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#1301 User is offline   jhealizzie 

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 02:52 AM

depends on his face.
when he's 52, but he looks 28, why not?

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as long as you love that person, age doesn't matter.

but for me, ten years older is the maximum. smile.gif
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#1302 User is offline   invisible_wings 

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 08:35 AM

Im 20, and my bf is 19.
It's perfectly fine for me to date with someone younger than me. 1 year different is ok but not 2.
Most importantly. the guy has to be more mature than me.
Because my bf does, people thought that he's older than me but the fact is he's not =))
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#1303 User is offline   小甜密 

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 09:15 AM

The younger you are, age is a big issue. The older you are, people are less likely to care.
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#1304 User is offline   Painterlyy 

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 09:59 AM

Most people believe that love has no age. Personally...I would rather date a guy older than me...but that's just me mellow.gif
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Posted 04 April 2009 - 01:38 PM

You're are as old as how you act. Age is only a number. It's the way they present themselves and how they act is what matters. At least thats how I feel. However, I don't want to date someone alot younger or older. smile.gif
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#1306 User is offline   mextaus. 

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 01:47 PM

First of all, love is blind, you can't totally pick who you like, it just happens
Age is like mind over matter, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
I hope to go with someone in max 3yr range (older/younger)
some people older look younger, but usually it's the maturity level that matters

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Posted 04 April 2009 - 11:39 PM

I liked a guy who was a year younger than me back when i was in high school. We were both a senior (he jumped a grade) because according to him, he was too smart to be a junior (after interacting with him, my friend think he's a jerk..). It was weird because i could never read his mind and i never knew how he felt and stuff. He asked me to be his gf only a week after we met, which was at our senior prom. He was really cool and stuff which was why i liked him. Then it was over after a month because he thought i get "jealous" over everything dry.gif At first i was really heartbroken but honestly, now that i think about it, i'm glad he broke it off. However, despite all this, i dont even know if we were even in a relationship to begin with so i wouldn't really consider him as my ex.

Anyway, right now, I'm with a guy who is exactly 2 years younger than me; his b-day is the day after mine lol how cool is that cool.gif
But really, with the way he thinks and stuff, he is so much more maturer than i am. Because of the way he is, sometimes i feel like i'm younger than him. I learned a lot from him, possibly more than i will ever learn from other guys. He's just really different from all the other guys i'd known and seriously, i like him a lot because everything about him attracts me.

I'd always say that age does matter but in my case, i dont really think it does. As long as both parties love and care about each other, why let the age difference stop you from having a successful relationship? As long as the younger party (mainly the guy) is serious, mature and responsible enough to actually be in the relationship. Just learn how to work and compromise with each other and everything should work out. However, I wouldn't go for a guy who's a lot older or younger than me; now, that would make me feel really weird, esp. if he was wayyy younger than me.

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#1308 User is offline   agnuque 

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Posted 07 April 2009 - 08:06 PM

my mom and dad have like a 15 year age gap but are so madly in love with each other it's beautiful <3
and their hometowns are SO far from each other, but they were still able to fall in love <333333333333 ahh so jealous

idk. for now since i'm young, i'd want to date someone older because i hate dealing with immaturity
but once people grow older, age wouldn't really matter because you'd realize a lot of things
if i really like a guy (despite the age), then heh smile.gif
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#1309 User is offline   iheartcandy4ever 

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Posted 07 April 2009 - 10:47 PM

:| ive always attracted older guys & liked older guys
whether that be one year or even up to, now, 4 years
i'm 15 going on 16 and he's 19 going on 20;;
we are well aware of the laws & we're not official
but more of 'seeing' each other..
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#1310 User is offline   InfiniteTime 

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Posted 07 April 2009 - 10:50 PM

GUYS CARE, GIRLS DON'T. it sucks
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#1311 User is offline   diingdong 

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Posted 08 April 2009 - 02:32 AM

hey girls

Do you prefer dating guys your age or older guys? Do you believe that if you are looking for a serious long term relationship, older guys more suitable to date since they are more mature and so they know what they want as compared to younger guys who are about 17-18?


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#1312 User is offline   tsai_jolen 

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Posted 08 April 2009 - 06:07 AM

Older men are more mature. If anything they have the experience to treat a women right.
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#1313 User is offline   Photogeek 

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Post icon  Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:12 AM

I like guys my age. But it happens to be that everytime I have a crush on someone, and I start talking to them, they turn out to be they are either a few months younger than me to a year. ITS SAD!!!!!!!!!!!!
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#1314 User is offline   Ch0xi 

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Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:23 AM

I like guys around my age or older. But not too much older. I keep the limit at 2 years. Also, if they're a few months younger then it doesn't matter to me. =]

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#1315 User is offline   musicpoplove 

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Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:26 AM

i like older people.
they seem more mature. but im only 17 and i would more likely to date people who are like 20 or 22 than someone 18yr old.
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:31 AM

I like both, but I prefer someone my age though.
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:37 AM

i prefer older guy. like 3-4 years older than i am.. i guess
older guy.. more mature.. so i can learn something from him

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#1318 User is offline   Kyuuketsuki Oni 

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Post icon  Posted 08 April 2009 - 08:43 AM

I like guys around my age and older like 20-22 laugh.gif
Im 17 now but when i hit 18 next month i gonna go lookin for a older korean/asian/chinese guy lmao!!!
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 10:06 AM

I prefer older guys - they seem to be more mature and won't joke about with their mates about me. sleep.gif *bad experiences..*
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Posted 08 April 2009 - 10:10 AM

i like dating younger guys
but as for something more serious... prob older

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