[~ BunnyliciouS ~]

a guy should only cry when his family member or friend dies, or when he has to separate with his gf/wife involuntarily.

other than that, he's a sissy.

If I see a guy who cries over little thing, I would grab his shoulders, slap his face and say,

"CRYING AGAIN? YOU'RE A MAN FOR GOSH SAKE! SO, BE A MAN, AND TOUGH IT UP! YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE A LEADER, NOT A CRY BABY."

yup.

[hippiehop]

I understand what you mean. Guys are supposed to be our rock. When we are sad, when we cry, they are the ones we are supposed to be able to lean on. But in your relationship is seems to be the other way around. You're the one who has to cheer him up, etc. What is he crying about? Is he like.. "Oh my god... today I stepped on this flower and it.... died!!! * crying* " (I hope not because that is damn emo and you need to dump his ass) or like "You don't understand me at all * crying *"? Either way, I think your bf is a woman and needs to take some midol.

[f2ts]

don't worry most guys r like that... they can't always be strong... but if they're doing it so much then something is wrong...
you would need to hear him out because some people don't know how to express themselve really...
true me... your is not as worst as my boi...
he cry over little thing... for example:
when i told him it's going to take more then love for us to be together (marriage) = he cry
when i told him to stop looking at me so much = he cry
he miss me = he cry
and etc.... so pretty much he cry more then i do... anyhow i understand him... he is a very sensitive guy and it okay because i get to be the MAN~~

[`faded]

o_o..I wouldn't want a guy that's too sensitive yet too manly/macho at the same time..o_o somewhere in between HAHAHA..>.>

[M$]

I know how you feel. My ex used to cry over the littlest things and it began to get on my nerves, because I`ll hear him cry all the time, about mostly over nothing. He`s been like that ever since we dated. Before we dated he was never like that, I never heard him cry, or even tell me he was. I began to always feel it was my fault he cries but I found out it wasn`t. I still stayed with him. Even when we broke up, he still today cries to me over the littlest things, but I`m always there for him, because we`re still friends. If it doesn`t bother you to the point where you start to get seriously annoy and you love him that much, you`ll get over it, other than that, I don`t know what else.

[missxsuong]

i comfort them
but if their going to cry like that
then i tell them to suck it up and get on with life

[x_wonton]

Hmm, if he is too sensitive, maybe you should try talking about it to him? Maybe you already have, but tell him he shouldn't get worked up over stupid little things. I rarely ever see my boyfriend cry. I've heard him cry over the phone about an ex (when we were not together), and once I've seen him cry because I asked to take a break, which resulted that we got back together, ehh, yeah.

I wish the best for you :| Boys are a mystery sometimes.

[CuteLadyLover100]

hahah wow that s really cool if a boy to sensitive cuz mostly they are girls who are sensitive ohha lucky me i m just a bit sensitive i don t understand girls them are confusing, cuz they want to see emotions but don t want such cry babys
better i become ice cold so i don t have to think about girls feeling i m jusrt 13 so i got time to change my mind but if i m older it will be embrressing if i m older and cry in the puplic

[saysjessi]

guys are not supposed to cry. suck it up! be a man! (well, if someone close to them died, it's ok)

a guy that is overly sensitive/a crybaby is right down there on the no-no scale with CLINGY.

[pshnancy]

Okay i'm a girl but i need another girl's POV on this becuase i'm too scared to actually ask people i know..
I'm only 14 so i have a lot of questions but i'll keep them short..hehe

1. my question is, i haven't had a crush on a guy for like the longest time..is that wierd? << sorry it's a stupid question i mean when i see an attractive guy i'm like "Woah, he hot." and move on like 2 seconds later and my friends think it's wierd how i stop thinking about that guy so fast...

2. This question is wierd but..Is making out fun? becuase it looks gross..or maybe i'm immature or something but aren't you basically licking the other person? i mean if i had a bf that asked me to lick him i'd be like "hell no! " wouldn't you? or is making out something different. what is it exactly?

Sorry number 2 is like 5 questions haha. thanks in advance.

[kappow]

Okay i'm a girl but i need another girl's POV on this becuase i'm too scared to actually ask people i know..
I'm only 14 so i have a lot of questions but i'll keep them short..hehe

1. my question is, i haven't had a crush on a guy for like the longest time..is that wierd? << sorry it's a stupid question i mean when i see an attractive guy i'm like "Woah, he hot." and move on like 2 seconds later and my friends think it's wierd how i stop thinking about that guy so fast...

2. This question is wierd but..Is making out fun? becuase it looks gross..or maybe i'm immature or something but aren't you basically licking the other person? i mean if i had a bf that asked me to lick him i'd be like "hell no! " wouldn't you? or is making out something different. what is it exactly?

Sorry number 2 is like 5 questions haha. thanks in advance.

Hey there im a girl and im gonna try and answer ur questions!

1. not having a crush for a while is definitly NOT weird. In fact i havent had a crush for about 6 months now! and dont worry i also like to perv on guys. And not thinking about a guy is sometimes A VERY VERY GOOD THING LOL!

2. Making out ae? well i think its something u have to experience first hand! But uhmm.. past experience and what others tell me is that Yes. it is fun! lol! Licking the other person? depends on the person, u dont have to lick someone!! Making out is when youre kissing or w/e someone vigorously but youre not having sex! It really just depends on the people.

hehe sorry if doesnt make much sense esp question 2!

[meringue]

1. my question is, i haven't had a crush on a guy for like the longest time..is that wierd? << sorry it's a stupid question i mean when i see an attractive guy i'm like "Woah, he hot." and move on like 2 seconds later and my friends think it's wierd how i stop thinking about that guy so fast...

I can only answer this question since I have no experience regarding the second question. Anyway, I think that this is normal. You probably don't see guys as a priority right now. You may have other things that you consider more important, such as getting good grades, becoming MVP on the team, etc. Right now, you are focusing on what YOU think is important at this point in your life. Silly boys are the least of your worries right now. But don't worry, time will make you rethink your priorities. You'll find a guy that will sweep you off your feet and suddenly, you'll find yourself thinking about him a lot.

[CitrusFlower]

i've also wonder how a guy feel, there is guy i like he told me he like me but then later he said he just wanna be friends, i was CRUSH! it's been a while and i still like him alot! when i see him i dont talk to him, he said he want to be friends and i do but my question is why did he say he like me and totally change it? he said eh wants to be friends then why didn't he contact me, im the crush one he should just contact me instead cuz he should know it's hard for me but he still act like we never met....i want to know why?why do guys do this?

[meringue]

i've also wonder how a guy feel, there is guy i like he told me he like me but then later he said he just wanna be friends, i was CRUSH! it's been a while and i still like him alot! when i see him i dont talk to him, he said he want to be friends and i do but my question is why did he say he like me and totally change it? he said eh wants to be friends then why didn't he contact me, im the crush one he should just contact me instead cuz he should know it's hard for me but he still act like we never met....i want to know why?why do guys do this?

I think that he does like you, but he doesn't want to get into a relationship with you. He's either not ready for a relationship or he doesn't like you enough to commit himself to you.

[faye2thesky]

1. How would u girls react if ur s/o asked you to make a decision for him? Say he got a new job, but in order to keep it, he has to sacrifice the time that he has with you. At the same time, he also really wants the job and you know it can do him good.

2. If you and ur guy were really close, would you guys be conscious about your behavior with each other when you're around friends?

[megaSTEPxo]

1. How would u girls react if ur s/o asked you to make a decision for him? Say he got a new job, but in order to keep it, he has to sacrifice the time that he has with you. At the same time, he also really wants the job and you know it can do him good.

2. If you and ur guy were really close, would you guys be conscious about your behavior with each other when you're around friends?

1. I would definitely support him in accepting the job offer... since well, he really wants it.. and I would want him to be happy in life and be able to accomplish/achieve something too. I would be a bit sad that I won't see him as often but I'll probably get over it.. since it's not like we have to break up or anything.

2. I would probably be more conscious when I am around other friends.. since well, I am a shy person and it would be a bit awkward if we were all over each other in front of friends or even in public.

[MoiraElla]

1. How would u girls react if ur s/o asked you to make a decision for him? Say he got a new job, but in order to keep it, he has to sacrifice the time that he has with you. At the same time, he also really wants the job and you know it can do him good.

2. If you and ur guy were really close, would you guys be conscious about your behavior with each other when you're around friends?

1. Depends on the decision he wants me to make for him. I wouldn't want to be in the way of something he wants, so I would let him sacrifice the time with me for the job.

2. No. I wouldn't be very conscious about our behavior with each other in front of other people. Just not too much emotions/affection but yeah. Why hide it? Hope that makes sense.

[muchacha]

1. How would u girls react if ur s/o asked you to make a decision for him? Say he got a new job, but in order to keep it, he has to sacrifice the time that he has with you. At the same time, he also really wants the job and you know it can do him good.

2. If you and ur guy were really close, would you guys be conscious about your behavior with each other when you're around friends?

1) Hm well for me, I would think about it for awhile. What are the conseqences? Whats are the pluses? Then I'd think about him, Does it make him happy? If it does then I'll accept it. It's a hard decision to think through but if its good for both of you then thats what matters.

2) Not really, He's my BOYFRIEND my friends shouldn't really care. Unless their jealous or something.

[mashpotatobunny]

1. How would u girls react if ur s/o asked you to make a decision for him? Say he got a new job, but in order to keep it, he has to sacrifice the time that he has with you. At the same time, he also really wants the job and you know it can do him good.

2. If you and ur guy were really close, would you guys be conscious about your behavior with each other when you're around friends?

1. Depending on the situation, I would react differently. But if it's a job, I would be okay if he sacrificed some of our time together, especially if he really wanted the job and it would do him good. Can't stand in the way of him succeeding in life.

2. Weeeell, considering I haven't had a bf in a loooong time, I'm going to have to think about this hypothetically. I think I would be a little more conscious about our behavior around friends. I wouldn't want them to be grossed out by excessive PDA or anything (not that I show excessive PDA... XD). Hahaha... Other than stuff like that, I think I would just act normally?

[kimseo]

I'm a girl, I just need other opinions on my friend's current situation.

My [best - I guess] friend is going out with her boyfriend and it's been almost 2 months for them. She, I assume, likes him a lot, but me and her have been questioning if he likes her back, even though he asked her out. They're a little over 3 years apart, so one day, he told her that before they went out, he only saw her as a little sister.
Before we ever met him, him and his ex-best friend fought over this girl and his ex-friend "won" her. The girl and him still talk, and today, he TOLD my friend that he still likes the girl and is only going out with my friend because he doesn't want to lose her. (She doesn't know if he's joking or not, but isn't it kind of wrong to joke about that? -__-;;;) I also told her that I think he might be just going out with her to make his ex-friend jealous or whatever. When I'm hanging out with them, he doesn't seem too...loving to her, and he flirts with ME >_>, always wants me to come along, and tries to get MY attention and crap. She tells me when I leave, he's totally different and gives her all the attention and stuff.
I told her today to break up with them. If he's serious about liking the other girl, then defiently breakup, but if he was joking, she should be pretty pissed off because it's not a funny joke at all, but don't know about breaking up. BUT she keeps telling me, "But I still like him..." or "What if I regret it?" and doesn't want to break up. ;

What should she do? Especially after what he told her...(I don't know if you'd really tell that to your g/f -0- which is why we think he might be joking.)
Sorry if it's confusing >_< I'll explain more if you want.
Pleaseee help D: I need other peoples' opinions, esp girls and what you would do.