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#901 User is offline   alley 

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Posted 05 August 2007 - 03:44 PM

QUOTE(Osakagrl @ Aug 4 2007, 11:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im a girl but i have a question for other girls in relationships. is it weird that my boyfriend and i have never had a single argument in our 6 month relationship? were still together but weve never gotten in an argument....not once. and my friends say thats weird.....


i think its a great thing you guys haven't fought. i mean, it's always an anticipation to know when your first real fight will be because it will be your very first therefore, something to remember. but trust me, once you start bickering.. you'll wish you'd never did. you'll miss the good o' days you guys didnt fight.

anyway, my cousin's been in a relationship about a month or so longer than yours, and she still hasnt had an argument with her bf.
hope it makes you feel betta. haha~ but yea.. hope u guys dont fight any time soon! lol
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 12:56 AM

Do ladies prefer tattoos on their men or is it more of a preferable thing? The tattoo is pretty tasteful in my opinion and it's on the side of my left calf.
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 06:16 AM

QUOTE(xLionHeartx @ Aug 7 2007, 04:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do ladies prefer tattoos on their men or is it more of a preferable thing? The tattoo is pretty tasteful in my opinion and it's on the side of my left calf.


i think its more of a prefrence. i like tatoo's when , like you said, are done in a tasteful way. nothign to big or covering your whole body. but over all it really depends on the lady.



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Posted 07 August 2007 - 10:35 AM

How do you know if a guy is going to play you? Like the kind of player who justs sleeps with lots of girls while looking for 'the one' he does actually want to go out with? How can you tell if your that one or justs some one he is going to play? >_< help!

....or cant you tell and its all just a big mystery? sleep.gif

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Posted 07 August 2007 - 10:57 AM

QUOTE(xLionHeartx @ Aug 7 2007, 04:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do ladies prefer tattoos on their men or is it more of a preferable thing? The tattoo is pretty tasteful in my opinion and it's on the side of my left calf.


Definitely a preference.
Some girls like em alll clean.
But other girls don't mind.
Or other girls totally dig it.
Myself, I don't mind, as long as its not overdone.
If there's a girl that totally flips over your tat then o.o'


QUOTE(crazi_munkii @ Aug 7 2007, 02:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do you know if a guy is going to play you? Like the kind of player who justs sleeps with lots of girls while looking for 'the one' he does actually want to go out with? How can you tell if your that one or justs some one he is going to play? >_< help!

....or cant you tell and its all just a big mystery?



Uhm, you could check his reputation.
If he's done it before than it's likely he'll do it again.
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 11:41 AM

how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 11:49 AM

^ you know, it's like the opposite around me. the guys are always like "oh hyori is so hot" and other girls, right infront of me and other girls.

some girls just love gushing about guys..
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 02:28 PM

QUOTE(mikez @ Aug 7 2007, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol


They may not realize it's turning you way off lol.
It could be hinting on like "You should have abs like those."
Or she could just be fangirling O.o (<-probably)
Either way if someone does that enough to you and you don't like it,
Gently let them know and then it should be fine.

I must admit I would be annoyed too if a guy did the same...
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 04:48 PM

QUOTE(crazi_munkii @ Aug 7 2007, 11:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do you know if a guy is going to play you? Like the kind of player who justs sleeps with lots of girls while looking for 'the one' he does actually want to go out with? How can you tell if your that one or justs some one he is going to play? >_< help!

....or cant you tell and its all just a big mystery? sleep.gif

Um. If he's a good player, then it'll be hard to tell. If you suspect the guy of being a player, be careful, look for signs of him just "being after only one thing", and take it slow. If he's not serious about you or doesn't care for you, he will leave eventually. If he is serious about you, he'll stick around. Taking it slow is good anyway.

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how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol

Hum. Probably because they're really comfortable around their guys, so they don't really think about how it might bother their guy. That or they're just really fangirly. If it *really* bothers you, just tell the girl to tone it down a little? I try not to talk with my guy about stuff like that, but if I do, he usually joins in and gives his opinion lol.
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Posted 07 August 2007 - 06:02 PM

QUOTE(mikez @ Aug 8 2007, 03:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol

the girl actually knows that she's turn off-ing the guy. she'll be thinkin hard whether to tell you about it knowing that you might not like it but then she need to tell somebody about it and it happened to be you always. or it might be they want to see what your reaction would be like. if you don't like it, you should just say so to the girl. so she won't do it again.

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Posted 07 August 2007 - 07:49 PM

QUOTE(mikez @ Aug 7 2007, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol


because we like to dream rolleyes.gif
HAHA the girl could be fangirling
or trying to make you jealous -.-
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 06:18 PM

why are some girls so............................ like the girl knows the guy has a girlfriend already but she never gives up on him/flirt with him....???

example= korean dramas
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 08:02 PM

QUOTE(ahmong_ @ Aug 8 2007, 07:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why are some girls so............................ like the girl knows the guy has a girlfriend already but she never gives up on him/flirt with him....???

example= korean dramas


girls are greedy. hahaha just kidding she probably really wants the guy. you know, those selfish girls dry.gif
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 09:09 PM

QUOTE(xLionHeartx @ Aug 7 2007, 01:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do ladies prefer tattoos on their men or is it more of a preferable thing? The tattoo is pretty tasteful in my opinion and it's on the side of my left calf.


It`s a preferable thing. For me, I don`t mind if a guy has a tattoo, it`s no biggie.

QUOTE(mikez @ Aug 7 2007, 12:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol


Trying to make you jealous? Haha, I did that before x( .. Well, girls can fantasize, can`t they? Guys can do that too. =)

QUOTE(ahmong_ @ Aug 8 2007, 07:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why are some girls so............................ like the girl knows the guy has a girlfriend already but she never gives up on him/flirt with him....???

example= korean dramas


Yeah, girls who do that are selfish and don`t think about anyone else but themselves and their needs and wants.
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 09:37 PM

if a girl likes a guy, does she normally try to make eye contact or does she avoid him?
and what if he catches her looking at him a few times but she always looks away?
probably depends on if she is shy or not?
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 09:49 PM

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if a girl likes a guy, does she normally try to make eye contact or does she avoid him?
and what if he catches her looking at him a few times but she always looks away?
probably depends on if she is shy or not?


it would probably depend on the girl
as for me, i try to make some sort of eye contact / conversation with the guy i like (who conveniently sits across from me in class), but i tend to avoid him when he's with his friends..
and i do look away kind of fast when he catches me looking (i'm shy though..)
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 10:07 PM

QUOTE(xLionHeartx @ Aug 7 2007, 06:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do ladies prefer tattoos on their men or is it more of a preferable thing? The tattoo is pretty tasteful in my opinion and it's on the side of my left calf.


Preference. I, myself, do not like tattoos but I'm sure there are many other girls out there who do.

QUOTE(crazi_munkii @ Aug 8 2007, 04:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How do you know if a guy is going to play you? Like the kind of player who justs sleeps with lots of girls while looking for 'the one' he does actually want to go out with? How can you tell if your that one or justs some one he is going to play? >_< help!

....or cant you tell and its all just a big mystery? sleep.gif


Usually a look into their past will tell you. Or you could go out with them and find out for yourself =.= Unfortunately a lot of players are very charming at first and it's kinda hard, IMO, to suss them out right away.

QUOTE(mikez @ Aug 8 2007, 05:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how come girls like to tell their guys about how hot usher's abs are, and how hot those drama/pop star look when they know full well their guys cant be like that! its very turn off-ing lol


Not all girls are like that but I know a friend of mine who does... she always shouts out how hot that guy is across the street right in front of her bf and I feel sorry for him.

Maybe the girl wants to see if her guy will get jealous... *shrug*
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 10:16 PM

how long do you guys usually take to move on from a bad relationship and then be ready to give someone else a chance.
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 10:21 PM

3 questions...

1. Why do u girls always go to the bathroom together?

2. What do u girls do in the bathroom together?

3. (BIG QUESTION) How important is sex (yes sex) to a girl in a relationship?
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Posted 08 August 2007 - 10:37 PM

QUOTE(what~the~vu @ Aug 8 2007, 11:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
how long do you guys usually take to move on from a bad relationship and then be ready to give someone else a chance.


It's hard to say....

It depends on how much she liked/loved her ex. Some guys are just HARD to get over no matter what. But I also know that if the new guy persuing her is charming/caring enough, or if he makes her happy somehow...he could very well have a chance too. She may not jump into a relationship with him right away, but eventually, the girl will most likely fall for the guy.

From my experience anyways...... hope it helps!


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