[*UnReaL]

my gf is a few months older than me
but i have a early birthday and she has a late birhtday 89 feb and 88 nov
anyways girls are more mature for sure and if the guy is younger lol from my experience of my gf
she usually takes more care of me than the opposite
and since she lived alone with her younger brother for 5 years she's very mature
i honestly like girls who are older ;;
it's just personal attraction there shouldn't be anything wrong with it

[ladolcevita.]

It's because you're still in your young adult days, it looks weird at this age. When you're older, it doesn't matter so much, does it? That's how I look at it, it doesn't look like it matters much in your 20's or 30's and people don't care, but when you're 19 and someone's a couple of years younger, people tend to look down upon it. I wouldn't care about it and it's your choice. Don't let other's thoughts affect you.

[misun07]

There's nothing wrong with it at your ages.
If the guy was 12 and the girl was 14, that would be a little weird.
When you're younger, a year or so difference matters a lot;
a year or so is what it takes for a child to become a teenager.

People think its fine when the guy is 15 yrs older than the girl
ew, no.
: )

[xchristine_leex]

i'm 17 and i dated a 22 year old before. my friends hated it.
they called him a pedophile and stuff...
i was still in highschool, he has a job.
5 years isn't much, but if u think about it, it can be a lot.
but i mean it was good. we just broke up recently...
but during the relationship, we had fun.
it's not that bad.

[miu_miu77]

err...you have so many stories.........

[DRELLA.]

There's nothing wrong with it as long as your fine with it:)

[D1nhner]

Age difference like those don't matter much to me.
But if it was like an 80 year old man and a 20 year old woman, it's like ewwwwwwwwwww.

I've liked so many guys who are so much older than me.
I liked a guy who was 23 when I was 14.
&then a guy who was like 21 a few months ago.
&then this dude who in his early twenties a few months ago too.

And I'm only 16. LOL.
I think that if it's under 10 years, it's not that bad.
But if it's like past 20 years apart, that's kinda like ehhh.

[megan92]

23 YR OLD GUY AND 15 YR OLD GIRL.

YES, AGE DOES MATTER IN THAT CASE.

DEAR LORD.

DEAR.

LORD.

[Wendyyy]

LOL you guys are funny.
I think it's more maturity level and where they are in life.

A guy can be 18, but if he acts like he's 12 most of the time, then it doesn't really matter how old he is.

But I mean, if it's like a 13yr old girl who's trying to be serious with a 30yr old, it's kinda like a whole different story, y'know?

And it just has a lot to do with compatability too.

Oh wait. I'm getting off subject rofl ooopsss.

Yeah age kinda matters to me, but in the end, it's just where the love issss. Yessssss.


Ohhh and the pro and con thingy. No offence, but a lot of the pros your friend stated about having a baby didn't seem to mention much about the girl he's with.. And if she's gonna be the mom, shouldn't there be some pros considering her? o.O Idk just saying.

[Wendyyy]

All that matters is that you're fine with it.
Other people around you may find it awkward because of the age range IN GENERAL. Like 16-20. Like anything around that area always seems to be iffy to other people when its a relationship. Like for a girl with a younger guy, I guess.
In my opinion, I think people find it weird because they think you're young, so for you to be with/liking an even younger guy, its hard for them to get use to that concept. Because everyone's use to a guy being with a youner girl. Not so much vice versa.
I bet that if you were older, like 24 and he was 22, people wouldn't be so ehh to it as they are now.
Nothing wrong, its just not an "average" thing so people aren't use to it.

Hope I made sense hahaha.
It's whatever floats your boat, yknow?

[Antz]

i have to admit, it's weird, but NOT wrong. there's a difference. =)

[mz simmonz]

like most people said, it's the stereotypical maturity thing since most girls mature faster than most boys. I don't see anything wrong with it but I do admit even I feel weird when I feel myself attracted to a younger guy..for me it's because I have a younger brother and if I like a younger guy I feel like I'm liking one of his friends (whom I don't find attractive AT ALL lol). I even feel weird being a Taeyang fangirl! because he's 3 years younger lol.

[Love is Pain]

There is nothing wrong with this. /thread

[Antz]

well, 3 years is my limit, really.
it depends on where i'm at in life and how old i am.

[marshmellow]

I don't think I'd date a younger guy. I'd consider dating an older guy, though.




I think 10 years would be my limit.

[blueokami]

age difference for me's like:

age divided by 2, add 7.

so I'm 18, divide that by 2s 9, add 7 is 16, so the youngest I'd go out with is 16 and the oldest is 20

[rachelyty]

i will depends on the guy's actitude...
but i dun like my bf is younger than me...
haha...

[ilikewindows]

nothing, as long as he isn't shorter then you.

[Pogichinoy]

There is nothing wrong with liking a younger guy.

[McChicken]

nope, nothing wrong. age shouldn't interfere with love. though, like most peeps here quoted; it does feel mighty strange.