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#301 User is offline   vikkay 

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Posted 18 May 2008 - 04:09 PM

i was in the SAME EXACT situation as you.
IMO, age is just a number, its all about maturity levels.
im currently dating a guy thats a year younger than me,
& its working out pretty well smile.gif

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Posted 18 May 2008 - 04:35 PM

i think it was a big deal to date younger guys back then
but now it's starting to become more common
i also notice there are always more girls than guys nowadays.

i'm guessing that's the reason why most girls end up dating younger guys! XD

i'm saying go with ur gut instinct. WHAT do u u want. and choose one u won't regret.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 06:57 PM

younger guys are so much cuter, imo haha.
just go for it - no looking back! if you really like him, something like age (it's only one year) shouldn't be an obstacle ;]
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 07:00 PM

personally i dont really like it when i find out that the guy i like is younger than me..even if its like 3 months ^^"
cuz i like guys that are more older..not TOOOO old but yah...

anyways,if she likes him then yah go for it
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 07:01 PM

nah, i dun wunna be a cougar.

but w/e floats your boat. iono when i think of dating a younger guy,
i'll probabaly start treating him like he's my little brother or soemthing.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 07:43 PM

I don't see an issue with it. I probably wouldn't date a guy who feels like my younger brother or a kid I'd tutor (most guys two or more years younger feel like that to me) but the guy I've liked most seriously in my life was a year younger and I didn't think it was a big deal. I've been attracted to a lot of guys about a year younger than I was. Am I the only one who generally gets along a lot more easily with guys her own age and younger than with older guys? Anyway, as long as the guy can appreciate an older woman too then what's the problem?
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 08:13 PM

Younger guys are great. lol. well im talking like one year younger. haha.. my current bf is one year younger then me. and i dont think that its a problem at all.. and i was like you, cause i never once liked younger guys and stuff, but its really not bad at all.

he's actually cooking me food right now cause im starving haha.


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Posted 18 May 2008 - 09:25 PM

well one year younger isn't even a problem, its a very SMALLL difference...
if hes like 4 or 5 years younger than you, than maybe i'd think about it more but one year?
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 09:29 PM

well in my experience... YES

they are IMMATURE!

now i understand why we girls usually aim for older men, besides money.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 09:40 PM

i just turned 20 like 2 weeks ago, all mai gfs have been at least 1 year younger than me.

now as a 20 year old, i am looking to date a 20 or 21 year old.

although age does not always mean maturity.

the person who makes this topic is asking about dateing a younger guy, i think girls can, but it seems less common.
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Posted 22 May 2008 - 05:26 AM

no biggy go for it who cares what others say
ooh and the cousin thing let it off for a while
but still go for it!
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Posted 22 May 2008 - 05:27 AM

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Posted 22 May 2008 - 11:53 PM

No age isnt a problem in lvoe. Lmao all guys i knwo who are younger than me are taller than me evne this year seven dude is tlaler than him
but im smarter than him

and oyu knwo wat i realiesd that all the guys tat have liked me are all younger tham me

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Posted 23 May 2008 - 07:36 PM

If it's less than two years it's okay....
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Posted 28 May 2008 - 02:44 PM

oh man! unni? how are you now? how is your boy? keke~
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Posted 28 May 2008 - 04:56 PM

QUOTE (litoswtme @ May 28 2008, 04:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oh man! unni? how are you now? how is your boy? keke~


well don't wory about it okay angela
unni is fine no worries just keep updating on your fics
i love them!

my boy? phsss. you are hilarious! haha


UPDATE.

He sung me a song.




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Posted 29 May 2008 - 06:24 AM

I think it depends more on what the couple want in life, if the couple is complimentary in goals and pass times then the relationship will be more successful. For example a young guy who is very mature for his age dating an older woman because she's mature would work well. If a woman was dating a younger immature guy and wanted him to act more mature like her, then I think the relationship won't last.

There is a problem with dating outside personal age groups, naturally the couple will meet each others friends and conversations will naturally cover topics most concurrent to their age group. Now provided both of the couple have enough flexibility to adapt to the topics it won't be a problem, now if one or the other isn't able to adapt then they'll naturally feel left out of the conversations.


Picture this younger girl, older guy - meeting the older guy's friends. His friends are talking about s career advancement and superannuation funds, while the girl hasn't had her first job yet. Best she can do is nod her head and listen.
Younger girl, older guy - younger girl's friends. Her friends are talking about studying for exams and the latest pop album, guy nods his head and looks bored.

I personally think dating outside of age is fine, I'm all for it. I don't mind dating a younger or older girl as long as our goals and passtimes are aligned.
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Posted 29 May 2008 - 06:30 AM

I actually prefer younger guys somehow. I get stressed when I have older guys after me. I can't help staring at their wrinkles in disgust.
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Posted 29 May 2008 - 09:53 AM

QUOTE (ilovejiyoung @ May 28 2008, 07:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well don't wory about it okay angela
unni is fine no worries just keep updating on your fics
i love them!

my boy? phsss. you are hilarious! haha


UPDATE.

He sung me a song.



he sung you a song?! oh gosh! how cute!!!
what did he sing you??

updating my fics? keke~
i try to. haha


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Posted 29 May 2008 - 03:49 PM

I personally wouldn't date a younger guy, unless we're both already in our 20s, because I know he'd be mature then hahaha
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