[kpoppri]

i don't know if i'm just weird....but i really don't enjoy sex. i really don't derive any pleasure out of it. i know that for many girls...it's sort of a really emotional event, especially your first. and after having sex wit someone u may become emotionally attached cuz its such a big deal and all. but for me, i've done it several times and have never really enjoyed it, or even felt anything physically, much less emotionally. so ....is it just me or do other females feel the same way?

[iEatPowder]

i don't know if i'm just weird....but i really don't enjoy sex. i really don't derive any pleasure out of it. i know that for many girls...it's sort of a really emotional event, especially your first. and after having sex wit someone u may become emotionally attached cuz its such a big deal and all. but for me, i've done it several times and have never really enjoyed it, or even felt anything physically, much less emotionally. so ....is it just me or do other females feel the same way?

I'd just say your man isn't pleasuring you right since you've only done it "several" times. Experiment and see what feels pleasurable. Otherwise sex is always going to be boring.

It's like Luda says. "Some say the sex is overrated but they just ain't dooin' it right."

[loveof]

$5 that this is going to get closed.
breaks rule #2...?


go hire a good male "------"

[hello kitty]

maybe you should do it with someone you find sexually attractive that's good in bed

[snow_drop*]

lol such a daring topic... ^^

Hmm, maybe you don't like the guy enough to feel anything. If you don't like it don't do it. It's not whether it's pleasurable but it's who you do it with. I guess some people dig the pleasure but it's not just sex, it's making "love".

>_>

[Malice_Kaiser]

It's not that weird... I've known one asexual in my life, but I know many more exist. Anyway, she's in her twenties and has had significant others, but she simply isn't into sex. *shrugs*

Maybe you just have to wait for the right person. Or the person you're doing it with really sucks at it. Either way.

[chineseduckling]

perhaps he's not good in bed. if a guy does it right and knows what he's doing, i doubt you would be starting this topic.

[supakoreanflyguy]

lol 85% of the girls on soompi have never seen penis in their lives

[beautylicious87]

i would definitely have to say that whoever you are having sex with isn't satisfying you~~
that's it~~
just experiment with different positions or what not~~
sex is meant to explore so explore!!

[greenti]

i would definitely have to say that whoever you are having sex with isn't satisfying you~~
that's it~~
just experiment with different positions or what not~~
sex is meant to explore so explore!!

HAHA!
she couldn't have said it better!
xD

yeah i'm up for that bet!
$6 it's going to be closed.

[me.so.cool]

yups...it must be the guy. you need to find a good one who knows what he's doing. i'm still w/ my first and i've got no complaints. =P

[xsilentangel]

lol 85% of the girls on soompi have never seen penis in their lives

lmao, you're talking as if we're like, 60 years old.

the guy must be a n00b in bed, but one with experience might mean he slept with a lot..

[`deelicious]

go masterbate and find out what you enjoy then tell him to do it for/to you =)
i guess your just not with the right man. your mind has to be in it too.

he aint doin it right! go look for someone else!
if you know your stuff, teach him.

or both of you can watch porn. if your old enough
try different positions. explore!

[~ BunnyliciouS ~]

lol 85% of the girls on soompi have never seen penis in their lives

how did you get that number?

[jefferislame]

i don't like sexual intercourses... even though i'm still young.. wells i'm more or less asexual because when i hear the "p" word or "v" word i just go ewwwwwwww and get all gross about it.. then when i hear the noises or something related to that i scream.. i mean i SCREAM ! which is really sad... perhaps there's something wrong with me ;[

[poopiness]

The secret to feeling good during sex is to do it yourself ;D

self sex anyone?

[chairmanK]

^ very true. First, you need to figure out what you enjoy. If you can't even please yourself by masturbating (relatively easy), then there is no way that you are going to enjoy having sex with another person (somewhat more difficult).

[yungstar]

here's an idea...
get the action on tape.
put it on soompi.
and i'll tell you what yall are doing wrong