help!

it feels like the boyfriend and i are starting to drift apart after 9 months. he was always the initiative one in the beginning, like with calling me and saying sweet things. he was so whipped now i'm the only one doing the dirty work!

i really want to work things out. i've already been given some advice from a friend, like not taking crap from him. i'm just wondering if some other girls here have any more advice.

can you give more details?
if you're feeling as if you're the only one trying to work out in this relationship, tell him. communication is EVERYTHING in a relationship. its all about communicating.
what does your friend mean by not taking crap from him? is he bossing you around or something?

details: he been acting kind of... weird. he's been saying a lot of mean things to me, such as calling me "immature", " being a baby", "stupid", etc. he tells me they're just jokes and that i get mad too easily. i use to laugh when he made fun of me, but these "jokes" are a little too often and i can only take being called a loser from someone i love for so long. i don't know, it's been hard caring about him too since he always pushes me away when i'm trying to help him :X i know i definitely don't want to break up with him, so that's why i need help T_T talking to him about it would be one of my last options because he never thinks anything is wrong when i do talk to him about. i even told him we had communication problems and he said something like, "you always start these things (fights)."

[zzombie]

girlies! help!

it feels like the boyfriend and i are starting to drift apart after 9 months. he was always the initiative one in the beginning, like with calling me and saying sweet things. he was so whipped now i'm the only one doing the dirty work!

i really want to work things out. i've already been given some advice from a friend, like not taking crap from him. i'm just wondering if some other girls here have any more advice.

The thing is, he's tired of having to initiate everything.
And basically tired of you waiting for him to initiate everything.
I think he's just feeling neglected and is also probably suffering from symptoms of "I don't think my girlfriend cares about me".

So that's why he's acting this way.

Here's a tip: quit controlling your boyfriend and your relationship will end fine.

[Ningyo]

I know... I've been in this situation too. =\. The one thing I regret is not being myself... I was so worried all the time it killed me. But some days I'd be like eff it... and actually act myself and it seemed like he was into me again. So just act yourself... that's all I can say... people move on.

[MoiraElla]

details: he been acting kind of... weird. he's been saying a lot of mean things to me, such as calling me "immature", " being a baby", "stupid", etc. he tells me they're just jokes and that i get mad too easily. i use to laugh when he made fun of me, but these "jokes" are a little too often and i can only take being called a loser from someone i love for so long. i don't know, it's been hard caring about him too since he always pushes me away when i'm trying to help him :X i know i definitely don't want to break up with him, so that's why i need help T_T talking to him about it would be one of my last options because he never thinks anything is wrong when i do talk to him about. i even told him we had communication problems and he said something like, "you always start these things (fights)."

oh that's HORRIBLE! but you really need to talk to him. ask him if he even care...b/c whats the point of being in a relationship then. you know? im not trying to be harsh or anything. =/
tell him that there are problems in the relationship. point it out to him and if he doesnt care, then you must break up with him even though it hurts but atl east youre free.

[mojomunkeez]

Uh...so this just happened.
My ex just asked me if I was home or not and whether she could come up to my house to "give me something". I said that I was at home, but I didn't feel like seeing anybody (well, just not her, she really hurt me). I told her to come tomorrow.
So she was like: "oh, nevermind, I've changed my mind" It's all very vague and confusing. So I guess she's not going to give me whatever she was going to give me? I don't know.
Maybe it was supposed to be a birthday present? (My birthday is next week but I'm leaving for a trip in four days)

[honeylove]

Uh...so this just happened.
My ex just asked me if I was home or not and whether she could come up to my house to "give me something". I said that I was at home, but I didn't feel like seeing anybody (well, just not her, she really hurt me). I told her to come tomorrow.
So she was like: "oh, nevermind, I've changed my mind" It's all very vague and confusing. So I guess she's not going to give me whatever she was going to give me? I don't know.
Maybe it was supposed to be a birthday present? (My birthday is next week but I'm leaving for a trip in four days)

She probably wanted to give you something important, whether it be a birthday present or maybe an apology gift [ since you said she really hurt you ] and you probably made her change her mind because you made it seem like you didn't wanna see her. So she probably got that message and was like forget it.. and just gave up? Cus a lot of girls do that. I know I'd be like ' aw forget it.. he doesn't even wanna see me for a second, I don't wanna give it to him anymore. '
Maybe you could call her? :/

[mojomunkeez]

She probably wanted to give you something important, whether it be a birthday present or maybe an apology gift [ since you said she really hurt you ] and you probably made her change her mind because you made it seem like you didn't wanna see her. So she probably got that message and was like forget it.. and just gave up? Cus a lot of girls do that. I know I'd be like ' aw forget it.. he doesn't even wanna see me for a second, I don't wanna give it to him anymore. '
Maybe you could call her? :/

Damn! I feel really stupid now...
But if I call her, what do I say? What do I do? I don't want to seem all pathetic: "hey, can I have whatever you wanted to give me now?" How do I get her to change her mind again?