[satisfaction!]

Well today in English, my teacher gave our class some discussion questions.
I found them really interesting, and wanted to know what you Soompiers thought about them ^^

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

My answers:
1) Agree. Okay yeah, I forgave you but that doesn't mean I'll be able to trust you 100% now.
2) Undecided. This question really got me thinking O_O Honestly, I don't know...I mean I would want to tell them the truth, but if it's to protect them...then I don't know :T
3) Disagree. For me, trust should be earned, not gained automatically.
4) Agree. I believe the saying 'Once a player, always a player.' (or something like that). Marriage is all about commitment and trust. Once you break it, you're done.
5) Disagree. Getting revenges will only cause more problems. Instead, work out the problems.


These are all opinions, so dont bash if nobody agrees with you.
Thanks =]

[lucky*13]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

01. Disagree
02. Undecided
03. Agree
04. HUH?
05. Disagree

[smylies]

1) agree. ive forgiven but i have forgotten.
2) undecided. no idea.
3) agree.
4) i dont get it.
5) disagree.

[bhebie9]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. Yes, I forgive you but it takes time for me to trust you again like before.
2. They'll understand why I did it... someday.
3. Everyone has it but they're not trusted when they don't trust everyone else.
4. It should not
5. Disagree, if you think they're stupid then you would be filth when you do the same to someone who you think is stupid.

[★ rain-a-sky ★]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
undecided. I guess it depends on who the person is and how they normally act :/
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
agree. Love wins over, if it's protecting them.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
disagree, again it depends on the type of person they are, & in my opinion it has to be earned.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
undecided. Marriage is about commitment to each other, but it depends on why they did it/their reasons.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!
disagree, by getting even, you'll probably feel guilty afterwards & have that memory forever.

[2Loveletter]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!


1 - i just might forgive, but ill have my eye on them like a fat kid on cake

2 - yes lying is ok, even if it doesnt protect anyone

3- no you cant trust lil kids

4 - yes, unless their job is in the p0rn buisness

5 - yes getin even is the best way to forgive someone

[RockStar17]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. Agree. Just because I've forgiven them doesn't mean I should completely trust them again.
2. Disagree. The truth hurts, but they still have to know.
3. Agree. People have the right to be trusted, but not everyone will be.
4. Agree, somewhat.
5. Undecided. Some people don't feel better unless they get even, but the other person may try to get even...again?

[nobody knows]

1) Agree.. to an extent. You can't entirely point fingers until you have hard core PROOF, not just because of a hunch.
2) I guess it depends on... what you're lying about. Lying about a secret affair to protect a loved one from getting hurt is a no-no. Lying to a loved one about something that can be fixed... is also a no-no. Just be honest, jeez.
3) ...to an extent. Again. It's not like you're suddenly going to trust them with your family, friends and yourself. Maybe with small things, eventually building up.
4) Adultry like.. an affair? In that case, definitely NOT excused. Unless it's something like acting... (in a movie/as your career) but I'm not too comfortable with that, either.
5) hahah. Totally disagree. Revenge leads to more revenge leads to more revenge leads more revenge and so on... causing disaster

[stoopidlilcoco]

1. agree. you can forgive but you don't have to trust them
2. undecided. sometimes it may seem like the better thing to do, but sometimes lying loses their trust when they find out you lied
3. disagree. they should earn trust
4. agree. there are alternatives for reasons to act on adultry
5. undecided. it depends on how mad a person got you

[Suigintou]

1. Agree.
2. Agree, if it really protects them. I'm sure they would understand.
3. Agree. They have that right.
4. Agree.
5. Undecided.

[Pogichinoy]

1) Agree, there will always be a hint of doubt from me no matter what due to their actions in the past on me.
2) Agree, one of my cousins is adopted and I lie to her to protect her until she is able to understand one day.
3) Agree. Unless they have a dark past which includes wronging you, then they missed their chance. Or if they're kids. Most kids annoy the crap outta me.
4) Agree.
5) Agree, revenge is sweet. Just depends how far you go.

Gosh I'm so evil.

[lovehunter12]

1.Agree
2.Agree
3.Agree
4.Agree
5.Agree

[saolaoane]

1) Agree
2) Undecided
3) Agree
4) Agree
5) Disagree

[F4BUL0USz*]

1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.

Agreed. Cause since the person has wronged me in the 1st place, I have every right to feel suspicious!

2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.

Both! D:

3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.

Disagree. Not everyone, & they should earn the trust 1st.

4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.

Agreed... pretty much self-explanatory. Your not gonna get away with adultry!

5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

Disagree. Revenge is never good. D:

[geruhjima]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
Agree
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
Disagree
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
Agree
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
Agree
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!
Disagree

[cyberfruit]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. agreed, because you don't know if the person would betray you again. To competely have 100% confidence in a person who has wronged you before is naive.

2. It depends. I'm not a fan of lying (rarely do I ever lie), but if it's a life or death situation, I will lie like crazy.

3. At first, yes, but if that trust is broken, then that person shouldn't complain if people become suspicious of him.

4. Agreed. You can sprout all the, "I didn't fall in love!", "You weren't there!", and "You don't touch me anymore!" phrases you want, but you're married; you're supposed to work out your problems together, not in someone else's bed.

5. Disagree. I've only done that to one person in my life (but he deserves it).

[Soochi]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. Agree, but it does depend on the person and situation. Your thoughts can sometimes still linger about the incident that happened.
2. Agree/disagree. Again, this really depends on the situation and the person you are trying to protect. Just be careful of your decision.
3. Agree. Sadly we all "judge a book by its cover", but even when we first meet someone we are still polite but that doesn't mean that you trust them right away. You have to earn their trust and they have to earn yours.
4. Agree. There really is no reason/excuse for it.
5. This one really depends on the situation and how each person handles their anger. The thought of getting even feels good but that doesn't mean people will take the actions to do so. It's just the feeling and the idea that getting even makes it seem fair.

[alicimoo]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. Agree. I may have forgiven, but I'll most likely still remember.
2. Undecided. I guess it depends on how grave the situation is.
3. Agree. Not everyone is untrustworthy. Everyone should get a chance to earn someone's trust.
4. Agree. Marriage means commitment.
5. Undecided. I don't know. =/

[lovablekrnstar63]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1. i agree. there's a difference between forgiving someone & that someone becoming 'cleansed' of their bad doings
2. it depends. is the 'loved one' going to find out sooner or later? then i would much rather be the bearer of bad news rather than letting him/her finding out by a random stranger
if it's something that will never crop up again, then i still think they have the reason to know.
however, all lies have a way of biting you in the butt in the end so come clean with it when you can
so he/she doesnt feel betrayed that you've kept that a secret
3. yes. and that's all i'm going to say about that
4. no. adultery is a sin like everything else. i personally think adultery is better than having an affair or something
b/c that means the husband (or wives) did not fulfill their sexual desires or whatnot
however, when one is involved in an affair, that means the husband is not satisfied with the wife as a person. the husband no longer sees the wife as a life-long companion.
adultery is just lust which people are bound to fall for sometime or another in their lives.
5. i dont really understand the question..

i only did these b/c i dont wanna work on my abstract right now..
*sigh*
it's only tuesday .. =.=

[crystallizedtear]

Put agree, disagree, or undecided and WHY.
1) Even if you've forgiven who has wronged you, you are still entitled to be suspicious of him or her.
2) Lying is okay if it is to protect someone you love.
3) Everyone should have the right to be trusted.
4) In a marriage, the act of adultry should not be excused.
5) Getting mad at someone or something means nothing unless you get even!

1) AGREE, of course� though you have forgiven them, that means nothing about how they feel towards you and what they may do to you again. Forgiving someone is really just changing YOUR feelings towards them, not them towards you� so it is fine to be suspicious.
2) UNDECIDED. If it is a critical situation, I'm going to lie to protect someone. But at times the truth is what is really necessary. It all depends on the situation, really.
3) DISAGREE, some people need to EARN that right back, after what they have done to lose that trust. This lesson is what I learnt from my mother after losing her trust...lol.
4) AGREE. What the heck is the purpose of a marriage when one of the people have to go out and find pleasure? A marriage is to bind two people together in an intimate relationship. TWO, not more.
5) DISAGREE, getting mad is just your own reaction. Getting even is a terribly stupid idea because it helps nobody in the end. It only hurts both sides.