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#1 User is offline   tsushio 

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Posted 19 November 2007 - 06:11 PM

please...help me with this survey...i'm doing an assignment about this....and i ur help.....help me...if u open this thread,please fill in this survey...and u can discuss bout this topic further if u want to...




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1.Age
2.Gender and country
3.Status(single/married/divorced)
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
7.Give the relevents to your answer.
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do?
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
13.What do you think about this survey?





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Posted 19 November 2007 - 06:56 PM

O_O'' Well isnt that a catchy topic title?

1. 17
2. Female, US
3. Single
4. Uhm... do.. no.. dete... no.. pol.. no. lawy.. AUHgaos..... T__T this is really hard.
5. Wasn't it like ... SHOOT DONT MAKE ME GUESS ;__;''
6. Nev4r.
7. Wait, do what?
8. It's lame (as is all suicide).. But I guess it's something that happens if people don't get the help they need.
9. I think this is worded funnily.. But uhm. I think this depends on what kind of people you're talking about/the group of people you're referring too. Because, say, in some Asian countries, teenagers commit suicide if they do badly in school, others commit suicide because they're attacked by anti-fans (>__>'')... In America, though, I guess it's just like.. I don't know. The whole "emo" scene and stuff, it all leads to that in the end, doesn't it (well not all but you know..)
10. Ch, like I would let that happennn. XD I don't know. I'd talk to them.. and made sure they got help for it. Because it's not something that one person, alone, can handle. If someone's honestly thinking of committing suicide, it's most likely related to depression, which has to do with a chemical imbalance in the brain.. And in order to regain that balance, a person would need more than words to help (aka medicine)
11. No, thank gosh.
12. Refer to 10?
13. I'm sorry. I suck at filling out surveys properly T__T'' But uhm. We're talking about surveys in our science class (its an environmental science class) and yeah.. O_O It's best if you don't let people have free responses, because when you pool together your data, it'll be hard to actually come to a conclusion.. (LOL Especially with people like me replying >O< I'm sorry).. Uhm.. So yeah, I think it's best if you reworded some of the questions, and then come up with something like, instead of:

5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?

say

The United States has the highest suicide rate.
And then give them choices like:
strongly disagree / disagree / somewhat disagree / somewhat agree / agree / strongly agree



Or. Just kidding. I don't know, unless your teacher told you to write a survey like that, then neverminddd.

Anyway T__T sorry for talking so much and not being useful. Good luck on your project T_T'''

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Posted 19 November 2007 - 08:19 PM

1.Age: 15
2.Gender and country Male, USA
3.Status(single/married/divorced) Single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most? Accountant
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate? Japan
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide? Never
7.Give the relevents to your answer. Nothing to say
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers? Cultural pressures in Asia and anti-depressants in the West
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? Anti-depressant drugs and cultural pressures
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do? I would try to console them and discuss with them their thoughts
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who? Not personally, indirectly I have known a close friend of one of my close friend's who committed suicide last year, although I again did not know him personally.
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide? Talk to them and listen to them, and take them off needless drugs
13.What do you think about this survey? Interesting...
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Posted 19 November 2007 - 09:40 PM

1.Age: 16
2.Gender and country: Male. USA.
3.Status(single/married/divorced): Single.
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most? Accountant. Though I've med schools rates are high (Not really a profession though)
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate? Japan.
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide? Not seriously.
7.Give the relevents to your answer. There's like the "joking" thought like I wish I were dead. But really past that.
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers? Very sad. So much potential vanishing in an instant.
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? Media. Social Influence.
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,what would you do? Refer them to a psychologist and pastor.
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who? Sorta. My friend's cousin who went to my school committed suicide his senior year. It was a pretty big deal.
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide? Talk to them. Communicate with them. Don't talk down to them, but at the same level. And refer a professional.
13.What do you think about this survey? Interesting. Hmmm
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Posted 19 November 2007 - 10:39 PM

1.Age 16
2.Gender and country f, usa
3.Status(single/married/divorced), um in a relationship?
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most? prolly business
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate? japann
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide? yep
7.Give the relevents to your answer. lonliness
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers? teenagers angst lol
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? iono family, relationship, social network
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do? talk to an adult
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who? not commited, but attempted
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide? iono talk to a professional
13.What do you think about this survey? weird
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Posted 19 November 2007 - 10:55 PM

1.Age: 17
2.Gender and country: Female and currently in the U.S
3.Status(single/married/divorced): single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?: Hm something that has a lot of stress like modeling, acting, and jobs that deal with tons of demands by society and people?
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?: Well I hear a lot from Japan.
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?: Yes I have...
7.Give the relevents to your answer.: Didn't feel like no one liked me for who I was and I was tired of this fast life and all this unmeaning stress.
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?: In a way weak but probably real deep.
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? Peer pressure, people who don't accept you for who you are, school, unnecessary stress.
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,what would you do? : Talk to them about why they feel that way and if I can't help, go to a psychologist?
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?: No one that I'm closed to fortunately didn't take their lives away.
But I know someone who was my teacher's student's basketball coach I think suicided. It was a big deal.
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?: Listen to them, make them feel that they are not alone. I think thats the best way.
13.What do you think about this survey?: Interesting and new.

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 12:58 AM



1.Age
16

2.Gender and country
Female , Singapore

3.Status(single/married/divorced)
Single

4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
How about people without any profession ? Like people who are at their wits end . sweatingbullets.gif

5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
Japan ! I think .. among teens .

6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
Yeah !

7.Give the relevents to your answer.
Stress ! Can't stop to breathe sweatingbullets.gif

8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
Stress or relationship problems . Common here .

9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
Peers ! When one starts to become emo , the rest follows too . dry.gif

10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do?
Try and talk them out of it . Reach out to help them and be their listening ear .

11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
I didn't have to deal with it . It just came . Erm , she's a friend from my primary school . She committed suicide when we entered the first year of secondary education .

12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
Understand them , help them , lend them a helping hand . Or at least that's what I'll do to try . And possibly share stories about other people . Lol , I've heard alot !

13.What do you think about this survey?
Just to kill time . LOL ! Joking .. It made me think how dumb I was to have even thought about suicide . Tsk ! - shakes head -
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 01:59 AM

ppl who comit scuicide are to weak to dig deep within themselves and realize that scuicide will only make a problem worse.

unless u are fighting for what u really believe in, and u want to make a statement as a dead man rather then a pathetic beaten man in some prison.

then scuicide is ok.!

but for these feeble ass kids with no real problems to speak of, they jsut have some chemical mini cooper in their heads, and the ydont have the brains to say

hey wtf. ntohing is really wrong. im john teshing stupid. im going to go buy some ice cream.


and also why would u kill urself be4 u bust out and do hella mini cooper? have as much fun as possible while ur alive THEN kill urself when ur totaly wasted ur life and all ur mony and u have no way out of hte pit of drugs and bad company u fallen into.

but u cant do that most of the time cuz UR SCARED AND WEAK HAHAHA scuicidal ppl make me laugh.

Think about all the things in this life that hurts you... do not do those things.

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 05:42 AM

1.Age
22

2.Gender and country
Female , Australia

3.Status(single/married/divorced)
Single

4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
Err, I haven't really thought about it before. Maybe accountants.

5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
Japan. I heard it on the news, I think Australia is second.

6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
Yes

7.Give the relevents to your answer.
General sense of futility and insignificance. I'm being treated for Dysthymia.

8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
It's a volatile time that causes bodily changes quicker than psychological changes. This coupled with the added stress of our society expecting them to choose a lifelong direction about career at this stage.

9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
Lack of social support.

10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do?
Talk to them and let them know I was always available if they needed help. Encourage them to see a psychologist and receive Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to develop long term coping mechanisms. If they struck me as being in a particularly dangerous state of mind I would recommend them to see a GP (family doctor) and be prescribed a tricyclic anti-depressant until they'd had time to attend several CBT sessions.

11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
Not with anyone who I had sustained contact with prior to their suicide. Several people with suicide attempts though.

12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
The same answer as Question 10.
As well as increasing community awareness about the warnings signs and risk factors for Depression and suicide.

13.What do you think about this survey?
Some of the questions are a bit unclear. I had to look at other people's answers in order to figure out what you were asking.

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 09:23 AM

1.Age 13+
2.Gender and country Female and UNITED STATES
3.Status(single/married/divorced) Single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most? actors/actress... maybe students too or parents
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate? great ques... umm i really donno
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide? Nope
7.Give the relevents to your answer. N/A
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers? i think its because of relationships and lonliness... so is depression
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? Love
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do? i would convince to not to... or call the police..
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who? Nope
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide? umm... solve their problem... mostly feelings, so we need a doctor for that
13.What do you think about this survey? it's ok xD
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 09:46 AM

QUOTE(ajlee613 @ Nov 20 2007, 01:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ppl who comit scuicide are to weak to dig deep within themselves and realize that scuicide will only make a problem worse.

unless u are fighting for what u really believe in, and u want to make a statement as a dead man rather then a pathetic beaten man in some prison.

then scuicide is ok.!

but for these feeble ass kids with no real problems to speak of, they jsut have some chemical mini cooper in their heads, and the ydont have the brains to say

hey wtf. ntohing is really wrong. im john teshing stupid. im going to go buy some ice cream.
and also why would u kill urself be4 u bust out and do hella mini cooper? have as much fun as possible while ur alive THEN kill urself when ur totaly wasted ur life and all ur mony and u have no way out of hte pit of drugs and bad company u fallen into.

but u cant do that most of the time cuz UR SCARED AND WEAK HAHAHA scuicidal ppl make me laugh.

What an ignorant post and at least spell correctly. Idiotic people like you make me laugh.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 12:35 PM

1.Age 17
2.Gender and country Female, USA
3.Status(single/married/divorced) Single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most? Medical or Lawyer profession
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate? Japan
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide? No
7.Give the relevents to your answer. I have too much to live for. I'm very ambitious; I haven't even done a fourth of the things that I want to do in life.
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers? I don't know why it's done. It's as if the kids can't see the light that is at the end of the tunnel, and it's there.
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? Pressure from peers and family
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do? Talk to them, be there for them, alert their parents, call the suicide hotline, anything.
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who? She didn't want to commit suicide, but she was cutting herself. She's my best friend.
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide? We also need to listen more carefully at the things people are saying. Often there are many warnings, cries for help, and they go unheard because we either think they're joking or we ignore it.
13.What do you think about this survey? It's a good survey, but I was so scared that someone here actually wanted to commit suicide.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 03:44 PM

1. 18 years old
2. female; usa
3. single
4. any kind of celebrity.. actors/actresses
5. korea
6. no
7. i am a christian. God has already given me this life to live, why take it away?
8. they take the topic too lightly.
9. the media. not saying that the media promotes it but the things that the media always glamorizes.. looks, money.. they advertise that if you dont have a certain thing.. youre not of worth (my opinion)
10. have a deep conversation with them, talk them out of it, pray
11. no
12. give them counseling. have close friends/family support them and show that they are loved and special.
13. its alright.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 04:25 PM

1.Age
17

2.Gender and country
Female USA

3.Status(single/married/divorced)
boyfriend?

4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
Accountant??

5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
I believe it was Russia.

6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
Yes

7.Give the relevents to your answer.
I guess stress from school and trying to live up to unrealistic expectations I set for myself. :T But in the end I decided dying through unnatural means is usually the most painful way to go o.x;;

8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
It's sad. They don't get to live their life yet.

9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
I guess stress or social pressures

10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do?
Talk to someone who knows how to handle the situation better than me. Then talk to the person who wants to.

11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
No one personally, but a friend of a friend did.

12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
Listen to them? And refer to professional counselor so that they can be properly assessed?

13.What do you think about this survey?
Interesting. I liked reading everyone's response.

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Posted 20 November 2007 - 06:30 PM

1.Age:
15

2.Gender and country:
Female, USA

3.Status(single/married/divorced):
Single

4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
Students

5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
Japan

6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
Yeah.

7.Give the relevents to your answer.:
Stress mostly. Stuff just piles up and i can't take it sometimes.

8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
It's sad. Life shouldn't be this way. =[

9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
Stress, and unrealistic expectations.

10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,what would you do?
Take them to or suggest, counseling.

11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
No.

12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
Take them somewhere where they are comfortable and can sort out and talk bout their problems.

13.What do you think about this survey?
I think that its good that this topic is being brought up, and not ignored.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 06:41 PM

1.Age
16
2.Gender and country
f and US
3.Status(single/married/divorced)
single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?
well...i'd think anything business related...because of pressure from people
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?
japan
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?
yes
7.Give the relevents to your answer.
i was a quiet girl and i thought no one liked me. but that was in the past.
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?
it's crazy. i think people who commit suicide are mainly teenagers
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers?
the society they live in, the people they're with
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,waht would you do?
i'd think it was a joke, but i'd check on them and talk with them, so they wont feel alone anymore and i'd secretly cry at night...
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?
only in the news....
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?
always make sure to be there for them, but dont be a bothersome -if the person noes someone cares bout them, they might not want to commit suicide. and make sure u do everythin u can to make her happy
13.What do you think about this survey?
it makes me wonder about how suicide evolved to today
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 07:48 PM

1. 17
2. M, US
3. Single
4. High pressure jobs like salesmen or stock market brokers
5. Japan
6. Yes
7. I had nothing to live for, nothing was going right for me
8. I think it's sad because they have their whole lives in front of them. A lot of them are not thinking straight and are influenced by stupid things.
9. A feeling of rejection and/or stress
10. I would talk to them, try to see if the feelings are temporary, suggest getting professional help
11. Not really, my friend's friend
12. TALK TO THEM...keeping feelings inside is what makes people unable to think clearly
13. Meh...i have nothing else to do...
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 08:07 PM

1. 18
2. Female, US
3. single
4. feeling you are not worth it, no support of anything (ex:money) peer pleasure
5. Japan
6. I use to but not any more.
7. Yes
8. To me it really sad, they suicide something outside them self, when they haven't think about them self first.
9. no support and peer pleasure.
10. stop them (duh)
11. none
12. listen and talk to them After that I'll assist and support them what their problem.
13. no comment really.
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 08:29 PM

1.Age: 17
2.Gender and country: Female & Australia
3.Status(single/married/divorced): single
4.Which profession you think leads to suicide the most?: probably one that comes with alot of stress. especially people who need to meet alot of deadlines and are constantly under scrutiny of the public like celebrities.
5.Which country you think has the largest suicide rate?: japan?
6.Have you ever think to commit suicide?: yeah
7.Give the relevents to your answer.: just school and parent related stress and whatnot
8.What do you think about suicide among teenagers?: i guess they have alot to deal with, but suicide shouldnt be the answer to everything.
9.In your opinion,what is the biggest influence prone to suicide among teenagers? their peers and the media
10.If your friend or family members wanted to commit suicide,what would you do? : get them to see a specialist. let them know that they have alot of people around them willing to share their troubles
11.Do you have any experiences dealing with someone who committed suicide?If yes,who?: not anyone close to me.
12.What do you think the best way to help people who wanted to commit suicide?: let them know that theyre are not alone, and that help is available
13.What do you think about this survey?: interesting
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Posted 20 November 2007 - 09:51 PM

thanx a lot guys!!...man,..i love soompi!!!...ahax...xDD

too all...suicide is not the best way to solve problems.....it leads to MORE problems...xDD...

i have a cousin who comitted suicide last year...it was quite sad...*sigh*

ahax...well...again...thanx!!!
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