[asianami]

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UPDATE, YOO! ;D
- 10:14 PM ; Friday, Aug. 31, 2007 -

so okie i've decided that i will forgive her, but that doesn't mean i will approach her first and start apologizing to her though. i'll wait it out until the tension is cooling down between us (which i must say, it is! wootness!1!1 >0<) and HOPEFULLY she will CALMLY approach me nicely and talk about the situation and stuff. you know how things can calm down if you don't see the other person for a while? it sure is seeming to work here! :3 thankies everyone for your input! it really helped me come to this decision<3<3<3

[Etsu]

OMG!!!!!!!! thats TERRIBLE!!! your mom don't even care!!!! what kind of MOM is that!!!!!!!! sorry if i sounbd bad for saying this.. But.. thats so PATHETIC!!!

She's your mom. She should DO something.....
even if she doesnt like you or whteva for whteva reason... SHE'S ALWAYS STILL GONA BE YOUR MOM...

GOSH!!! I wouldn't even talk to her for days!!!!!!!!! GEEEZZZZ!!! instead of ranting, yelling.. shouting.. watchin TV.. DO SOMETHING USEFUL!!! lyk taking you to the hospital!!!

Gawd I swear if that was my mom.. I'd be OUT THAT DOOR!!! no offense!!! But thats just COLD!!! she doesn't deserve to be a MOM!!! sorry......... >>>.<<<

[addickshun]

omg.. this is WTF?!!!!!!!!!
it's so unbelievable your mum treats you the way i treat a bug.
aww poor ami *hugs*
did you do something to piss her off earlier before all this happened?
or was she treating you like this for your whole life til' today?
that is so.. maybe you should talk to her about how you feel, and ask her why she's treating you so horrible.
get your dad to talk to her about it too.. your dad is fatherly to you, right? :]
if none works out, just move out (HOW OLD ARE YOU?) or live with stephanie for awhile.
poor you once again.. *hugs*

[cheenq]

I don't think you should apologize..maybe that you exaggerated...but you should talk to her about how she talks/disrespects you..and how it hurt you and all.

[iPandaBear]

I don't think you should apologize..maybe that you exaggerated...but you should talk to her about how she talks/disrespects you..and how it hurt you and all.

Word.

Your mom doesn't deserve an apology but, forgiving her? I don't think you have a choice, you're living with her and going to be for a while [?] I don't know how old you are so, yeah.

[asianami]

omg.. this is WTF?!!!!!!!!!it's so unbelievable your mum treats you the way i treat a bug.aww poor ami *hugs*did you do something to piss her off earlier before all this happened?or was she treating you like this for your whole life til' today?that is so.. maybe you should talk to her about how you feel, and ask her why she's treating you so horrible.get your dad to talk to her about it too.. your dad is fatherly to you, right? :]if none works out, just move out (HOW OLD ARE YOU?) or live with stephanie for awhile.poor you once again.. *hugs*

aww your hugs made me smile (altho i'm a bit drowsy from the medicine i have to take-- i feel so dizzy and lightheaded @0@~~) and no i didn't the few days before that happened since she was busy working lots of hours. but ever since last year, when she tried to ruin a relationship with stephanie&me and said sh!t about her and her mom and then all of my friends, our relationship/bond broke. but my dad.. he's kinda siding with her for the moment and all so idk. and i'm 14 lol!! cant move out yet! ;D and i dont want to bother stephanie for a while since she's done so much for me, im really thankful for her. lol srry if i'm sounding so weird/strange it's because im getting even more lightheaded from one of the medicines i got to take. @0@~~~~

I don't think you should apologize..maybe that you exaggerated...but you should talk to her about how she talks/disrespects you..and how it hurt you and all.

hmm i guess i should talk about that but idk.. she might scoff at me or something and that. and even if i do consider that option of talking it out to her, i guess ill just wait until things cool down between us/the tension is that high.

[Bakamaru]

wow i would not apologize for the life of me. YO MOMMA HEEEELLA NAZI

[JunsukParkx]

HELL NO

your mom is a crazy ass pinkberry

[addickshun]

only 14, lol i take the moving-out idea back.
then you should talk to your dad about it first,
ask him whose side is he supporting and tell him that you need him in order to get your mum's attitude right.
and definitely talk to your mum about it, don't argue and raise your voice though.. she might hit you.
tell her you're her daughter and what she's doing is really hurting you.

[asianami]

only 14, lol i take the moving-out idea back.
then you should talk to your dad about it first,
ask him whose side is he supporting and tell him that you need him in order to get your mum's attitude right.
and definitely talk to your mum about it, don't argue and raise your voice though.. she might hit you.
tell her you're her daughter and what she's doing is really hurting you.

lol true about the she might hit you thing. (typical asian parents =_=;)
and my mom should be coming home right about now (OMG NUU. x__x)
so ill see if she's going to come up to me (which im betting $5 on that she will) and yell at me.
im so friggen scared at her reaction, but my dad said that she'll get over it.
hope he's right. >__<

[milk;cloud]

your mom is horrible.
lock your door and call child support. D:
she said she should have strangled you.
maybe she would judging by how you described her. o_o

hope everything turns out smoothly.
or hide to your aunt. n_n;;

[taebins_luver]

she's your mom, what are you gonna do, divorce her?
it was childish of her, and she should have taken you
but that doesn't mean hate her and shut her out just cuz
and honestly, this question is pretty childish too
why are you not gonna forgive your mom?
think of everything she's done for you?
gave life to you *w/ help frm ur dad*
pushed you out from her *which might i add HURTS LIKE HELL*
(child birth, i've seen it personally, it's a pinkberry O_O)
and cloth you, fed you, washed you, everything
if you don't forgive her, you're an ungrateful kid, reallie

consider all she's done for you and thing she hasn't done for you
which side is the balance tipping towards?
*and if you say things she hasn't done for you then damn...some mom*

[polyamorous]

T_T i really cant think of anything to say to that but there is NO way that i would be the FIRST to apologize...AT ALL

wow i feel bad saying that but really >.<
well...i hope it all turns out well for you =.=

[Aziraphale]

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