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His/her Past.. Does It Affect Your Relationship? NEVER MIND;; close this topic plz?

#1 User is offline   jpnoroe3 

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Posted 12 January 2008 - 11:17 PM

EDIT!
ok. this is stupid. of COURSE his/her past is unimportant. DUH
okay. close this someone?








Just curious
When you get a bf/gf and u find out how many/who his/her past bf's/gf's were (wow.. wth;; confusing;; sorry!)
does it affect you?
like.. if he/she had a lot of relationships before you, do you begin to think about that and get worried that your relationship will be short or something? (if that makes any sense)
like.. would u rather go out with someone who either never had a relationship before or had one or two in the past?
iono...
i think many common answers would be like "well, if you love him/her, things like that wouldnt matter"
BUT... as you observe... many relationships also end because of someone's past
well.
if i dont make sense .. like if i talk weird/confusing (haha) just tell me to edit myself.. xP haha
i dont know cuz i had a one bf and ever since i havent even LIKED anyone since 5 years ago -0-

OPINIONSS~
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#2 User is offline   Kahzee =] 

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Posted 12 January 2008 - 11:47 PM

If you want my future, forget my past.

Well I avoid looking into my gf's pasts and judging them because of it. Cos I've made some silly mistakes in my past, and I don't want to be judged because of my past.

And it doesn't really make a difference to me if the person I'm going out with has had relationships before.
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#3 User is offline   CiNdY_iS_cOoL 

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Posted 13 January 2008 - 12:00 AM

hahah my ex's past .. a lot of his ended because either his ex gfs thought he was cheating or because of the distance ... and i made the same exact mistake ..... ours ended because 1.) i kept thinking he was cheating and 2.) distance.. oh mannn history does repeat itself eh ?
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Posted 13 January 2008 - 02:23 AM

lol i have that issue maybe just a trust issue ? but my bf has had many girlfriends (most of them quite short) in the past and he usually flirts with girls during their relationships. But he said he'll changed that for me, but still, i always have that doubt in the back of my mind that he's going around trying to pick up other girls and just recently i read something he shouldnt have said on a girl's bebo which made me quite cut.. AND now that doubt grew even worse ==" . Imo the past does affect the relatiopnship even though the past should be kept as the past lol i just can't help my way of thinking sleep.gif".


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