[~SexyAZNSlut~]

my bf says he wants to break up...but i'm willing to sleep w/ him to make him stay. I want his baby. i love him that much! really! I'm so sad but really determined. we been together for a really long time but lately he got mad after he asked about...you know, s-e-x. and i told him how i felt bout it and u kno after dat everything just sorta change. but im willing to change for him. do u think i could be wrong though? im really serious too

[juicebox]

if hes gonna break up with you because you said u didnt wanna do it then... geeze >_> hes a jerk isnt he? =S

[twinkle_l0ve]

and may i ask how old you are?

[ANJEE<3]

how old are you btw?

no offence, but this sounds like a 15 year old talking


if he's leaving because you won't give him sex.. how long do you think he'll stay for when he's got what he's wanted?

go and find a guy that wants more than sex and won't change his attitude just because you're not ready

don't be stupid, seriously.

[LaydeeMel]

I say let him break up with you. If he wants to break up with you just because you said no to sex, then he's a real jerk. There's alot of guys out there,

[joolee.]

If he's changing because you're not willing to have sex with him, go figure.

[~SexyAZNSlut~]

um, i'm 14, but i consider myself really mature. he may seem like a jerk but i guess u jux gotta kno him like i do. he was really sweet and caring before. i really miss the way he was. i think he will go bak to the way he was before if i show him how much i really love him. i just think he doubts my love dats all.

[Ayuu~]

he doesnt love u.
he just wanted u for that.!
itz obvious.. isnt it..

[schadenfreud1c]

if you're 14 and actually considering to change yourself to adhere to somebody else's standards, you are not mature enough to even begin to love, much less have sex.

[Fui]

Break up with him.
If he can't respect you, then let him be.
You deserve better than that.

[juicebox]

oh man.... honey... you think you know everything at an age like 14.. but trust me. not to be extra harsh but you dont.
im 17 and i know for sure tht i probly think i know everything but i know i relli dont.
you are so confused...
bottom line is~! tht any guy who would break it off with a girl because of sex, is jus a big no no~!
ok maybe tht sounded bad >_<"
but if you think about it, in the long run, hes gonna get sick of the sex and he'll probly break up eventually.
ok tht sounds bad too. but seriousli... hes not worth your time~!

[marshmellow]

Girl, if he's willing to break up what you guys have just because you won't do that, he's not worth your time.
Gives you a taste of what his priorities are. If he really cares about you, he'd understand where your coming from,
instead of threatening to break it off. You can do better. You deserve better.

[schadenfreud1c]

Instead of threatening to break it off. You can do better. You deserve better.

LOL! I completely misread that. Howabout you take that advice and then take it a step further and REALLY threaten to break IT off.

he's not worth your time and energy, get out before it gets abusive

[~SexyAZNSlut~]

Welp, he didn't threaten to break it off becuz of sex. jux more like he just talk to me less n less. and then yesterday he txt me and said that he might want some time away but he said he wants my input too so i told him ill meet him after school and we can talk about it

[HaneSorano]

Honestly, a guy like that isn't worth your time. You're 14, so chances are high you're confusing being in love with him and being in love with having a boyfriend.
Don't do it.
Sex and your virginity are two very sacred things, and you shouldn't just lose them to win any person over.

Honestly, you'll regret it if you don't save it.

[~SexyAZNSlut~]

welp im not a virgin anywyas :\ i did it w/ my previous bf and i told him bout it. i kept it secret until we talked bout sex
u think maybe thats y?

[blush]

if you're 14 and actually considering to change yourself to adhere to somebody else's standards, you are not mature enough to even begin to love, much less have sex.

agreeeeeed ^
haha. i'm 14, and i know that right now, no offense, you sound extremely naive. he is not worth the least of your time after reading what you said.

[SockRocker]

hmm...
I'm not saying that you're not mature because you're 14.
However, I will say that no matter how old you are.. 14 or 28
When it comes to love and sex, it gets hard for us ladies.
Mainly because we can get attached easily to the guy..
also, we, ladies, change ourselves for the guy for the sake of love.

So do this..
look in the mirror and say this to yourself.
You are...who you are.
Be confident in yourself and be comfortable about yourself.
Do not change yourself for another person other then yourself.
Not for their satisfaction..only for yourself.
If you change, change because you want to be a better person.

Also, sex with him and you're 14?
Ok, you may love him..but if he loves you..
would he make you do this? just to make him stay?
Just to satisfy his needs? Sounds to me that he is selfish.
You deserve someone who will respect your feelings.
Trust me, you will find this guy one day.

Sex is a big thing.
Physically,emotionally, and mentally.
So don't do it unless you are ready in all three areas.
[and you have a strong,trusting,loving relationship with a guy]

Honestly?
I don't think you're ready for sex and I don't think this guy deserves you.
If I was your best friend..I would tell you to break up with him and then go over to your house and we'll watch chick flicks and pig out on junk food and then gossip all night lonng...THEN the next day we'd go 'boy shopping'. lol.

Trust me, you're young and you haven't seen what the world has got to offer. There are so many wonderful people out there and you haven't met them yet.

Don't make a decision that you're going to regret in 10 years... or in 10 months.

[Unforgivable!]

Just break up with him.

If you do give him sex, he probably won't want you afterwards. AND he'll let the world know he had sex with you. And you're only 14, so you'll be labelled a slut and you won't be able to get other guys that will want more than just your body.

[schadenfreud1c]

welp im not a virgin anywyas :\ i did it w/ my previous bf and i told him bout it. i kept it secret until we talked bout sex
u think maybe thats y?

well...NOW i notice what you screenname is. What kind of message are you trying to send out? Suddenly, I don't feel a lot of sympathy for you. Your boyfriend is obviously having a lot of trust issues with you.

First of all, you had sex with your previous boyfriend and you somehow told your current bf about it.
What he's thinking: "holy crap, why won't she have sex with ME? What's wrong with ME? am I not good enough for her?"
Secondly, you had sex with your ex and you refuse it to him
What he's thinking: "so...is she easy? What is she trying to tell me? She's trying to be 'innocent' now? WTF!?"


come on! stop making your bf crazy! No wonder he's growing distant from you! You're sending out mixed signals!

sit down, have a talk and you both have a lot of growing up to do...and it doesn't matter a damn bit that you're only 14.