uhm, i don't think i said that everyone, unconditionally was cliquey and stuck up.
however, i think it's strange that over 90% of the people that i've met from california behave in the same way.
i've been in numerous situations with people from california and they have just been rude to me or the people with me.
at yonsei, it was an almost uniform exclusion of people that were not korean-american and that were not from california.
a few weeks ago i went out drinking with a friend, her co-worker and some people that co-worker knew.
there was (of course) a guy from california who got a bad attitude after a few beers and spent the night acting like he was too good to talk with us.
another guy i know here, who is also from california, will never look you in the face when he talks to you.
he acts like he's doing you a favor by talking with you...all while he's searching around the room for someone more interesting.
that's the behavior that i've experienced from the average californian.
maybe you guys are great in the US, but overseas, people from california are stuck up and a-holes.
if you're not like that, then cool. but if you are the type that acts like you MUST be at the party and you MUST be the center of attention and you MUST be admired by all then don't expect any love from me.
(oh, and i'm not the only one that feels that way, i've got other americans and brits that can spot a californian from a mile away all because of those negative traits)
i honestly agree with you, on the california thing.
i live in california, lived in it my whole life, so i don't really know why it didn't turn me into one of those kinds of people. but i really hate it when people don't look at me when i'm talking(my sister's totally affected), and it really annoys me. so i personally tend to focus on them, even purposely sometimes, because i know that feeling when they don't look at you. and i don't know if it's because there's too many koreans here, but when korean americans go to korea, they kind of have that air of "yeah i'm from LA so what?"(of course this being only my observations of the many korean american LA people who went to korea in the same tour bus as me two years ago... i don't go to school in korea as much as i want to) and i know it gets annoying sometimes.
man, i hope nobody sees me like that. i hope i'm NOT like that.
i don't drink and i WONT drink, so i don't know about the attitudes of drunk people other than seeing it in dramas and movies.... but i think i'd be disappointed to see a fellow californian reveal themselves to have an overstuffed ego for a brain.
i'm sure not everyone is like that, because i'm not(or i think i'm not) but many are like that i have to admit...
i want to go to a korean college, just for the experience, but i don't have any particular major to take there, as an art student. i mean, i'm not qualified for study abroad programs yet, but i don't think korea has any art programs that would really interest me, as far as i know.
animation's better here and japan than korea,imagination-wise. korea draws better, but lacks ideas compared to the two.
fine art would be france and italy, and beautiful serene landscapes would be more ireland, switzerland, australia... etc.
i'm gonna look into it a little more though..
how much are buses anyways????
the one time i rode a bus in korea(not a tour bus) someone else paid for me, but that person was equally inexperienced with it, so she asked the driver how much it was, and all i remember is the guy giving us that "how can you not know that?" kind of look, and people behind us were kind of like "would you hurry the f**k up?" so she ended up just stuffing in money and rushing to our seats.
i just wanted to know, so that the next time i ride a bus, i don't have to experience that again. personally i wanted to punch them all for their disrespect to us, jsut because we didn't know.