[bananafish]

First of all my boyfriend and I applied to the same schools...SJSU, Calpoly SLO, and SDSU. Both of us got accepted to SJSU and I was the only one who got accepted to SDSU, and we don't really know about Calpoly SLO. I doubt that we can get into SLO because I have a gpa of 2.841 and my boyfriend has a 2.567. We don't really want to stay here and go to SJSU. I know it is VERY STUPID to stay here and wait for him. I know...even if I was the one who isn't in this relationship and someone else is, I would have told them to just go and leave the relationship because there are better guys out there.

For me...its very intense..I think this is the best relationship I ever had out of all the other guys I've dated. I've even dated a guy who eventually turned out Schizophrenic. I'm so unattractive, overweight and I complain and think to much, but he accepts me for who I am and I'm happy that I found a guy like him. I think if we ever break up, I'll just stay single.

I'm debating to stay at my current community college for a bit and take classes that I want to take for fun, or go to SJSU and then transfer to another college after he catches up, or go to SDSU and take him with me and he can go to a community college there in SD.

*I'm a person who don't really believe long distant relationship can ever work out.

[t1ffiexp]

It might sound cliche and you already know it, but you shouldn't let a relationship hold you back in life. Long distance relationships are hard, but if the relationship is strong enough, things will work out.

For the choices you're debating about:
1. I know you should always take classes for fun, but for me, I'd rather take the ones I need and worry about taking classes for fun in summer school when I have more time. I guess I just see it as a waste of time? =I
2. What's wrong with the both of you going to SJSU? O_O Is SDSU better for your majors? Or do you just not want to stay at home? haha.
3. That's a pretty big move for him, especially if he's just going to be going to a community college. but if he's up for it and you guys have thought this through and if he really wants to.. then.. that's a possibility too.

I think a lot of it is just your self-esteem. You're most likely not as unattractive and overweight as you think. But even if you are (which I'm sure you're not), and since he likes you for your personality and who you are on the inside.. you shouldn't be afraid of a long distance relationship. Keep a positive mindset, because if you think negatively on the whole long-distance relationship.. it really won't work out.

[kween x jenn]

I think it'll be better if he goes to a community college in San Diego and then transfer to SDSU than having you stay. It seems like you guys don't want to go to SJSU, right? What's to lose then? I have a bunch of friends who go to a community college in San Dieog (Mesa) and they reaaally like the school there. And plus, you want to go to SDSU... you should take that chance :] Talk it out with your boyfriend. Hope things work out!

[bananafish]

It might sound cliche and you already know it, but you shouldn't let a relationship hold you back in life. Long distance relationships are hard, but if the relationship is strong enough, things will work out.

For the choices you're debating about:
1. I know you should always take classes for fun, but for me, I'd rather take the ones I need and worry about taking classes for fun in summer school when I have more time. I guess I just see it as a waste of time? =I
2. What's wrong with the both of you going to SJSU? O_O Is SDSU better for your majors? Or do you just not want to stay at home? haha.
3. That's a pretty big move for him, especially if he's just going to be going to a community college. but if he's up for it and you guys have thought this through and if he really wants to.. then.. that's a possibility too.

I think a lot of it is just your self-esteem. You're most likely not as unattractive and overweight as you think. But even if you are (which I'm sure you're not), and since he likes you for your personality and who you are on the inside.. you shouldn't be afraid of a long distance relationship. Keep a positive mindset, because if you think negatively on the whole long-distance relationship.. it really won't work out.

SJSU is good for his major, but not mine. SDSU is good for both our majors. He says he would transfer with me, but I'm not sure about what his parents would say, but he is almost 23.

I think it'll be better if he goes to a community college in San Diego and then transfer to SDSU than having you stay. It seems like you guys don't want to go to SJSU, right? What's to lose then? I have a bunch of friends who go to a community college in San Dieog (Mesa) and they reaaally like the school there. And plus, you want to go to SDSU... you should take that chance :] Talk it out with your boyfriend. Hope things work out!

ah...ic...is Mesa one of the better community colleges in San Diego?

[4ever_sweet]

For me...its very intense..I think this is the best relationship I ever had out of all the other guys I've dated. I've even dated a guy who eventually turned out Schizophrenic. I'm so unattractive, overweight and I complain and think to much, but he accepts me for who I am and I'm happy that I found a guy like him. I think if we ever break up, I'll just stay single.

*I'm a person who don't really believe long distant relationship can ever work out.

^If you really cherish your relationship, things can work out...even long distance. Of course there are a lot of couples that breaks up after being apart for some time, but those couples are usually the ones that don't want to put effort in making their relationships work.

I used to believe long-distance relationships were pointless because they were bound to fail. But I proved myself wrong. If you and your bf love each other, you two can make the relationship work despite the distance. Besides, the distance between you two would only be spatial...not in heart.