[jadey]

Holy COW!!! a 40-50 page report??!! Man, I hella BSed my senior project and got away with an A . Which school do you go to? Anyways, good luck on your project and i'm glad i can be of help.

1) No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
2) No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
3) No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
4) No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
5) No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
6) Yes: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) 2
2) 1
3) 1
4) 1
5) 1
6) 1

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.

An extreme act of betrayal, e.g. bro sleeps with wife *EEEEK*

2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?

A sudden change in their behavior.

3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?

Kinda like the first one: betrayal

4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?

Suspicious behavior whenever i'm around

3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?

i don't really know about this one. i don't just go off an hate anyone i don't know.

4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?

appearance mostly and body language (eg. gangsterish, pothead, etc...)

[angelcadex]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
2) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
3) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
4) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
5) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
6) Yes/No: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 1
2) Shy/Outgoing: 2
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends: 2
4) Close/bad relationship with family: 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious: 1
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet): 2

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you?
What would make me hate someone very close to me is if they betray my trust, talk about me behind my back, or lie to me in a hurtful way.

2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
If they betray me, use me, or I realize they weren't the person I thought they were.

3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
My reasons for 'hating' someone are all the same regardless who the person is: betrayal, deceiving, etc

4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
Hm, well they don't really 'matter' as much to me but still it would hurt to find out the same things such as a change in their personality, or if I see them doing wrong to someone else.

3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
I don't really think this is possible, hate is a very strong word that I've never really applied to anyone in my life. To hate someone I don't know says a lot. But to make me dislike or be cautious about them would be their reputation. I don't really have anything else to go off of, so if they're known for doing bad things, that's the person I assume they are...until I figure out otherwise.

4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?
If other people don't trust them, it has to be somewhat valid/reasonable if a group of people find something wrong.

[koneee]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: No
2) Yes/No: No
3) Yes/No: No
4) Yes/No: INo
5) Yes/No: No
6) Yes/No: Yes


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) 1
2) 2
3) 2
4) 1
5) 1
6) 2 (I'm in college)

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.
Hate is a REALLLY REALLLY STRONG WORD, so to make me hate you would take a lot. First, I trust people too easily because everybody makes mistakes and I believe that they can learn from it. However, if they keep making the same stupid mistakes then they lose my trust (but I don't hate them yet). If they mess with any one of family members or friends, then I will be close to hating them. If they end up killing any of my friends of family ok, then yeh I would hate them. But it's rare that I hate anybody.. I don't think I do. Teehee
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you? Oh, uhh.. I guess I pretty much said it up there. Plus, If they broke a very very important promise, or If someone ever cheated on me, or was disloyal to me.
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you? Pretty much the same things as the first question.
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you? Same thing o_o;
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know? If they killed anybody I knew.. OH and dumb drivers who cut you off, don't really know how to drive/park.
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know? Stories about people bringing scissors into the fitting room and cutting off sensors and then leaving the store without buying anything THOSE ROBBERS!!! >:[ But that's only when I work retail HAHA. But you can't trust strangers with your belongings sometimes because some strangers might just rob you.

I'm a very optimistic person, I trust people easily so it would take a lot for my to hate someone.

[|300|3L355]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do. NO
2) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do. NO
3) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do. NO
4) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do. NO
5) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do. NO
6) Yes/No: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual YES
^ I don't really understand number six?

SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 1
2) Shy/Outgoing: 2
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends 2
4) Close/bad relationship with family 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious 2
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet) 1

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought. betrayal/selfish/broke promise/unconsiderate and more.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you? Can't keep a secret
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you? Can't keep a secret and telling lies/blaming me for things I didn't do
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you? can't keep a secret/big mouth
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know? I've never hated someone I don't know...
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know? i give everyone a chance... so idk...lol

[XtremeNuisance]

Hm... hated senior project... Are you a college student or something, because that's a freaking long paper.

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
2) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
3) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
4) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
5) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
6) Yes/No: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual

SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 2
2) Shy/Outgoing: 1
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends: 1
4) Close/bad relationship with family: 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious: 1
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet): 1

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.
Well, with the terms given ("theoretically told to you by SOMEONE ELSE you absolutely DO NOT KNOW") then nothing. If I confirm it with that someone, it would probably be if they completely betrayed my trust, tried to hurt me or those I care about in any way, or death of someone close.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
Same as above. Nothing, given the terms. Betrayal of trust, otherwise. =D
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
Yeah... same as before
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
Nothing really. I think I unconciously distrust people "somewhat close to" me from the get-go. =D defense mechanism of sorts. Can't help it.
3/5) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
Did you mean to mis-number it? Anyway... nothing. Well, unless you mean that this "SOMEONE ELSE [I] absolutely DO NOT KNOW" is telling me lies.
4/6) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?
I at least give people the benefit of the doubt before I never trust anyone. Maybe if they were a serial killer or something?



Hope that helped... @_@

[satisfaction!]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
2) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
3) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
4) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
5) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
6) Yes/No: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 2
2) Shy/Outgoing 1
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends 2
4) Close/bad relationship with family 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious 1
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet) 1

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.
many broken promises, betrayal (especially if it's from the same blood), and if they're extremely rude/has no respect.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
betrayal.
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
again, same as the first.
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
again, same as 2nd.
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
if they're rude/has no respect. but since hate is a strong word, i'll just dislike them since i 'dont know' them. but if they're rapists, pedophiles, murderers, etc.. then that's another story.
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?
mmm, i cant technically 'trust' someone from the beginning if i dont know them.. you know?

there you go! =) gluck with your report T__T

[dark_chancellor]

I have a few concerns about how this study works, but...I guess it's okay for now =D

1) Yes
2) No
3) No
4) No
5) No
6) Yes


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) 2
2) 1
3) 2
4) 1
5) 2
6) 2

THIRD section
1) Nothing - I wouldn't take the word of a stranger as anything more than someone trying to spread a rumour. It wouldn't be fair to the subject of the conversation if I just believed it all right away. I'd have different answers if the source were more credible, of course.
2) Same as the above
3) Same as the above
4) Same as the above
5) Same as the above
6) Same as the above

[hesaid143]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) No
2) No
3) No
4) Yes
5) No
6) Yes

SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) 1
2) 2
3) 2
4) 1
5) 2
6) 2

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.
- my family. nothing unless they used me. same with a significant other.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
- betrayal.
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
- betrayal or inconsiderate acts towards people
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
- betrayal
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
- inconsiderate acts towards people
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?
- Nothing, unless that person has a criminal record, then we got some getting-to-knowing to do

[XtremeNuisance]

thanks for replying! every reply is helpful

lol i know this survey is pretty long, so if you don't feel like doing it now.. add it as a favorites! and when youre surfign the web at 1 in the morning with npothing to do... you can take this survey thanksxD

also for the third section, i know its a really awkward question, becasue i agree with most of the replies so far "betrayal" being the most common... but im trying to research on hate/dislike (hate is really strong word, i know =T)

for example, during world war ii (im going to researh this further.. at least the psychology behind it) what made all those people follow hitler? not everyone die; a lot of it was out of fear i suppose... but all these people made assumptions about Jews or believed assumptinos made by hitler

so even though you are a considerate person and you would hate to hate someone, please please please try to imagine a scenario in which soem random stranger came up to you and said "That person is/did this...." what could possibly be so bad that would make you hate someone close to you? or even dislike strong enough to hate them/betray them?

The WWII thing... wasn't there a BIG debt problem because of WWI and everything? And then people voted Hitler in and he kind of... solved it? And you know how people are when our leaders help. So they trusted him or something and then it got out of hand? You know, I don't really remember. But I thought I'd say it because I THINK it's right, but I can't be too sure... where tf did I hear that anyway.... *thinks* =D

[Rinrinn]

haha. I just saw this topic today. I hope it's not too late to post this for your study... (or maybe it is.. )

section 1:
1. n
2. n
3. n
4. n
5. n
6. y

section 2:
1. 2
2. 2
3. 2
4. 1
5. 1
6. 2

section 3:
1. If it's a stranger (like you said) telling me all this, I would most likely not believe him/her and ignore it like it's a false testimony... but I generally don't 'hate' people ('dislike' is a better word).
2. Same as the above... but if the stranger is warning me about sth that someone close to me did to me (tht I dunno about), then it is up to myself to find out if it's true or not... but i wouldn't start to distrust unless it is true.
3. Same as 1.
4. Same as 2.
5. I wouldn't care less. lol.
6. Same as above... EXCEPT ... it depends what the stranger is telling me about. I would only care if the stranger is warning me about someone who is a thief/murderer/rapist.. etcetc... then of course I would take their warning/advice and avoid that person who I don't know.



Have a nice day

[fierymeadow@yahoo.com]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) No
2) NO
3) NO
4)NO
5) NO
6) YES


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 2
2) Shy/Outgoing 2
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends 2
4) Close/bad relationship with family 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious 1
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet) 1

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought.
-cheating, betrayal, abuse my trust, ignores my view, unethical/immoral
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
-lying on tests, lie to other people,stealing, invade my privacy, unethical/immoral
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
- If they talk bad about people I care about, abused my trust, invade my privacy, unethical/immoral
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
- they freely talk about other people, cheat in relationships/tests, lie to me, unethical/immoral
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
- if I know from someone I trust that the person had done something unethical
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?

[OHHxDANGG]

So here's the FIRST section:
1) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a classmate and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
2) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a coworker and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
3) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between an immediate family member (Mom, Dad, Sis, Bro) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
4) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a future family member (Fiance, future in-law) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
5) Yes/No: It is easy for a relationship between a church member (or other religion) and me to break as a result of something small/irrelevant they do.
6) Yes/No: I think that personal relationships are crucial to the social welfare of an individual


SECOND section (put 1 or 2 only):
1) Extrovert/Introvert: 1
2) Shy/Outgoing 1
3) Few close friends/many friends + few close friends 2
4) Close/bad relationship with family 1
5) Religious/ Not Religious 2
6) High school graduate // College or post college (pick the one that you are planning on if you are not past this age yet) 2

THIRD section**
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you? Please give these ones a lot of thought. If he/she betrayed me.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you? If he/she talked about me behind my back/continued to lie to me when I know the truth.
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you? If he/she talked about me behind my back.
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you? If he/she lied to me.
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?If he/she talked about me behind my back/teased me/insulted me.
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know? The way he/she treated others.

[xKiss the Sky]

FIRST Section
1) No
2) No
3) No
4) No
5) No
6) Yes

SECOND Section
1) 1
2) 2
3) 2
4) 1
5) 2
6) 2

THIRD Section
1) What would make you hate someone very close to you?
If the person lies to me continuously without reason or tries to take advantage of me.
2) What would make you distrust someone very close to you?
If I know that the person has previously lied more than once.
3) What would make you hate someone somewhat close to you?
If the person absolutely opposes my views or does not try to understand my perspectives.
4) What would make you distrust someone somewhat close to you?
If I know that the person has previously lied more than once.
3) What would make you hate someone you don't know?
If the person acts immaturely, treats other people awfully, or has no respect for others/issues in the world.
4) What would make you never trust someone you already don't know?
If the person has a history of dishonesty with others that I know.

I hope this helps. Good luck with your paper!