[KuYA II]

like what the topic starter says :: Do you get annoyed by people complainning about your weight? either too skinny or too big?


Well I do, and personally, its getting on my nerves. Ever since I lost weight, everyone has been in my case that i'm getting too skinny and that they like me bigger.

and the first thing i thought was "Well you guys never liked me when i was big as well?"


4 months ago, i'm 5'7 used to weigh about 180 pounds..mixed with i guess muscle and fat. Everytime I wake up, i have to suck in my stomach because i always had a belly. Since that time i wanted to bulk up I would eat about 5,000 calories (all healthy no junk food, sweets, ice cream, chocolate, fast food etc. just a lot of healthy food eating) for more every...2-3 hours. When I go to family gatherings, everybody would complain how i'm big and that i should lose some pounds. Or my grandma would complain that i eat too much and that i should lose some weight. I was getting fid up with everyone that i started to lose some weight. I also noticed that i was having heart problems (suprisingly cuz i'm only 20 years old) and one time, while i was at church, my heart started beating fast then i would get this sharp pain area on my chest. From that point i wanted to shed the pounds.

So i started to eat good amount of portions every 3 hours. Did 30 minute low intensity cardio since i just wanted to get rid of the fat. Then i suddenly shed 25 pounds leaving me 155 pounds. I felt great, happy and i feel a lot more energetic. Even though there are times that i feel tired.

Now with my new look, i still get complaints from my everyone that NOW I'M TOO SKINNY. I'm thinking "wth do you want from me? first you don't like me skinny now you don't like me fat?" I even told my reasons and my grandma was like

"Your too young to have those kind of conditions only older people have those heart problems stroke etc."

Well i wanted to PREVENT myself from getting those thats why i'm losing the weight.


Makes things worse my grandma offered me juice and i said no. Then she started getting mad on how i don't eat and that i'm too skinny. I even told her that i ate earlier but she wouldn't believe me.


For now all i could do is shrug it off and mind my own business. (sorry if it is long -.-)


Does this happen to you?

[angelqian]

dude stay skinny, and don't listen to your parents, they're getting senile, lol, girls would like you better anyways if you worked out.

[sayuri43]

hahhaa, when I started reading this, in my head I asked "are you a guy?"
and then I read the "YES, I'm a guy" under your avatar, ahhahaha

I usually get the skinny complaint, but then I'm a girl so it's a little different (nobody's saying I look anorexic or anything)
As long as you're happy with what you weigh, that's all that matters. I mean, if you're eating healthier and stuff, it's good, right?
Do it more for your health rather then to stop the complaints from coming because honestly, they're never going to stop.

[x831]

you must have viet relatives..jk

my family does that too and it drives me nuts!!! Im like "forget it as long as I'm happy" i hate it when they complain abt you but they are worst and they say it's cuz they are old they can't do anything..

[x_LuvAlwayz]

my mom nags me like 24/7. i'm at healthy weight !!!! i just want to scream at her for nagging me all the time !

[sushiwhore]

my bf adn bff et sick and tired of hearing me complain about how i look becuase i'm NEVER satisfied o_o

=(


my parents also dont say much o_o i haven't been eating as much ias i normally would becuase of stress o_oo wellllllllllllll

[GOOMBA]

health section ~ ?
and yeah i hate it when my family complains T______T
it's like .. well obviously i can see it please shut up thank you ~

[shortee28]

when my family members make comments about my weight i go:
"i know"
"your point?"
"and soo, what?"
"its okay, more to love "
"i don't have to impress anyone but myself"

and i do it all with a big smile on my face =D

[supa'Wanki]

I hate people who complain about THEIR weight.

[KuYA II]

hehe thanks for the comments everyone ^^


i don't complain about my weight, but more like people nagging on my weight hahaha. I just want to be healthy lol

[.moony.]

Yea people always tell me im too skinny and this and that.
sometimes im just sick of it and shrug it off, ignore them completely.
Its like hello dont you think i can't see it? i'd love to gain weight too but i apparently can't...
i wish they'd just mind their own business. i mean if im happy with myself then why would i need them to tell me how much i should weigh. its not like im tryin to starve myself or anything.
sucks <.<

[lovelee]

YES this happens to me and i HATE it. ughh.. when i was fat my dad was like mean... but nobody else dared say anyting to me abojut my weight... not to my face anyways..then i got skinny and my grandpa was like "Are u anorexic.." and i wasn't AT ALL.. sooo


at this point im just like
they can all go to ...haaha..that hot place that is the opposite of heaven

[&teekayy;]

ummmmm honestly since I'm not being bothered about being on the heavy side, I don't mind much, depending on the way people say it.... like


"WTF? YOU'RE ___ POUNDS? DUDE THATS SO SICK.. GROSS..."


Ok... just... stfu... I don't know why people really care... It's not their body >[

[touche`]

Actually, I'm only annoyed when people complain about their weight to me. o_o I'm saying, if you don't like it.. change it.. complaining about it won't do anything at all.

but when other say smoething like that to me? I shrug it off, really. It's not their body...

[bebeSO-viet]

After 8th grade I guess I lost some weight mostly in my face.
And my dad kept complaining that I was too skinny, and I guess he was worried that I wasn't eating or something.
Honestly though, I'm not even skinny.
I'm pretty average, 5'6 and 110 lbs.
It's just so annoying, because he never stops.
So I just ignore it. =]

[mzlolz]

I think people love me just the way I am... 8)
I'm overweight, I admit. I don't do things to help it,
but in a way, your story inspires me because you
made it sound so easy. GAWD. I wasted my damn summer.

Thinking again, my mom actually tells me to lose weight at times,
but it's stupid how she keeps forcing me to eat when I'm not hungry
and then telling me I'm fat... >_> i don't really think it's my fault
and I'm kinda brought up spoiled, so hmm...

I can relate with you on some parts. Thanks for sharing your story.
So how long did it take you to lose 25 pounds?
Did you just eat healthily every 3 hours and do low intense cardio 30 mins. a day?

[ohmylamb.]

YEAH. OF COURSE.
I'm skinny. Slim. Is it the same?
My class T-shirts for the girls are fixed in size and so, some of us can't fit.
When I wear them, they shrieked "Hey! How come you can fit in that!"

But everyone close to me wants me to gain weight.

[*.:StarryEyeSurprise:.*]

yah ppl tell me I'm too skinny
I get real annoyed with those comments, bc it's not like I can help it
I eat ALOT and exercise, not my fault other ppl have bulging tummies -__-
but the fact is although I have a very toned stomach, I have fat legs, they're kinda thick and not slim at all
I don't have a very small frame though

[Antz]

Not really. I used to get teased about my weight when I was younger, because I was "large", but because I'm skinnier, my family tells me why am I so skinny now and other stuff..... I prefer that than being called fat.

[pink1e]

I've been dealing with it since I was in kindergarten.. Yeah, nice aye? Back then I was really skinny, so everyone pressured me to be skinny and keep skinny YET they force me to eat.
If I gain a little weight they [family + relatives] say I'm fat. Soooo, I lose weight again. And again with the cycle.
Recently, I've gained weight because of sophomore 10 [ not freshman 15 lol]. I hear, "hey you look chubbier [a nicer way of saying, you're fat]" from relatives but my mom's a bit more blunt. She straight up tells me I'm fat and need to lose weight. I'm already semi-obsessed with my weight/body image without her telling me all the time. Right now, I really don't listen to them anymore. I do what I want to do on my own time.


So yeah, just ignore them and do what makes you happy and healthy. Congratulations on the 25 lbs drop!


P.S. One thing is for sure, I hate it when people say "I'm so fat" when they don't have any visible fat at all, and also from people who are actually fat but don't do anything about it.