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Do You Find That An Online Community Helps You Cope?

#1 User is offline   jinjin<3 

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Posted 21 February 2008 - 09:13 PM

I've always thought about whether people actually feel less stressed when they share or talk about their problems online. Does it feel better to rant online because people don't know you or does that take away the comfort of ranting online?
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Posted 21 February 2008 - 09:18 PM

i like venting to complete strangers -- they don't know you so they have no way of judging you and the people you complain about never find out! i.e. my roommate. wink.gif
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Posted 21 February 2008 - 09:47 PM

yup, i express my feelings more online cuz they dont know me and if i say something wrong it wont haunt me since i told a complete stranger who knows nothing about me
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Posted 21 February 2008 - 09:54 PM

they don't know me and i don't know them mellow.gif
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Posted 21 February 2008 - 11:08 PM

Hm, it really depends on the situation. Most of the time, yes.
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Posted 21 February 2008 - 11:16 PM

I like doing it because they can't judge you.
I find it easier (:
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 12:43 AM

i like the "online community"
if you have a problem, they can help you out without being biased.. well most of the time
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 01:18 AM

It helps me cope with my boredom. That's all.
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 01:21 AM

it kinda cures my boredom
and a social life i guess hahah.
and i like reading peoples opinions on things
always get a kick outta that
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 03:42 AM

it all depends on the situation..
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 03:52 AM

well yeah sometimes, I rant stuff on my LJ
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 06:03 AM

sometimes. it depends on the problem.... but talking to random people online certainly makes u feel better. at least you're not bottling everything up.. and get a heartburn.
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 07:19 AM

yes, it is much better cuz people don't know me and I don't know them, it's not like they can really understand what I want to vent cuz I say it really vaguely, but at least I can write down for someone to see smile.gif
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 09:30 AM

yeah. i like ranting online.
since no one knows me. no one can actually relate to me so yeah (:
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 10:15 AM

Yeah I like letting off steam online because then I don't feel like i've said something wrong because the people can't judge me.
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 01:54 PM

QUOTE (sushii_x3 @ Feb 22 2008, 02:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I like doing it because they can't judge you.
I find it easier (:

^Exactly.
You can vent as much as you want.
And you won't get your head bit off.
They can't judge you, so why should you care?
You don't know them and they don't know you.
It's all good smile.gif

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Posted 22 February 2008 - 04:45 PM

Yeah..They can't judge me because they don't know me.
It makes venting a lot easier.


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Posted 22 February 2008 - 04:48 PM

Uhmmm yeah because like you can pretty much say whats on your mind and be sure that they won't tell anyone because well they don't even know you [:


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Posted 22 February 2008 - 05:46 PM

i do, actually. i like ranting out all i can online. and then no one really knows me. ^^
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Posted 22 February 2008 - 05:50 PM

Yeah, I find that it does help me most of the time.
I can say anything without dealing with others I know.

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