[Diverdent(=]

I say 1 year younger, 4 years older. haha maximum for me. i prefer older guys ;D

[한스 ㅋㅋ]

as long as she's pretty, i dont' mind, even if she's a grandma age.

[小甜密]

25. That's young enough.

[nheeweex3]

Age doesn't matter. My ex boyfriend was only 6 months younger than me, but both of us are in the same year level.
I liked him and he liked me back, but before we got together - I told him about the "age" thing and he talked it out with me.
He said it doesn't matter as long as we're in the same year level.
Which was okay, no one knew he was younger than me anyway cos I was much shorter than he was. Lol
So now I honestly don't care about the age thing, as long as you love each other.

I think that age becomes less an issue as you get older (aka out of college old).
For example, a 14 years old and an 18 year old seems like a huge age differance and society views it as morally wrong.
However, if it was a 24 years old and a 28 years old, then it seems perfectly normal.
They are both fours years difference, but the two people are just older.

That's also how I think too.

[SKINNY_GENES]

honestly, if you're in high school, you should just date someone within your age range (i.e. in high school).

when i was 16, i dated someone who was 5 years older and although it felt as it was "love," it wasn't. it was just mere infatuation, not to mention that my innocent heart, mind and soul were manipulated and corrupted by him lol ^^ T__T





in a nutshell, if you're 21+, age really shouldn't be an issue since relationships at that age will be based more on you and your partner's maturity level---how well you guys understand each other, what views/beliefs you guys have, what values you look for in each other, etc.

anyone under 21 should date within his/her age: give or take 2 years.

[ILuVTiTTiEZ]

Meh if you're old enough(legal or whatever), mature enough, and are willing to either be doing a wrinkly old wee-wee or vagina, then kids, do your thing!

And if its really TRUE LOVE, then whatever! If its love, then its love! =D

[SKINNY_GENES]

^^^^^^^ you disgust me.

[Honey_Babee]

for some reason, most of the guys i talk to now are all older than me. im 19, and theyr all either 21, 22 or 23.
its weird. lol but i guess i like the maturity level that they have since im a bit immature, i need that to balance =D

[Mz-Descamento86]

as long as she's pretty, i dont' mind, even if she's a grandma age.

What the hell? Hahahahaha

Im 22 I will not date someone in their 30s and I will not date someone younger then me.
I just cant do it.]

[Champagne*kisses]

Well for me I've never dated someone younger. I always been with guys who are same age as me or older, but now I am with someone who is younger than me. At first I was a bit bothered by it but it doesn't matter to me anymore because he is a great guy and we are still in the same age group anyways lol.

[starperson]

I like older guys. And guys my age. But right now I like older guys because all the guys my age are all ugly and really imature. haha so I dunno.
If someone is like 18 and the other is like 25 I think there is nothing wrong with that. Just an example. ;DD

[yellowtutu]

^ Funny you should mention that. I'm 18, and I have more guys who are 25/26 who flirt/hit on me. In numbers, it's a big gap but in the end, it really depends on the person's maturity.

[KJI12345]

I like girls my age and "legal" girls who are younger.

I don't want a woman who would get gray hair before me! ...Though, sometimes I can't help but make exceptions.

[P0TAT0]

Age is nothing but a number.
(unless you're under 13 LOL)

[fiery_raye]

love and age have nothing in common and they really should'nt be put together. age is just a number. but love is a feeling.

aww that's a great way
of phrasing it

[cherii2007]

No idea if Ive posted this already.

How do you feel about a 14 year old and a 25 year old? I was stupid...I'm not going to let that happen again (you know, if I could). I'm almost 16, and in Australia thats the legal age, so I won't have those problems so much? Although, I won't go out with a guy in 20s right now. I like a guy who is 16 right now.

[ellyphant]

It can work.
Though being with a younger guy [1yr5mnths younger] who treats you younger doesn't.
It's about the maturity level. When the younger guy screams on about Twilight. Nup.

[RaeBabyx]

I wrote here about my relationship with someone 6yrs older than me like last month?
.. just updating.

Ummm.. so yeah my mum found out AGAIN
(cause there were previous times were she told him to stop talking to me blah blah)
and she spoke to him for like an hour.
She approves of him being a friend, but thats all.

So we're actually waiting for eachother... well more him waiting for me.
Its funny cause i just got off the phone to him (its his birthday) and he said hes scared of losing me..
but i feel the same way.

To all the people that told me to be careful and that said he might be using me.. well he wasnt/isnt.
If he was i dont think hed be so upset about us not being together now.

Apart from that everythings pretty still good with us.
I just miss him alot.

[ryuem]

Hm, when your young - you care alot about age (in my opinon)
because of how the school splits you in years/grades/whatever.
they exaggerate/emphasize the age gap, so ppl find it a big deal
bt as you get older, its less pressured on, so its nt found as much more of an issue. x)

[DaAzNkIgGa627]

I believe in general age and maturity goes hand in hand.

But I believe there are enough exceptions that it has to be looked on an individual basis.

And a couple of years don't matter in high school, and years become irrelevant as you grow older.

So age may be a harbinger, but it isn't the only thing that matters.