[Bazzi`]

Didn't seem like this fit in the love section so I'll put it here.

This has stumped me for quite a while so I hope you guys/girls can clear me up on this.

If you have had one sex partner and knows for sure she doesn't have STD/syphillis/gonorrhea and all that good stuff, is it still possible for you to contract one? If you have good hygiene and no other sexual partners, is it still possible to get STD and what would be the percentage of getting it?

Yes anal intercourse is more proned to getting STD due to the bacteria that are lodged within the rectum, what about oral sex?

[Raito!]

you can't get std if she doesn't have it.

But what if you have it and its hibernating? some std go under hibernation mode where it is very hard to spot even by a doctor because it is soooooooooooo small.

and there are possibility of inheriting std's even if theres no sign of symptom (remember hibernation)

best solution: get checked before doing it

good luck

[Bazzi`]

No I don't have STD cause I haven't had any other partners unless STD just grows out of nothing? So I doubt its hibernating.. Her parents don't have STD's/HIV and neither does mine.

[precious4e]

well as the name implies you get sexually transmitted disease through sex (anal, vaginal, or oral). If your partner doesn't have an STD then it's unlikely you'll catch anything. But you can get some STDs through used needles, blood transfusions, and through your mom at birth (though these seem unlikely in your case).

If you're really unsure and paranoid about it, it's best to just get tested because some diseases are asymptomatic. Herpes is a good example of asymptomatic disease.

side note: it's easy to get an STD through anal intercourse not because of the bacteria but because anal sex causes more lacerations to the membrane which make it easier to contract the disease.

[Lust]

You know how girls have the toilet cover paper things in their public bathrooms.. I never knew what those were used for. I thought it was just for hygiene, but then my mom told me it's there so people don't transmit STDs from sitting on the toilet seat of someone who does have an STD. They could've bled on it. O.O

[ProjectVirtue]

If you've bost tested negative for STD's and you have good hygeine, it should be fine.
From what i understand, the possibility of a contracting a deseise from anal sex should be limited to fecal bacterial infection. I dont think anything more serious than that would occur.

[jliu6190]

You know how girls have the toilet cover paper things in their public bathrooms.. I never knew what those were used for. I thought it was just for hygiene, but then my mom told me it's there so people don't transmit STDs from sitting on the toilet seat of someone who does have an STD. They could've bled on it. O.O

oh. my. god. i totally didn't realize that...asdfjk;

[thina]

just get yourself tested, you'll know you're clean afterwards and won't have anything to doubt or question (you SHOULD be fine, but no one can ever be too sure). hope all goes well~

[Bazzi`]

Thanks all.

No her mom doesn't have STD. So you can rule out rape, prostitution etc etc.

Yes I know that anal intercourse can be a problem if you don't use enough lube cause the anus doesn't produce lubrication. Other then that is there anything else I need to worry about? If I gone right now to her apartment and done oral sex, could STD just come out of nowhere? Thats not possible right? Yes its common sense to some but its not to others. I haven't had to worry about things like this till now so I just want to be sure.

Yes I could get tested but that'll be in few years cause we're both in school and etc.

Thanks for the input guys.

[touche`]

Oral sex and anal sex are more likely to get STD.

[tomster]

No STD will not just come out of nowhere, or not in your
case atleast. Lol it's good that you're practicing safe sex.

[Azngel]

You know how girls have the toilet cover paper things in their public bathrooms.. I never knew what those were used for. I thought it was just for hygiene, but then my mom told me it's there so people don't transmit STDs from sitting on the toilet seat of someone who does have an STD. They could've bled on it. O.O

um...you shouldnt believe everything mother tells you... it could be dangerous.



btw, male toilets have the covers too.

[akira53]

You could possibly get genital herpes which can be transmitted from a cold sore.

[hunnybunny]

You know how girls have the toilet cover paper things in their public bathrooms.. I never knew what those were used for. I thought it was just for hygiene, but then my mom told me it's there so people don't transmit STDs from sitting on the toilet seat of someone who does have an STD. They could've bled on it. O.O

It's been scientifically proven that the paper cover slips for toilets do nothing. All they do is help to give ease of mind that you are somehow lowering your chances of getting any diseases from sitting directly on the seat (which you are in fact not doing at all). If you have no open wounds/cuts on the areas that are touching the toilet seat, you will most likely be okay.

As for the OP - STD's cannot be "created" out of nothing - so having anal intercourse will not cause or heighten your chances of contracting HIV, etc (if you and your partner do not have it to begin with, that is.) However - you will never know for sure if your partner has any form of STD unless she/he is tested. Many people say they are clean when they are not (be it that they are lying, or simply don't really know). So, both you and your partner would benefit from getting checked out - it's a normal thing to do - and to be honest we would probably have fewer STD's out there if couples actually did take this precautionary step.

[sunmoon]

very hard to avoid stds

20-50% of the us population has Humano Papillomavirus (HPV) and this stuff is resistant to soap and sits on clothes hands, lips, tables anywhere (especially thighs). Just one touch and to the lips or mucous membranes and you are largely done for.

for some people, it is essentially fatal and will cause cancer.

and it is very very hard to detect. that is why the govt is pushing for s vaccine but isn't telling everyone that its more serious than aids. its hushed up.