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#1 User is offline   yalla 

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Posted 29 July 2007 - 08:15 PM

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I can take criticism on my singing
Thoughtless random comments... i dunno tears.gif
I record for fun, so I try not to care
but what's with this person?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted 29 July 2007 - 08:25 PM

Do you mean 니노래퍼감?
Cuz that was really o_O
I only understood what I could laugh.gif That was really rude sleep.gif
Anyways...I would listen to the clip, but I can't T_T Maybe I'll try again later?
Don't worry about jerks like that person! I'd like to hear that person sing! I bet he/she can't even sing!
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Posted 30 July 2007 - 02:14 PM

don't listen to them
people can be mean and jealous
someone was saying something about your pronunciation also and that's totally just crap
I doubt they know what pronunciation is --;;
a lot of top stars have the most anti-fans
just think of it as motivation to work harder
then go read the Bible - if you're Christian
do some hobby or something to get your mind off it

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#4 User is offline   Chrissy08 

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Posted 31 July 2007 - 12:39 AM

I can't listen to the file cuz I don't have time to get the plug-in set up right now, but yeah some people on the internet are extremely rude. They think they're Simon on American Idol or something. They're usually angry middle- or high-schoolers so just ignore them. If you give them the attention they're craving, they're just gonna come back at you repeatedly and harder each time. Don't even respond, cuz it seems everyone else who's posting a comment knows that they're just being rude. But those kinds of kids can only talk smack; they won't actually do anything, except wave their hands wildly in the air while shouting to get some attention, but they'll soon give it up.

Just think about it this way: No matter how hard you try, there will always be people who won't like you, just like there are people who do like you. It's impossible to please everybody. So just think about it like this: 그냥 똥 밟았다 생각하고 넘어가. 똥이 무서워서 피하냐? 드러워서 피하지. ^^;
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Posted 31 July 2007 - 02:45 AM

Hi!
Let me tell u a short story.
I once had myself a rude criticism about my pronunciation in a song i sang with 2 other ppl... Because I didn't know the language and it took time for me to learn it, because I took time to play my own version with a remix that I really liked.. Just because I put my heart in it , I didn't expected to have such comment: "xxx ruined the song, I don't know if he understands what he's singing but it seems not.... " etc.

But hey.. Let's think for a moment... No I did not understood what i sang... Plus singing in that language perfectly is really hard.. I should be proud of me of attempting! At that moment i didn't react like that. the comment touched me. I didn't think enough.

Chrissy08 said it, we cannot be appreciated by everyone, whatever our level. Just be prepared to it whenever u post a song. we cannot expect only friendly comments.

People who posts rude and non constructive comments, if their intention was to bring u anything for u to improve, they really should take some communication lessons first. But I doubt that was that intention, they just want to bring u down. It's no need to argue with them, no need to pay attention... Don't show them they succeeded.

Cheer up wink.gif

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Posted 31 July 2007 - 06:24 AM

they are seriously heartless.. I think you have a very sweet voice =) Ignore all the hate, and believe in yourself...

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Posted 31 July 2007 - 08:23 AM

Well you have a really sweet voice and you definitely hit the right keys and stuff.. I think that a great amount of notes/words were dragged out for too long though .. (huh, i re-read this sentence so much trying to see if it made sense or not that Idk anymore so I'll just leave it..) and I can't read korean so all I can say do your best and forget the rest! w00t.gif
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Posted 31 July 2007 - 09:47 PM

hey that was really pretty!! what the heck??
whatevers.. there'll always be haters lol

i write songs.. and i wanna hear a voice like yours do my songs.. my voice just don't fit the lyrics.. your voice is beautiful lol it's nice and sweet ^^

don't take those haters seriosuly.. some ppl are just out there to bash anyone and everyone lol
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