I don't understand why when I tried to be a very nice person to one of the underdog in my class simply because I felt pitty for this person.
The underdog is always teased or shouted and scould at and used by my classmates. I think this person should stop feeling that she could not compare with others that she is a person with dignity and she should respect herself. When people made fun of her I stood by her side and told those people what they said is false and recently I saw one of my friends pushed this girl and she nearly tripped I mean that was kind of 'Rude' in my perspective and I can't tolerate that not my friends. Then I started to encourage her by giving her a compliment every day like "You're really good at singing, your talented." stuff like this cuz I know she wanted to become a singer. Well she doesn't see it that way she saw it as she is better than me and she should push me so that she would not felt that she is the worse at everything in class. Then started to actually "Shoo" me away. Then also the cursing began she actually called me a "B*TCH" just because I asked my friend a question about what they were talking about and it was just a small topic an everyday life topic. Just because she is annoyed by me!! It is so unreasonable, then when I started to treat her like others do , like don't care about her and laugh at her then, she started to actually become nice. I'm like "IS SHE CRAZY OR AM I CRAZY?" When people are good to me I appreciate and acknowledge it. Is this normal or something cuz I can't seem to see any reasonable reason for her stupid act. If she want people to stop teasing and calling her names or being bad to her she should not just pick on others I mean like it will do her any good it's true she's so freakin scared of becoming the one hated I was once scared but I think her act is stupid...AM I RIGHT?
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Being Too Good Is Bad? Then should I be a bad person I don't understand my friends.
#2
Posted 31 December 2007 - 09:09 AM
o.0 shouldn't this be in the relationship thread? nevermind...
well... maybe her personality makes her a underdog...
you're nice for being standing up for her and stuffs...
and she doesn't appreciate it >.< so mean...
well when you praise her i can see she becomes proud (? should be) and as you said, she's like
'I'm betta than you' and her ego becomes bigger...
maybe it's the praising that makes her feel proud?
she's really mean in scoldin you a b.tch for just asking your frien n her wad their tokin abt?
maybe you should talk it straight out to her (tat is if you dun want her to continue like that,)
and tell her that if she doesn't treat others equally well, others might just treat her the way like what she did...
i think....
people picked on her it's bcos of her personality....
she gotta change.
seriously.
HWAITING~
well... maybe her personality makes her a underdog...
you're nice for being standing up for her and stuffs...
and she doesn't appreciate it >.< so mean...
well when you praise her i can see she becomes proud (? should be) and as you said, she's like
'I'm betta than you' and her ego becomes bigger...
maybe it's the praising that makes her feel proud?
she's really mean in scoldin you a b.tch for just asking your frien n her wad their tokin abt?
maybe you should talk it straight out to her (tat is if you dun want her to continue like that,)
and tell her that if she doesn't treat others equally well, others might just treat her the way like what she did...
i think....
people picked on her it's bcos of her personality....
she gotta change.
seriously.
HWAITING~
#3
Posted 31 December 2007 - 09:31 AM
Please use the pinned ranting thread.
NEWSFLASH: I HAVEN'T BEEN A MODERATOR FOR LIKE 2-3 YEARS, SO STOP MESSAGING ME ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS.
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