[hiswendy]

Forget it.
Summer mission: make money, forget that dude. haha

[ipingu]

what makes you think you will lose this person? and what is your current relationship with this person?

[hiswendy]

Used to like each other. Now we're friends. Conversations aren't the same anymore. Less subtance. Talking less.

[addickshun]

it's selfish indeed .__."
i wouldn't do that actually
it'd be playing with his feelings for my own happiness.

[andybebop]

it's selfish indeed .__."
i wouldn't do that actually
it'd be playing with his feelings for my own happiness.

She has a point.

[xangie]

X_X
i disagree with the comments above.
i have lots of guyfriends who i can't live without. I love them alright. but its friendly love.
This idea of not being able to stay just-friends with guys is weird.

Unless you mean, you want to keep him as a casual-sex friend kind of guy.
o_o hmm my friends have them, i personally dislike it.

[ipingu]

yeh i would too think it is selfish. you guys should respect each others happiness. in the end, if you really feel that way about him, youll care about his happiness over yours.

[Ayuu~]

yes. i have a person like this.
i wanna keep him in my life with me forever.
but i dont have the feeling of love for him.. i dont think..
but he is still the most important guy to me!!
itz weird.

[DrAlan]

Selfish =] but it sounds like u love this person but has not yet noticed it =]

[hippiehop]

You are just so used to them being in your life that without them there is an empty space (kind of like when a couple breaks up, even if you do the breaking up you may all of a sudden realize all the time you have and that there is no one to fill it)... but like with everything else, you just get used to life without it. You learn to fill your time up with other things... you move on.

[pachi_A]

you just get used to life without it. You learn to fill your time up with other things... you move on.

[loves_pk]

wow...that is selfish indeed. i've had an experience like this before and trust me, it gets harder if you don't learn how to let go. i've learned the hard way to let go of this one person and sure he comes up once in a while, but that doesn't mean we have the right to take that happiness away from that person. learn to love yourself...give yourself a try at it even if you don't want to let go...if he comes back then he was trully meant to be yours in the first place.

[GOOMBA]

You'll find somebody to replace them in time

[Kiribati]

It's not selfish if you know how to control yourself. Keep him in your life, but don't depend on him to make you happy. He'll be there to make you feel happy when you really need it, don't force it....

[evilrobots]

ever thought about making him happy?

[cherillyn]

you're going to be miserable if you expect others to make you happy.

It's ok to "keep" a friend to hang out with as opposed to "caging" a friend and that is to refrain him/her from moving on and seeing someone else.

[hiswendy]

Ahh. I hate that all of you guys make sense. I hate that you're right-- about letting that person go. Damn it. I do care about him & I want him to be happy... >_> But aww! Lol, okay, I'm just being immature now. -.- Sorry. Gah. I just really hate feeling like I'm going to lose him. But I guess I'll live. I mean, it already happened before with my other friend. I wanted to keep him around forever & for always, through sickness and in health, through rich or poor... lol, but then he got a girlfriend who hated me. >_> So now we hardly even talk. I just feel like I lost that one, I don't want that to happen again. I know I'll live, I know I won't die if I do lose this one particular friend but like, I don't want to. *pout. I'm just being stubborn. I'll just wait until I graduate & see what happens then.

Dr. Alan: No. Lols. I know I don't love him that way. For sure! I think. Nah, I'm sure. (:
evilrobots: I don't know how to. ._. Some friend I am.

Thank you, everyone for replying. =)

[hiswendy]

the UPDATE

Our last conversation was Feb 14- yeah, Valentines Day. I hate the month of February because it emphasizes how alone I am, lol. So I was grumpy the whole month prior to the 14th. I think I may have even glared a hole into the waiter's soul of that restaurant my friends & I went to. Then I attempted to talk to him and surprise surprise, we actually had a pretty decent conversation. We weren't talking during that time anymore, actually- we didn't even say hi in the hallways anymore. But he surprised me, saying I always looked so sad those days. The idea that he still cared really made me happy. He asked me to please be happy, I swear I almost said to him "Then be with me" LOL But that would've been

Then.. no more.

We didn't get to talk at all.
Not even on the last day of school.

Now we'll never see each other again unless I initiate something. But what do I do, message him on facebook saying "I've realized how much I truly like & need you. Please come back to me"? LOL EW NO THANKS. SO YEAH. HELP PLEASE?

[spixder]

Hey girl,

Do u believe in fate, do u believe that this happened for a reason. Well if u do then right now u have a decision to make, what ever u do, dont regret it. What you do now determines your destiny with that guy, from the sounds of it you already know what you should do . Good luck with whatever happens.

[songssiissii]

"i think i love you"
u think? there is no such thing as i think i love you
and if u message him something like that, he might freak out
just talk to him casually
love is not a maybe thing. if u love him, then u'll know.