[Apple.Mint]

I have a question
ii havent seen a thread like this, unless ii miss it x.x
anyway my burning question is! lol

Do you guys/girls ever get the feelings you just want to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend[s/o] but you know if you do it, you'll regret it?
you still like/love him/her but things are just so complicated that you're unable to take it. It start affecting you're life and you're school performances. You still want to make it work but you just dont know how.

so my um..second question o.O is, if you have encountered this situation, how did you deal with it? Did you break up? Or did you try to work it out? Did you find some special way to make this feelings go away?
lol thanks for reading =]

[ritzy!]

depends why you're feeling that way in the first place o.O;

[xolove]

If you have a regretful feeling, than don't do it. People have second thoughts all the time, its just a rough patch in the relationship.
But if you think breaking up is the best solution, do it. :}

[Rekidai]

i did i broke up with him and than i regretted soo much =) good thing he thought it was something he did wrong and triedd really hard for me to be his again X)

[tomatomato]

make it work because regret is the worse feeling ever ><

[ALYSSA]

I used to had those feelings for a long time. When I was with my ex, we dated for 18 months. Being with him was fun & he helped occupied my mind & times. But on the other hand, he was too controlling & he didn't loved me. I always knew we weren't going to last & we'll break up one day. But I didn't know how & when. I was scared I might regret it & if I do - I'll be lonely since I don't have any friends. (I ditched my friends for him & now they all hates me.) So I tried sticking it out but it just didn't work. The day I finally end our relationship is when my husband (who was my friend at that time) bought me a ticket to go see him in WA. I told my ex that I was visiting my sister in AR. While in WA, I cheated on my EX with my husband. My ex kept on blowing up my phone (like he always does when I don't pick up.) I finally had enough & broke it off with him. What I did is shady but honestly I have NO REGRETS! Me & my EX is good friends now.

[ms. rachellica]

well fer me, i dun believe in regret, it's jus learning a very painful lesson. i was in the same situation as u nd i ended it coz i cudn't take it anymore. i think it was for the better

[agiri]

if you know you're going to regret, def don't break up.

i was in that situation once. it was pretty complicated and there were a lot of misunderstandings.
i just refused to let him leave until everything was resolved because i couldn't stand how much the issue was consuming my life.
i decided that it had to end there, either way.
we ended up staying together, but broke up later for something else. X____X

[saieng]

I have those feelings. Actually I've broken up with my boyfriend over complicated arugments that he keep bringing back up when we're having such a great conversation. Sometime I can't take it and the only way out is to get away from him by doing the unthinkable and breaking it off. It usually just ends up for a few hours and we're back to square one. We've been together for almost seven months now.

How I dealt with it? I usually end up ignoring him or talk to him about it. The best medicine is to talk to your mate and explain why your feeling that way and a way for you guys not to be angered or upset over the situation. My special way to deal with it was to ignore him for a few hours until I'm no longer angry. Or make him feel bad haha I know it's mean, but I'm still trying to be nice =)

[Apple.Mint]

=O
ii think
ii THINK i'm getting my problem resolve
thanks for everyone comments though
it sucks that ii dont see him everyday, it would make this a lot easier for me to solve and get over it lol =]

[dehoot]

Ugh. I don't know if this is healthy, but every once a month? Haha, I know it seems expected, but some kind of large argument/disagreement/misunderstanding happens at least once a month or more. Yet, no matter how much we fight I always want to stay. I know that no one else in this world can possibly handle/care about who I am as a person. & I'm pretty darn sure no one else can love as much as I do.

Usually we come to some kind of terms. When we see each other the first reaction is to punch and then hold hands. Sounds strange, but meh.. love takes effort. We came about an inch to really breaking up. I still remember the exact words said. As long as you still know on the inside that you love them, forgiveness will follow. Just forgive and forget. Keep moving on. It takes practice, understanding, and maybe a few therapy lessons. LOL, just kidding about the therapy.

I know that no matter how hurt/upset I get.. he's the only one I want to hold hands with.

[zurieau]

Step back and take a break.
It's what every girl should do if she feels this way (in a standard situation).

Sometimes, people have to really know what it's like to be apart from their s/o.
And they need space to think a little more rationally and personally.

I'd think that'd be the best way to handle it. ;P

[dorkjoey240]

Well....just listen to your heart what's it's saying to you.

-shinozaki

[thatonegirl]

when i feel like breaking up, i break up. i'd rather not drag it on if it's not going anywhere.

[Indogurl05]

i had those days when i'm tired of the things that happened and felt like break this relationship off.. but then before thinking about it, the problem is solve and keep on going..

[Lil_miz_me93]

when i feel like breaking up, i break up. i'd rather not drag it on if it's not going anywhere.

I feel the same way. ^^
Actually, I'm feeling the
same way right now. Goshh
not good but I know for
sure that things will be
worked out be tonight. (Crosses fingers.)
Well, if you still love him, hold
on tight and don't give up because
things will settle down sooner
or later. But if you feel like
the relationship isn't going anywhere
anymore, then breaking up is a good
idea. Hmm I hope that, that helped
a bit? =)

[xKiTtyBo0o]

When i'm mad at my bf, I always thought that we're not right for each other and want to break up. But then in the end, i never have the gut to do so. Cause my bestfriend always tell, "YOU GOING TO REGRET IT"

[Swtess]

That happens to me a lot and usually he does osmething to make me forget all about it or else I have a long talk with him.

[fi1993]

i broke up with him...and actually didnt regret it
..probably cause..we shoudlnt have gone out in the first place..
he was a bit lousy...kind but lousy...
tho now i kinda have that lonely feeling....

[tinipinki]

make it work because regret is the worse feeling ever ><

very true, i broke up with him and now i regret it so much
well not anymore but back then, it was such a terrible feeling