[小甜密]

It will only be a fling. Society (including me) will think he's too damn immature for you.
But whatever floats your boat. Just don't get caught by the po-po.

[CitrusFlower]

My mom's boyfriend is 4 years younger than her (she's 36)
and they've been together pretty long ^^ i'd say GO FOR IT! ;D

Thats different, their both adults by that time but right now it won't work

[randykiyoshi]

17 and 14 won't work. one will go to college one will start high school. it won't work.

Actually there are 14 year olds in 9th grade and 17 in 11th so it's like a 2 grade difference. I see people having bf/gf in 2 grades lower, sometimes 3. It's kinda stupid that ages can make things illegal.. they could have similar knowledge and interests.

[Afef]

I think that at this age, he's still pretty immature for a girl 3 years older. Maybe in a few years that difference wont show much, but for now it probably is too huge.

[vikkay]

Like i've said in the other related topics before this
"Age is just a number, its all about eachothers maturity level"

[bbylah]

unni, i don't hear anymore news about the two of you
are you two dating now? hehe~ congrats if you are!

[ilovejiyoung]

^ well i can't say we're together
but i can say that i'm a bit confused on whether i should like him or not

[jasmine111]

okay, so my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost 2 months now and this is the longest relationship ive been in
>___< my other one only lasted a month and i broke it off because he cheated on me with my best friend.
[so to say the least, i think i need a lot of advice...]
i really want to make this relationship last with my bf now but i think i need help...
he is 2 years old than i am, which i dont really think is a huge age difference its just that he is able to do a lot more things then i can.
my parents still treat me like a ten year old [when im really sixteen]...im not even allowed to go out with him alone ): so i have to lie to get around...he knows this and helps me so we still see each other despite that.
but i feel maybe there isi a lack of communication with other girls?
he has had previous realtionships...and there is this ONEEE that wasn't even a realtsionhip but she was obsessed with him.
needless to say, she hates me for going out with him but yea >.>
ANDDD..hes out till late at nights sometimes, without at least texting me..
or he'll get off the phone to go hang out with his friends.
i mean, i dont know... guys are confusing.
what should i do? what should i do to maintain a strong relationship with an older guy?...when sometimes im restricted
to certain things and hes not.

sorrry this is long! but i needed to get it out ):

[xsarangxmex]

1-2 years younger at your age is TOTALLY fine imo ...
I'd kinda worry if he's like 5 years younger than you though...
just cuz you aren't even a full grown adult yet...

[nasir]

[donporkuloin]

Go with the flow. Just keep doing things how you're doing them, and if it works out? Great, but if it doesn't? Then don't hold some logic thinking older guys are all the same.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

why is it confusing? think about it. you two are in the same age group.
it is respect and not letting the other person worry about where he's going to be.
it would be weird if someone asks you where your boyfriend is and you answer 'i don't know'.

but then you are only 16 so yea you're still a kid, he's 18, i see that as a kid too. with time, you'll learn.

but as for certain things like telling you where he is, that is suppose to make you feel safe. you should talk to him about that. but if he always dissapears and it makes you feel insecure and you feel like you can't take it anymore then drop him. if he promises change, ONLY take him back if he DOES change. which rarely happens, considering he is still young, he is only living up his life. but if he doesn't want this responsibility as a bf then he shouldn't have started a relationship with you.

--there are also several guys out there who make promises during fights then break them afterwards:\.

but anyway, please don't let your first relationship ruin your confidence in your second relationship. try not to be insecure, but then again don't be naive when his actions causes your suspicion and he doesn't bother or care to explain.

[Noncinema]

If you are pretty, it will work lol jk. I don't know. Do things that are fun with him. You know what im saying?

[jasmine111]

If you are pretty, it will work lol jk. I don't know. Do things that are fun with him. You know what im saying?

haha...well like what?
theres only so many things we can do and
you know what all 18 yr old guys want...
im scared that things are going to get on that level.
even tho he knos im not like that.

[Noncinema]

haha...well like what?
theres only so many things we can do and
you know what all 18 yr old guys want...
im scared that things are going to get on that level.
even tho he knos im not like that.

Goto the movies. I don't know a lot about girls, but I would like a girlfriend (not girl friend) to be like a fun friend. Just someone loyal and cool that I could talk to. Im 17 tho, not 18. But its ok, I think that you just need to treat him like a regular friend.

[CutieGirl303]

Im 15 and my bf is turning 18
to be exact hes only 2 years and 5months older...
my parents are okay wit my dating, he even sleepsover everyday...
hmm my parents usedto treat me like that too, so i just confessed to them, introduced him to my family and they liked him...

[2MY]

No, dating younger guy should not be a problem at all. I mean if you like each other then that is what matters. Not what other people think

[Sleepy213]

2 years isn't far at all =.=
If its over 4 years..den maybe hahah.
Anyways I'm pretty sure your boyfriend understands and you should too.
Let him have fun with his friends!

Don't make him text u and talk to you all day when he is out!
He is just having a friend timee.
Don't assume or worry so muchh
Calm down and be happy with yourself. =)
Goodluck

[abusegirl]

so he helps you deceive your family...now what if something happened to you and no one knew where you were because you were with him? it could happen.

*sigh* look i've been there and done that and looking back on it i was damn stupid as a teenager.

Your parents probably see something in him that they don't like for some reason and have good sense to keep you away. I hardly think it's about treating you like you're 10 and more like it's him. Ask them about it.

but one thing I can tell you is that lying and sneaking around is not helping you one single bit. and if you think they don't know....they probably do...parents are amazing like that. you're just helping build their case against him.

but eh...you'll do what you want because i remember 16....we always do what we want then..especially when it comes to romance. ^___^

ah well...it's a learning experience so have fun....just be extra careful and cautious mmkay?

[xvi3txl0v1ngx]

i thought you meant A LOT older. Ok, I can tell you that if he's helping you lie to your family, he just wants to be with you, not in the good way. my previous ex never wanted me to lie to my family. if we were to go out, he wanted me to tell her that i'll be going out with him. he even called my house to ask my mom if he could take me to prom with him. so he won a lot of points with my mom. so my mom was more comfortable letting me go out with him. she also knew where he lived sooo lol. seriously, if you feel that this guy isn't treating you right, he's probably isn't. also, ask yourself why you want this relationship to last. don't take this the wrong way but reading your post, i get the feeling that you want to be with him just to say that you have a boyfriend. i'm sorry if i'm wrong but that's just what i'm getting from the post.