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#1451 User is offline   AiWoBa 

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Posted 29 October 2009 - 09:22 PM

It really depends on what time of your life the both of you are in and if you can relate... if one is gettting ready to get married and the other is just simply trying to finish school... there will be a problem...
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Posted 29 October 2009 - 10:50 PM

I prefer older guys and younger not so much.
Although this is reality so if we both like each other then it shouldn`t matter.
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#1453 User is offline   yamio86 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 10:54 AM

Age matters to me. hehe

im 23 and i will not date no 30 year old guy. lol
why? i don't know why, its just me. i mean, he is only 7 years older
than i am but 30 sounds like a really big number. lol

Maybe 26 but no 30. hehe biggrin.gif So i dont know how people do it, to those who
are 18 and is dating 30 or older men.. tell me, how do you do it? if i did, i will like
feel like im dating my older brother. hehe
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#1454 User is offline   secretwishess 

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Posted 30 October 2009 - 11:55 AM

I dont think it really matters. I mean if you quys really
love each other than yeahhs.
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Posted 31 October 2009 - 09:59 PM

honestly, no it doesnt. my boyfriend is a year younger (well, ten months) and i still really like him. hes taller and looks so much older than me though, but hes so caring and sweet. definitely more better than the guys my age.
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#1456 User is offline   smartypant 

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Posted 31 October 2009 - 10:25 PM

i just ended my relationship with my bf who's 3 yrs younger then me. i'm 23 and he's 20 years old. the relationship was good at the beginning and then it drifted apart because he had different interest then mine. he still wanted to party and i, on the other hand, am trying to finish grad school.
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Posted 01 November 2009 - 10:15 AM

i think its more about maturity and less about age.
but tbh a lot of guys my age wouldnt initiate anything and dont flirt.
maybe once i get out of hs and into the real world i wont mind dating ppl older/younger by a lot because by that time everyone should be mature. should be xD

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Posted 01 November 2009 - 10:16 AM

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#1459 User is offline   MR. LEE'S 

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Posted 02 November 2009 - 07:09 AM

it does matter to me. i don't want him to get older- way faster than my progression.
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#1460 User is offline   krngirl26 

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Posted 02 November 2009 - 03:11 PM

try the "half-your-age-plus-seven rule" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity...s-seven.22_rule
haha. I think it does have its merits, though, because it matters more when the people are younger.
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#1461 User is offline   Searesrayne 

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Posted 02 November 2009 - 07:54 PM

Nope I dont' think it matters biggrin.gif like what everyone says people mature at different rates.

I knew a 15 y.o chick with a 28 year y.o guy (i know that's legal pedo ....but) Now she's 25 with 3 kids from that same guy, but that dude died in a car crash like a 1 1/2 years ago. I think it would have lasted a long time if he had lived.

I'm seeing someone that's 7 years older than me. We both go to the same college and we have similar interest ^__^.
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#1462 User is offline   maivabvaj 

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Posted 02 November 2009 - 09:59 PM

Here's the thing, we all mature at different rates.

My bro is 23 and he's going out with a 19 yr old. I feel disgusted cause i'm turning 18 in december but she likes him because of how understanding and blah blah i didn't get into that conversation. But it just depends if they work with eachother.
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#1463 User is offline   TammyL 

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Posted 03 November 2009 - 12:48 PM

I dated a guy who was 6 years older than me, his friends would kinda make fun of him for it but would never say it to my face and for some reason he didn't care what his friends say, he still wanted to be with me =/
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#1464 User is offline   MixedVegetables 

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Posted 05 November 2009 - 03:18 AM

Age shouldn't matter, at least for me. 15 years is probably the far most maximum I could handle, with the guy being older. Ofc, not when I'm 15 and the guy's 30. Probably when I'm 20 and the dude's 35. But I guess opinions really differs from one country to other countries.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 07:26 PM

nothing wrong, unless you're 16 and he's 30.
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Posted 05 November 2009 - 07:38 PM

i was seeing a girl within a 4 year age gap o_o
as you get older though it doesnt really matter ,

if you like the person and the like you , if the connections there , why not right ?
but im thinking now , in my perspective of experience

sometimes it could be better to way cause say if someone was in first year college going out with a girl in grade 9 ,

if you think about how much you've matured and grown throughout the years , compared to them and how much they are going to change , it could turn out not as you expected .

but hey if theres a connection i say love doesnt have a age limit gap , well of course unless its like a 16 year old and a 30 year old like what the other person said here x_o

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#1467 User is offline   mang0 

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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:28 PM

age is nothing but a number.

i dated a guy who was 4 years older than me. people would tease him or think it was weird (at the time i was in grade 9). after breaking up with him, 4-5 years later (we're currently friends now) i asked him why he liked me so much that he wanted to date me... he said it was because i was very mature for my age and that all the girls he knew at his age were too skanky, gossip-y and immature XD
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Posted 06 November 2009 - 11:42 PM

I personally think that dating someone younger/older doesn't really matter.. if you guys really love each other,fight for it smile.gif
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You can close your eyes to things you don't want to see, but you can't close your heart to things you don't want to feel.
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#1469 User is offline   WhooOtWhooOtTina 

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Posted 10 November 2009 - 07:27 AM

Not really to me, im 16 and my boyfriend is 20
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Posted 10 November 2009 - 07:40 AM

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