[blueprince]

grrr since somebody closed my topic i wont rant as some people say but i want to ask for advice not ranting

heres my post which was closed:
http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?act...amp;pid=7670929

today again she and my cousins are going to see a movie and its rated r. and she said i cannot come and i kept asking if i can come and that i will be good if she lets me. but she keeps saying no. what can i do so that she lets me go ??

and what can i do so that she lets me stay up late with them. i dont know what they at late night because she always puts me into bed and waits until i fall asleep before she goes

if she goes to movie and doesnt let me come should i go swimming without her by myself and do whatever i want??

advise please

[butterflyeffect]

You sound like a two year old.. no offense
If you're 14 going on 15 you shouldn't be watching R rated movies anyway.
Just listen to your sister. She probably has your best interests at heart.

This belongs in the pinned Ranting thread.

[Faa]

I'm gonna start being mean to you as well if you keep making stupid threads.
Your thread was closed for reason. If you want to post about this, do it here - http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?sho...&start=3820

[blueprince]

I'm gonna start being mean to you as well if you keep making stupid threads.
Your thread was closed for reason. If you want to post about this, do it here - http://www.soompi.com/forums/index.php?sho...&start=3820

asking for advice is not the same as ranting

a moderator told me that this thread is ok

[ladiixxpreciious]

from the way you're acting, it seems like you're not even mature enough to stay up late or watch a rated R movie
just listen to your sister. she's probably doing what's best for you.

[Faa]

Since you don't allow pm's I left a reply on your profile.
And people gave you advice in your previous thread, you just chose not to listen.
You can not go to see an R rated movie in Australia.
Australian beaches are dangerous and hundreds of people drown at them every year.
Your sister is just being protective of you because if something happened to you she would never forgive herself and neither would your parents.

[blueprince]

Since you don't allow pm's I left a reply on your profile.
And people gave you advice in your previous thread, you just chose not to listen.
You can not go to see an R rated movie in Australia.
Australian beaches are dangerous and hundreds of people drown at them every year.
Your sister is just being protective of you because if something happened to you she would never forgive herself and neither would your parents.

is australia different from USA?? even if you have older relatives there you cannot see rated r??

shes a girl and she can swim anywhere but not me. thats crazy. but fine i wont go swimming by myself

[Ida]

You sound like a two year old.. no offense
If you're 14 going on 15 you shouldn't be watching R rated movies anyway.
Just listen to your sister. She probably has your best interests at heart.

S/he is 14?! I seriously thought this was a 12 years old whining...heck, my students and sister are 11-12 and they don't whine half-as-much as you do, at least not about those kind of stuff.


My main advice for you is "grow up". The only reason your sister is not letting you do all these stuff because you are not mature enough (at least seemingly from the way you "ask" for advice). Trust is very important. If you keep acting like this, she'll never be able to trust you and you'll get nowhere.

-ida

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

Well technically..... you're not supposed to watch R movies. As someone young (probably around your age maybe slightly older) I can relate to how it feels to get left out of activities that I felt either I should be able to do, or at the very least capable to do.

Anyways... it's all for the better. I wonder why my parents give me such a hard time on certain things and now I understand. Just because something doesn't seem right on the surface at that immediate time doesn't mean it actually is wrong

^.^


Also in America you can watch R rated movies with adults or someone over 17 when it's in theaters.. it's not really enforced (atleast where I go) but the point is that it was rated R for a reason.

I guess it's how comfortable your parents are, I still have friends who can't watch R movies at age 16... so yeah... I had friends that at 13-14 couldn't watch PG-13 movies.

[Stevent]

is australia different from USA?? even if you have older relatives there you cannot see rated r??

shes a girl and she can swim anywhere but not me. thats crazy. but fine i wont go swimming by myself

Are you serious when you ask this question? Your sister meets the requirements to go see a rated r movie, whereas you don't. Just because your sister is going to watch that genre of a movie she is not obligated to bring you along if she doesn't want to.

If you wanted to be treated as an adult, you have to act like one first.

[Sp0iL3d_Br8t]

This doesn't belong in the General Discussion section, it belongs in the Love and Relationships section.

Your sister is just doing what she thinks is best for you. My advice to you is to listen to her and stop whining about why you can't do this and can't do that. She will not purposely try to harm you.

is australia different from USA?? even if you have older relatives there you cannot see rated r??
shes a girl and she can swim anywhere but not me. thats crazy. but fine i wont go swimming by myself

In the US, you can. IF and only IF someone over 18 brings you. But, obviously, your sister will not bring you.

[blueprince]

i dont whine to her. i just asked nicely if i can please go to the movie and that i will be good and listen to her if she lets me go. i told her i wont say any of the bad words or anything in the movie. and still she says i am too young to go.

and i know how to swim. at the pool i can go in the deep end and nothing happens.

i guess im not allowed to see rated r movie so i wont ask anymore.

but can i do at home?? my cousins both go with her and then i am stuck at home with aunty and uncle.

its vacation whats the point of sleeping at a certain time?

[addickshun]

i finally found someone who's worse than my 2 younger sisters.

[Faa]

is australia different from USA?? even if you have older relatives there you cannot see rated r??

shes a girl and she can swim anywhere but not me. thats crazy. but fine i wont go swimming by myself

I don't know the laws in America but in Australia you can not go to see an R rated movie unless you have ID saying you are 18 years or over. It doesn't even matter if your parents go with you, you have to be 18.

If the movie is rated MA15+ and you're not yet 15, you can still go so long as you go with a parent or guardian that is 18 or over.

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

i dont whine to her. i just asked nicely if i can please go to the movie and that i will be good and listen to her if she lets me go. i told her i wont say any of the bad words or anything in the movie. and still she says i am too young to go.

and i know how to swim. at the pool i can go in the deep end and nothing happens.

i guess im not allowed to see rated r movie so i wont ask anymore.

but can i do at home?? my cousins both go with her and then i am stuck at home with aunty and uncle.

its vacation whats the point of sleeping at a certain time?

Also the deep end from the pool is WAY different from the ocean. I consider myself a very competent swimmer, and a very good one at that, but it's a lot different when there are waves pounding on you. So unless you're a very very competent swimmer and have quite a bit of muscle strength... it's generally for the better you don't go too deep.

[xoxo.poppinv]

well , if you were really young , i'd cut you some slack .
because most people were like that when they were little , always wondering why they can't .
but if you're actually older then me , man i've been over that' whining' stage because i don't always get my way so long ago . O_o

[cafe_addict]

You really can't do anything, not even if a few years go by and you're 18. [A younger sibling tend to always be a child in the older sibling's eye - parents do that too.] Eventually your sister will invite you to hang out with her but till then, you should just have fun with friends your age. When the time is right, you guys will click and hang out like one big happy family so don't fret about it now ^^

[HappyExpress]

Hi Blueprince,


If you haven't realize yourself, what your sister did is right thing in a way and she not being mean to you. Why? she telling ya, you need to stop being influence by others and be aware of yourself but You really didn't get her message didn't you. One more thing be honest with yourself seriously. Also the way you act, I really don't think you should go swimming without her and do whatever you want? then again I don't really know you personally.


Blueprince Be in this world, not of this world!

[smile-jw]

Youre...Youre 14?! ;_; Oh dear.

Your sister is only trying you protect you, is all. You might think its unfair now, but you will thank her later.
You will have the chance to watch rated R movies when you get older..
Besides, I bet your sister went through the same thing also.

[RockStar17]

Wow. WTF.
Can't you just wait 3-4 more years?