[blueprince]

the girl i like is 4 years older then me and almost 5 years older!

and also shes taller then me by like 4 inches

she lives next door to my cousins house and one day she came over. also shes asian like us. because my cousins and sister were watching a movie that i cant watch she told me i can go out with her. and she took me to the park and then the mall to eat. but i feel bad since she paid for everything but i dont have any money

and then the next day my sister had to get something for the trip so we can stay longer and they wouldnt let me be home all day long so she came to my cousins house since i was still asleep when they left. and she made breakfast for me and took me out to a ride up the mountains . i got tired because after u get to the top part of the mountains u can walk around and when we were going down i got so tired so she carried me for the last part down..but that part wasnt so long down..and then we came back in evening and unlike my older sister/cousins she got a movie and said its appropriate so that i can watch and she watched it with me. the only bard parts is when said i have to eat some vegetables and some weird fruit also but the other bad part is when she made me go to bed at 10. and when i sleep she lays down with me and talks to me until i get tired and then she goes when i fall asleep

i dont know how come i like her shes so pretty and nice and everything she does she lets me do it

but the problem is that i live in new york and she lives in australia and in a few days we are going back home and also she is 19 and im 14

what can i do??is she to old?? why do u think i like her

[tasty]

sorry but you have no chance.

[xolove]

Sounds more like a baby sitter? I don't know.. it just might be me.

[ritzy!]

idk not to be rude but do you have a mother? err seems like a motherly kinda thing right hereEe

[candy_rocks]

Sorry man, but it sounds like she's obligated.

[charzzy]

for a moment there i thought you were gonna say you fell for your sister LOL

[XlYesterdaYlX]

...sorry it aint going to happen.

[sijii]

Hm, she seems more like a sister to you, you're 14, you're just having a crush on her. As time pass your feelings will change. Hopefully

[roguechinadoll]

uh...i think you better ask this question in another 6 years at least >.>

[A-I-Z-A]

WTH?

idk not to be rude but do you have a mother? err seems like a motherly kinda thing right hereEe

I'm thinking the same thing.

[lovemelody.]

sorry, but i think shes just acting as a babysitter.

[CueTheSun]

seems like she's treating you like her little brother

[Hemera]

like what the other members said..she sounds like a sister/babysitter...you probably like her cuz you feel comfortable with her..she takes care of you ..there's security

plus she's pretty xD

[chungmonkey629]

she's a bit too old for you.
there are probably tons of other boys in your position, but right now you're probably just really confused. Just give yourself some time and space and start looking at other girls your age. You're probably just really into her right now because 1.) she's older, and therefore more experienced 2.) she's independent--which a lot of girls your age are not at this time 3.) she takes care of you--there's a reason why some guys like older girls--b/c the guy likes the girl to take care of him. and 4.) she knows how to make herself look beautiful (more time to figure out how to apply her makeup, has finished blooming, etc), and she probably seems really sexy in your eyes.

She's most likely thinks of you as a little brother who she likes to treat every once in a while. Look around you. There are many other girls out there who will become just as beautiful or more

[vikkay]

are you 10 or 12?
because i think shes like a babysitter or something.
sorry kid, you dont have a chance whatsoever.

[2Loveletter]

have faith my young friend!

although it seem like shes baby sitting you, cmon she even carried you

man since when do gf do that?


i would like to see a pic of her

[Eve-rlis]

omg, she is way too old for you. i think she was just being nice and sweet to you as a friend!!

[supakoreanflyguy]

Plant a seed in her for 4 years later

[Namine]

maybe she treats you that way because you're so much younger.
and it's not the "age difference" where .. you're 20, and she's like. 25.
I dunno.
My bf is 23 though. And I'm quite young *coff*
BUUUT what can I do about that if it just turned out that way.

[Gellybeanx3]

14 and 19 is a little too much of an age difference I think. My bf is 3 years younger than me but it really depends on the relationship you have with that person already, the maturity level, etc...
From the way you describe it, it sounds like she thinks of you as more of a little brother than a love interest.
And the fact that you live here and she lives in Australia doesn't give it much hope.
But hey, you never know, talk to her when you come back..keep in touch and you never know...maybe you will find that it's just a crush and get over her, or give it a few years and see what happens =]