[x_TaintedLove]

^^ LOL.

You could ask him to wait until he reaches high school. There are relationships where one person is in 9th grade & the other in 12th grade. That is, only if you feel that you still think you still like him and that he wouldn't bother waiting. If not, why bother? Don't date him if you're not comfortable with the way things are going. I don't blame you; dating a grade 8 would be awkward.

I personally wouldn't date someone younger than me, I have a thing for older guys C=

[EHNerJI]

i would if he was mature & i really liked him O.o
but if he acted really immature i prolly wouldn't even like him xD
which would make me.. not go out with him LOL.
i might feel kinda... pedo-ish at times but...
if i liked him, it shouldn't matter X:
... at least that's what i'm thinking now XD idk what i'd do in the situation x:
meh i prefer guys my age or older :x
*mostly cuz i'm only 15 and i don't wanna date a baby* ? LOL

[rainparade]

No I don't date younger guys. The youngest I can go is someone born in
the same year as me. Most guys that I meet that are younger than me tend
to be quite immature and I see them as my younger brother.

[7thprincess]

hate to say it but its kinda fun to corrupt younger guys. lol. just playing. honestly if it bothers you now, it will probably bother you for the rest of the relationship if you guys do pursue a relationship.

but if you really like him, you can look past his age and date him. but you might get into deep mini cooper if you date him when you turn 18. he is after all a minor.

[your_sheroe]

Wow--- it must be hard b/c your fam/friends prob wont take you guys seriously...
I hope that they dont think you're a pedophile! (No offense)

If I was in your shoes... I'd carry on. Though I probably would do it with a guy that was more mature I mean... he's only 14--- but still its worth the try right?

Just keep in mind that you will get stuff from people that dont like you or that dont know you like--- "She cannot get a man thats why she is dating younger guys."

----

I'd personally have this weird attraction for guys that are younger than me, only one year... unless they are like those Korean singers or something that they're like two different age... haha.... So you're not alone

[rlaektha]

I think that when I was your age I wouldn't have been able to date someone that much younger. Even now, I don't know if three years younger would be too much for me. I'm sure that if I was in my mid-twenties/thirties the age difference wouldn't matter so much to me, but at 20 it would be a bit too much for me I think.

[CitrusFlower]

No because I'll only see him as a little brother

[KAITOU KID.]

I met this really great guy on Valentines Day.
We became sort of like best friends but I knew there was something more to it.
He had told me he was a year younger than me, but I was okay with it...because one year doesn't make that much of a difference right?
Finally I asked him out because he seemed to shy to ask me ...and we became boyfriends/girlfriends. And then finally a couple weeks into our relationship, he told me he was really younger than he told me o.o...he was THREE years younger than me >_<...I have no idea but right then and there I just kind of lost half of my feelings for him...He had lied to me and I was mad at him for that...but he was so young for me too o.o. I'm 16 turning 17 and he's only 14....I just can't date young guys...it makes me feel weird...He's mature yes...but he's younger then my younger sister! I was a Junior in High School while he was still an EIGHTH GRADER! >_< ...It just seems wrong for me...but I still like him though...so I'm confuse =.=

So soompiers,
Girls, would you date a boy younger than you?
and boys, would you date a girl older than you?
and help me w/ my issue while u at it answering xD

Two things.
LOL YOU DIDN'T KNOW HE WAS 14 XD
*ahem*
Second, why don't us boys get an option to date someone younger, ahaha.
But yeah, I'd totally date someone older than me, but as it stands (I'm sixteen), so maybe...eighteen at oldest :x

No because that would make me a homosexual.

qft


To the OP again, is he 14 turning 15? 'Cuz then it's legal. Well, it is in Aus. xDDD.

[joongielove]

As long as you're not like, 15 years apart, I think it's fine. Heh. I think anwhere up to like, 5 years is okay.



But it's more common for guys to date younger girls. o.o;

[bonnaalagao]

i dont think it matters that much. but i guess it depends on what stage you're at. i dont know how to explain ;\ maturity ? ahahaha, kay i dont make sense.

[`Koko]

Age doesn't matter that much,
but for me it does a LOT. : )
No matter what, I can't date a guy younger than me,
and I know that for a fact.
Even if the guy was mature & everything, it'd be hard on me to date him.
It's mostly because I have a younger brother, who's basically only two years younger than me,
and since I joke around with my little brother and his friends, I can't treat them as anything else but kids
or additional younger brothers. xD

[영원한 사랑]

I think once you hit like 25+ age doesn't matter as much.
Only when you're young, does it matter.
Like a 20 year old with a 14 year old is really awkward...
But if its like a 28 year old with a 35 year old ... its not bad
because you both are full grown anyways

[danceplaylove]

I wouldn't date a guy younger than me, esp if he's immature. Ugh, when they try to impress me, it's like... stop it right now before I take my eyes out.

[babilien]

i'm 18...and i'm so in love with a 30 years old guy
ages aint the matter...lol O.o (i think) if you love each other xP

[touche`]

it's always good to follow your heart.

Not all the time. They can get you into trouble too.

[Rasberryz]

I'm starting to develop a crush on a guy 6.5 yrs older than me....=/ (he's 23, I'm 17)

I dunno. Something tells me that I should stop but I can't help it for some reason. He's a really nice and funny person.

[MinJee_318]

Age doesn't really matter but then again it can cause some problems.

I honestly think it doesnt matter. Age is just number that tells you how older or young you are.

[trashstar]

There's someone who works at the same place I work at. We don't know each other well but joke around sometimes. Eventually I find myself wanting to know more about him and wind up liking him because of his outgoing personality compared to the more reserved person that I am. Initially, I thought that liking a younger guy (he's two years younger, meaning he's a senior in high school while I'm a sophomore in college) was the main problem and worried that it would be a shameful thing to go out with a high schooler. Now I think the real issue is his flirtiness. He's ALWAYS around girls and I don't think my shy personality suits him. Should I just avoid him before I dig myself a deeper hole?

[RYUUSEi]

He's ALWAYS around girls and I don't think my shy personality suits him. Should I just avoid him before I dig myself a deeper hole?

Aren't you answering your own question?

[trashstar]

^ hmm well i guess it's easier to just say it, heh. that's what i keep telling myself and yet i am always drawn to him...