[Fook You]

Ok. This has been going on for two weeks and I'm pretty sick of it but I don't know what to do.

My friends have been bugging me to get a girlfriend because they think I need one. My last gf was 3 years ago. I'm not attached to her in any way though anymore.

Anyways, they've been bugging me that I need a gf. And it's gotten very annoying. Even my mom sometimes tells me I should go out and find a gf =_=.

I guess they all think I need a gf or look like I need one.

But then here's the catch, I don't disagree with them at all. I think I need a gf too!

Catch #2 though...is that I don't know any girls that I would be interested in...

I wouldn't want to get a gf that I don't actually have feelings for...cuz that's just mean to her and I'd just be forcing myself too.

So I'm stuck here.

[monchichi]

Just relax. Getting into a relationship, as you know, comes naturally and cannot be forced. It's not like it comes pre-packaged in a store and you can just buy it off the shelf every time you think you need it.

So, just pre-occupy yourself and get out there with friends and just have a good time. I'm pretty sure if you let yourself go, you'll bump into someone that'll interest you both intellectually and visually.

You don't find love, love finds you

[evilrobots]

Yeah, I get exactly what you mean. I look around, and I can't see anyone that I want to date.
It's ok. I agree with you that you shouldn't force yourself. Just wait for the right one to come.

[Clix]

You know what you should do? Tell them your name on soompi.

[ANJEE<3]

ask your friends to introduce you to new people.. or join something to meet new people..

[Fook You]

Just relax. Getting into a relationship, as you know, comes naturally and cannot be forced. It's not like it comes pre-packaged in a store and you can just buy it off the shelf every time you think you need it.

So, just pre-occupy yourself and get out there with friends and just have a good time. I'm pretty sure if you let yourself go, you'll bump into someone that'll interest you both intellectually and visually.

You don't find love, love finds you

That's just the thing. Whenever I'm with my friends, the gf subject is ALWAYS brought up ;_;. So can't really hang out with friends.

You know what you should do? Tell them your name on soompi.

Ahahaahah XD. I like that.

ask your friends to introduce you to new people.. or join something to meet new people..

haha, like ask my friends to be my matchmaker? XD

[monchichi]

If you told your friends to cool it with the 'suggestions' would they listen to you...?

My friends used to try and set me up with random single friends. I was never attracted to any of them and eventually (when I was sick and tired of their nagging) I explained to them to leave me be and just allow me to look for someone in my own spare time.

After they understood and left me alone to perv at my own free will, a lot of guys have approached me But I have not found someone who attracts me yet. I'm still happy though and I enjoy the time with my friends.

However, if your friends don't understand I suppose you can try out a new hobby - go to dance classes, go to the gym regularly, learn a new language... in other words, get yourself out there in a completely different environment where you can meet lots of new people without the hassling of friends :3

[2Loveletter]

hmm why is that?

why they want you to get a gf so badly?

have they catch you wanking it lately?

[Fook You]

If you told your friends to cool it with the 'suggestions' would they listen to you...?

My friends used to try and set me up with random single friends. I was never attracted to any of them and eventually (when I was sick and tired of their nagging) I explained to them to leave me be and just allow me to look for someone in my own spare time.

After they understood and left me alone to perv at my own free will, a lot of guys have approached me But I have not found someone who attracts me yet. I'm still happy though and I enjoy the time with my friends.

However, if your friends don't understand I suppose you can try out a new hobby - go to dance classes, go to the gym regularly, learn a new language... in other words, get yourself out there in a completely different environment where you can meet lots of new people without the hassling of friends :3

They wouldn't listen unless I punched them in the face or something...which I would prefer not to do

I wish I could get into a different environment but school and work take up way too much time.

hmm why is that?

why they want you to get a gf so badly?

have they catch you wanking it lately?

i have no idea why they do...and no =_=

[F2TSwithSHINHWA]

lol I was in the same situation before. A lot of people told me to get a bf, but I didn't like anyone and no one has anyone to introduce to me, so how? It was impossible haha. I didn't want to be with a guy just to have a bf. I want to have feelings and all that stuff.

Just let things come naturally. I saw your 411, you are attractive, it won't be hard for you to find a girl

[unwritingyou]

Just wait till you find someone you want to be with. It doesn't matter, just explain if you rush now, you might make the wrong decision. Love is a gradual thing.

[MinJi13]

Tell then to shut the f'ck up.. just kiddin'

Why not just tell them that you're on the lookout for girls? (because in a way you are)If they say your taking too long, just say something like "I don't want to be with a slut or player, so might as well pick a nice one?" or something along those lines..

Give it time and meet new people. That's bound to end up with you meeting a girl you like.. just don't rush!

Good luck dude!

[itrayya]

my cousin called this afternoon to try
to hook me up with her bf's cousin.

she says im getting too old to be single.
psh! whatever, right!?

dont let them pressure you.
it'll just be peer pressure all over again.

think of it as not, getting a gf.
think of it as making a new friend.
never hurts to get a new friend, right?

good luck with that!
take care.
happy thoughts!

[silver-typhoon]

Buy a new computer. Or a laptop. Or a new car. Or all three.

OR You could go out and meet new people. Go join activities or something... take a night class or go with a friend to play sports. You're sure to meet someone that way ^^:;

[-K-]

dont go for a girl out of desperation, it's not good. Wait till you found the one that you really have feelings for, then go for it. Besides, just say your name loudly to them. FOOK YOU, because that will shut them up.

[justxlouise]

How old are you exactly to make your mum & friends to push you into havig a girlfriend ?

If you have any close friends, just ask them out or something
If not, get your friends to intro you to some chicks and start from there

[RssgHr_]

Don't try to hard to get a girlfriend. Just do nothing. Heck, if its too hard to do, don't do it.

[aznboi1107]

go with the flow somebody will turn up and catch your eye. If you think about it too much you probably won't get to hook up.

[koreangirl143]

lol.. hahaha.. i think you should not go look for love coz love finds you.. lol.. so cheesy haha.. but its true.. dont try to rush love coz u might regret it.. hehe

[forgottenmemories]

Why does people stop their everyday lives just to find a significant other? The way I look at it is, when they come, they'll come. No need to go hunt for them, because when you hunt for them, they'll never appear. You'll end up taking the next best thing like a girl who likes you but you don't like them at all.