[karensocal]

my fiance's older brother will getting married next year May 2008. i feeling so sad and i crying. why they picked the day is 5 mons before me.they knew that.they knew when is my wedding

i'm not jealous kind of girl.i'm happy for them. but y.

i want my wedding simple and classic. with all family and sharing a happiest day of my life. 2008 Oct is the time i picked and wanted. i know they both working and have money.they can have anything in their wedding. they will make my wedding look like nothing. i'm so freaking sad. i know i can't do anything.

1 more thing, my fiance's mom said that its my fault to wait too long. i know she want more grandkids. she think i don't want her older son get married and have kids. take her happiness away. what the hell........what the F*** i do

i always treats my fiance's mom like my mom.i always go shopping with her. she always complain about other girls suck and treat like crap. now she turn her head against me. want to be best pal with her older son's gf (who will be her daughter in law soon). i knew why she did it because she think that she treat her nice, then the girl will give her more grandkids....oh gosh.

i just feeling like " why i be a good girl and treat her so nice, but at the end, what i get, a "betray". i don't even want to be nice to anyone, when u nice , people doesn't care u. but when u treat them like shi* , they will so nice to u"

[xLionHeartx]

Why is marrying 5 months later such a problem? I am confused and you are babbling. Did they say they're making the other wedding better than yours or something?


Gosh.. girls and over reacting...

[sushiwhore]

i think that you are WAY WAY WAY over reacting o_o so if its 5 months ahead you act like they chose it on the DAY OF your wedding

and you know asian moms they choose whoever will give them the most cute boy babies so if you dont produce them dont expect to be treated nicely o-o

i think you dont know how other daughter in laws were treated before hand didn't you? what you have would be considered heaven for my mom ....

also this should be n the rant thread so it should be closed


sorry if i sound like a pinkberry you just dont know how much better you have it compared to others

also o_o i dont know why you are comparing yourself to them no matter what day or how extravagant their wedding was it can't surpass the feeling that your wedding day will be YOUR day dont you? or is all the bling they have just much better?

you sound very jealous. you get what you can afford. its your day regardless. and no matter what all eyes will be on you

[ladiixxpreciious]

you're really overracting
i thought you wanted your weddding to be simple and classic? why get so mad over having theirs 5 months earlier and making yours look like nothing?

[Vindictive]

i can kinda get what you're trying to say..
a wedding is very important.
try to talk to them about it? see if they can reschedule theirs.

[karensocal]

its all about why they pick 5 mons b4 me. why not after?

my fiance is a white guy. white people more selfish and ...........don't know what to say..

maybe i'm over reacting. but they knew my wedding day will be at friday, now they picked friday also

i just don't want their wedding like mine, but bigger, prettier,.........u know

[xLionHeartx]

its all about why they pick 5 mons b4 me. why not after?

my fiance is a white guy. white people more selfish and ...........don't know what to say..

maybe i'm over reacting. but they knew my wedding day will be at friday, now they picked friday also

i just don't want their wedding like mine, but bigger, prettier,.........u know

wow, you're not just overreacting. You're stereotyping white people and you should probably take your head out of your ass to think clearly. You talk about being selfish when

i just don't want their wedding like mine, but bigger, prettier,.........u know

Consider yourself blessed to find someone who wants to marry you. Sorry for being so mean but god damn girl!

[daydreamin9]

stop being so selfish and stop overreacting. it's only 5 months. at least your getting married. get over it , sweetie.

[eunhee_lemonade]

yeah you are lucky to be getting married
just remember, getting married is for YOU AND YOURSELF
yes you do have to have your inlaws on your good side
BUT ITS NOT FOR THEM, ITS JUST FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND

[karensocal]

maybe i'm overreacting, but i'm not selfish. so are u telling me that u call me selfish because i just try to plan my dream wedding.... oh thxbtw, i forgot to tell u guys that my fiance's older brother married twice b4

yeah you are lucky to be getting marriedjust remember, getting married is for YOU AND YOURSELFyes you do have to have your inlaws on your good sideBUT ITS NOT FOR THEM, ITS JUST FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND

i'm completely agree and understand thati love my husband, he is the best. i'm luckiest girl.

[monchichi]

Oooh... I know how you feel - completely - because before my best friend's wedding, her older brother was going to get married a few months before as well and it's kind of annoying. Even though it sounds petty and all, no one will understand unless they're in the bride's shoes... you put so much effort into your own dream wedding, to make it nice and original, and then you find out a few months earlier that another close relative is having a wedding using your ideas... so when it comes to your own wedding, it looks like you copied theirs...

And as for the mother in law - they're ALL like that. Especially if you're a bride... a lot of mother's are very protective of their sons and will tend to victimise the bride-to-be at some point (like they can't take care of their sons the way they can or they're trying to take the sons away or they can't look after kids properly etc...). All I can say for that is to just suck it in and seek comfort with your own mother... blood is always thicker than water. No matter how nice you can be to the mother in law, she will always be on her son's side.

[karensocal]

Oooh... I know how you feel - completely - because before my best friend's wedding, her older brother was going to get married a few months before as well and it's kind of annoying. Even though it sounds petty and all, no one will understand unless they're in the bride's shoes... you put so much effort into your own dream wedding, to make it nice and original, and then you find out a few months earlier that another close relative is having a wedding using your ideas... so when it comes to your own wedding, it looks like you copied theirs...

And as for the mother in law - they're ALL like that. Especially if you're a bride... a lot of mother's are very protective of their sons and will tend to victimise the bride-to-be at some point (like they can't take care of their sons the way they can or they're trying to take the sons away or they can't look after kids properly etc...). All I can say for that is to just suck it in and seek comfort with your own mother... blood is always thicker than water. No matter how nice you can be to the mother in law, she will always be on her son's side.

THX GOD. u ar the only one understand me here

that's what i try to say

[CIRee]

As the great Homer Simpson said "The worst day of your life *so far*."

[charzzy]

congrats on getting married soon

[sushiwhore]

THX GOD. u ar the only one understand me here

that's what i try to say

i highly doubt they ar copying you ... i'd only say that if hse actually copies you dress for dress idea by idea but having her wedding 5 months before on a friday isn't o_o

[elmo.]

make a scene on their wedding so it'll be the worest day of their lives

[miszgotpho]

you have 5 months after there wedding. How bout you think of other great ideas to make your wedding better. Try something different.

[GOOMBA]

ranting thread? and...i think you have serious issues. there's gonna be tons of people who will have nicer weddings than you, nicer houses than you, better cars than you, even have a hotter husband than yours. if your parents are gonna put it down, let them put it down. you know the reason behind it already

[Bamidele]

Honey, calm down first of all because you went into babble mode after the first line. I can understand that you want your day to be the most special day that God ever created, but realistically nothing is going to be that perfect. First of all the other guy is older, and why shouldn't he get married before his baby bro? Second, you don't even know what their wedding is going to be like, and who the heck cares what it is going to be like. Stop comparing the two, and just enjoy your day. The point is your marrying the person you love, and that alone makes it perfect, whining and being a bit petty about little thing like this are too over dramatic. I hope I don't sound to harsh but you need to be humble and thankful that your getting married.

[CriticalHit]

yeah you are lucky to be getting married
just remember, getting married is for YOU AND YOURSELF
yes you do have to have your inlaws on your good side
BUT ITS NOT FOR THEM, ITS JUST FOR YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND

make a scene on their wedding so it'll be the worest day of their lives

And also please try to type neatly next time, I took about five imnutes trying to make
sense of that. And don't be so negative, at least you're gonna get married! ^^