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Why Do Asian Females Give Off A Weak Vibe? as compared to caucasian females....

#1 User is offline   rich.paekk 

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 09:43 AM

Lately at work I see asian females working and they tend to be petite/weak/quiet. They dont have that charisma and strong willed character compared with the caucasian females. Like they dont have confidence or something which is a turn off for me. whats up with that? are asian females lacking the "girl power" nowadays?
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 09:44 AM

maybe in your area but here lots of life o_o

depends though.. alot of girls are shy o_o

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 09:49 AM

Are they new to your work place? They could be nervous or something like that. Give them time, they might become more....er....energetic. Or it could just be them sweatingbullets.gif , but not all Asian girls are weak.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 09:55 AM

Where do YOU live? O_o all the asian girls around here are so violent/assertive *me included >_>;

Are they new? like someone above mentioned. Or are their english skills not up to par with everyone elses? Or maybe it's just one big coincidence
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 09:56 AM

well why don't you help them gain some confidence then? Maybe they just don't wanna be obnoxious...
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:00 AM

Umm, a lot of Asian girls are shy, and they tend to be more conservative because of their parents.

Some can be quite the opposite though. You just happen to live at the wrong place on the planet, hun.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:01 AM

QUOTE(azn_kira @ Jul 18 2007, 10:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Where do YOU live? O_o all the asian girls around here are so violent/assertive *me included >_>;



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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:04 AM

Uhh... this relates to health/beauty/fashion how??

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:06 AM

i think in my area, there are both shy asian girls and loud + confident asian girls hehe
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:06 AM

QUOTE(sushiwhore @ Jul 18 2007, 11:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i like to throw rocks when i'm angry w00t.gif


^ haha, your post made me laugh XD

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:07 AM

QUOTE(rich.paekk @ Jul 18 2007, 10:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lately at work I see asian females working and they tend to be petite/weak/quiet. They dont have that charisma and strong willed character compared with the caucasian females. Like they dont have confidence or something which is a turn off for me. whats up with that? are asian females lacking the "girl power" nowadays?



I think you shouldn't use the word weak to describe the Asian girls you are talking about. It could just be the way they were brought up. And I don't know about you but I know a whole lot of them who are strong-willed and can work wonders!!!

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:11 AM

i`uno about the girls ur talking about but i'm pretty aggressive/violent. i have a lot of pride and no one puts it down without a price. -shrugs- maybe ur taking their shy/quietness the wrong way. what if they're just being cold to you because they don't like you. i mean, i come off as shy/quiet but it's really just sort of closeness i have towards ppl at first, like a defense mechanism. -shrugs- did u try talking to them? looks can be decieving.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:19 AM

it depends on how they were raised.
in asia, the girls there are taught to be submissive. For the guys, some do, some don't.
that's why in college, many international asian students sit on the back of the class and don't really raise their hands to answer the teacher's questions or give their opinoins as often as the americans,
they don't stick out, but still get very good grades.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:23 AM

this is why people say that i'm not your typical asian girl, lol but yeah, i was about to say what bunny said how an asian female's behavior is influenced on how they were raised, etc. i guess this is why they stick out less in a crowd bc their personalities tend to my suppressed and such sad.gif
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:26 AM

QUOTE(rich.paekk @ Jul 18 2007, 11:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lately at work I see asian females working and they tend to be petite/weak/quiet. They dont have that charisma and strong willed character compared with the caucasian females. Like they dont have confidence or something which is a turn off for me. whats up with that? are asian females lacking the "girl power" nowadays?


I've met many asian females like that too. I know there are shy caucasian females as well but they don't stand out as being shy as much as some asian girls do. In every class I have there is one asian girl who barely talks and answers the teacher so quietly you can barely hear her (I can think of 4 girls right now) they seem so fragile and the teachers treat them really nice because they are sweet and get very good grades. I think these girls seems so shy because they are mostly in ESL and arn't confident with their english however physically they are still very tiny/skinny and extremely girly. I dunno....but I see girls like this all the time. I think they are really cute and I bet when they are with their friends they act all crazy'n'loud.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:36 AM

Hrmm, not all asian girls are like that.
Maybe they`re shy ?
Just give them a few days ..
Where i live, all the asian chicks are soo talkative and whatnot.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:46 AM

ehhh...I don't know about weak but....a lot of my friends (including myself) are quiet and don't really talk loudly in class...for me it's because sometimes I don't feel comfortable, especially with a bunch of strangers...that doesn't mean we're "weak"...We get really loud and crazy all together....but anyways...the girls might not be used to the workplace and might be uncomfortable with strangers...maybe give them some time...it takes some people awhile to open up sometimes...
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:52 AM

Maybe it's just where you live. I know soooooooooo many ASian girls who'd eat you alive! LOL... well not literally but they can quite intimidating. I'm sometimes seen as quiet and shy but that's usually because I just can't be bothered to say anything to strangers. But if you got me talking I'd be very loud and talk non-stop. If you pissed me off I'd try and break your pinky fingers... Lol. Not all Asian girls are quiet or whatever, there's a mix of both, same with caucasian girls and any other race girls.
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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:55 AM

I find your post extremely sexist...not to mention racist also.

"A lot" of girls does not necessarily mean the entire female population.

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Posted 18 July 2007 - 10:56 AM

Uhhhh maybe that's where you live... 'Cause over here in Vancouver, I see so many hot Asian chicks that will practically knock you off your feet.
QUOTE(CK @ Jul 18 2007, 11:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I find your post extremely sexist...not to mention racist also."A lot" of girls does not necessarily mean the entire female population.
Agreed.
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