[B U D D A.]

My brother just told me that he weighed about 83 lbs. (I know sounds crazy)
but honestly hes very healthy, and I can't help but feel jealous.
I'm like around 118-120 lbs but I use to be around my brothers weight
I'm trying to be a little more like him, I'm eating healthier, playing sports, etc. but my problem is my cravings.
I have to eat something decent for breakfast,lunch,dinner but my brother can easily just eat like one slice of bread and feel completely full.

How can I stop comparing myself with my brother?
p.s. no don't worry about his weight. he's okay. doctor said hes fine

[`LANE]

how old r u guys ? i sometimes get jealous about weight.. well more like often.. but i'm definitely not jealous about my little baby brother whose what.. almost 10lbs.

[B U D D A.]

how old r u guys ? i sometimes get jealous about weight.. well more like often.. but i'm definitely not jealous about my little baby brother whose what.. almost 10lbs.

me-14
him-13

[byuntae]

.. wait till he starts puberty and i'm sure he'll outweigh you

[PDURRR]

^what he said
hahaha
i think i was under 100lb when i was 13...
i'm 19 now...packed like 40lbs
i'm still rather light

[A m a r a n t h]

woah wait, your 14 and wanna be 80 lbs? o_O.... nooo

[Cakee`]

lol. don't worry. my little brother is the same exact way.
he eats like a mofo. and he's still skinny. i weigh more than him and i'm a girl. -___-"

[Sue.]

Girls are always going to tend to weigh more than guys at that age because guys still probably have not hit puberty and girls are in the midst of it, meaning they are gaining the secondary sexual traits that'll make them "curvier" (breasts, hips, etc.).

Your brother is probably going to weigh less than you for a WHILE until he starts gaining muscles - which I'm going to guess isn't going to happen until he's at least 16 or 17. Don't compare yourself with your brother - compare yourself with other GIRLS your age.

I get intense cravings at times too - to control them I've been eating in little amounts throughout the day. For example, on a typical school day I'll bring various cereal bars and PB&J sandwiches & fruit and just munch on little bits of it every hour and a half or so. It calms cravings immensely and keeps you from binging when it's actually lunchtime or dinnertime. After I started doing this, I actually lost a few pounds and looked a lot better too.

-Sue.

[Antz]

my bf thinks he's fat, he's 191cm, 80kg and eats like a monster, yet he doesn't gain weight. :/

[mizmi]

wow, i know exactly how you feel
my sister is stick thin, but she's slowly catching up to my height thanks to growth hormones
so now.. she's gonna be skinny AND tall
but she eats more than me and doesnt gain anything at all which i dont get.. =/

[flyxme.]

girls have more fat in their body than guys
and if you're taller than him your bone mass is more..
but he'll probably weigh more than you once he hits puberty 8]

but im older than you by a year, im 93.5 lbs >__<

[XxMrsKimJJxX]

I'm facing the same problem too.
But the problem is my mum.
She's starting to observe what I eat and try to eat less than I do which makes me feel really awkward.
I makes me kinda 'scared' to eat in front of her and wanted to eat less than her in return.
Help!!

[junsujunsu]

hahahah wth hehehhee im like super overweight and im related to tall people so i am the fattest & shortest in family and i have no talent >< , but heyy life still goes on =D

[<3goesDOKIDOKI]

well hes still young. boys enter puberty about two years later than girls
so you're growing into your adult body already so of course you'll weigh more

if hes 83lbs and hes perfectly healthy than hes probably a lot shorter than you?
im sure your weight is just fine for your height and age

[CitrusFlower]

i'm 13 and i'm 100 lb, thats pretty average weight for people my age but sadly i've met alot of 13 year olds who weigh like 70-80 lb

[taylorkabaylor]

dont forget about bmi:]
plus most of my friends are like that too (freaking tall,close to 6ft, weighs around 80-90?) cause they have fast metabolism....

[rufflezz]

boys + puberty = so much later on, especially about when they're .. 16-17ish. Don't worry, it's not that bad. Girls mature quicker too

[amyjeehye]

i wish i was like, 90 pounds.

fattty fat fat

[LindySzeto]

You guys are still sooo young. I weighed about 80 pounds when I was 13 too. I've never felt jealous about weight because I don't want to be stick thin, I want to be healthy. Muscles is a lot better than just bones..

I don't really get why so many girls want to weigh 90 pounds or whatever. It's sick

[marshey905]

uhhh.... I went on this diet like a year ago.. and I was 100lbs!! but now I gained everything back and I weigh 115lbs..... sigh.. I wish I could weigh 105lbs..