[xsarangxmex]

Well, Im really interested in this one guy .... except im 19 and hes 16 .... (im a very late 88er and hes a very late 91)


I think he likes me too but have been really thinking this over whether liking him is worth it....



The thing is he looks alot older than me (cuz i look super young), hes much taller and mature ... but people have been saying it would be weird cuz im still pretty young and all ... and 3 years younger when you're young is awkward.


What do you think???

[mojomunkeez]

It's not okay at all. You should go to a priest and repent your sins and join and convent and flagellate yourself for three hours every night to repent for you blasphemous transgressions, you sinful filthy wretch.

[Harbl]

It's not okay at all. You should go to a priest and repent your sins and join and convent and flagellate yourself for three hours every night to repent for you blasphemous transgressions, you sinful filthy wretch.

Wat.

It all depends if you feel he's mature enough to date.

[ShadowMax76]

"It's not okay at all. You should go to a priest and repent your sins and join and convent and flagellate yourself for three hours every night to repent for you blasphemous transgressions, you sinful filthy wretch."
^ Hah. hi five

o_O' eh.. there's a chick in my year that dates a guy in the lower year.

the problem i see is that you're just going to find out he's more immature than you think. o_O' girls = 3years more mature, soo.... in your situation . he's 6years younger in terms of his mind. ?


x_X' we can't control who we like, though denial works like a charm . -sigh-
just be prepared to mother him. o_o'


.._ heyy.. i remember now. i liked a girl 3-4 years older. o_O' we were... alright friends. >.>' she seemed to come on to me as much as i did to her, . the whole thing lasted a while.
most people didn't bother us since they mostly trusted us.
funnily enough, the thing was that she had a bf. o.O' he was alright with it cuz... I was just a 'toy' for her when he couldn't provide 'romantic' sides.

-ahem- . LOL. but. i'm a changed man now that i took the initiative to say good bye to those days... =3=' she was so hurt...

_ it sorta helped that i was an 'old soul' back then. [nowadays i take the disguise of a tb. >D ]
plus it was nice that she didn't expect me to solve all her problems, rather that she liked when i trusted her with mine .

-sigh- i did a lot of growing up then [perhaps i was acting..], o30' a sorta lesson for me in my life.. >>' funnily enough, i can't apply my knowledge since older girls don't come by easily. meh.

-AHEm-... o_O' pretend i didn't ramble off like that.

[demllequ]

well i think if you like him for him then its okay, you can take things slow because he's young.

i dont see the problem of dating a younger guy as long as you dont take advantage of him

[MOOVERDOSE]

Well, age is just a number right? If you really like this guy and if he likes you too then I don't see why you can't pursue a relationship.

[Melitus]

It's not okay at all. You should go to a priest and repent your sins and join and convent and flagellate yourself for three hours every night to repent for you blasphemous transgressions, you sinful filthy wretch.

[kellyalster]

i see nothing wrong with it. do you find him to be at the same maturity level as you? if yes, then yeah, there's really nothing wrong. age is just a number. go for it. you're still young, so don't worry too much about how it's going to work out without trying.

[LUVSSOURCREAM]

doesn't matter if youre an early 88 or a late 88......

it won't work. true love? throw it out the window, what else do you have to back up your relationship?

im telling you it won't work and under law its not legal anyway, so stop thinking about it.

[eximius]

It's not my thing. But if you're both cool with it, it doesn't matter.
Aside from the fact that he's still a minor.

[miyavidoll]

i don't think it matters as long as u like.
but i don't think it'll work out either lol

[Yienny]

If you guys both love each other , than go for it. + But , you might face some consenquences of rumors being spread around

Example

Some chick : Eww isn't that the pedophile?
A guy : O_O eww shes too old for him.

[oorixyuri]

when it comes to love, who's to judge?

[[JING]]

LMFAO
are you serious?! a day?
are you sure you're 17? you sound like you might still be in elementary school
hahahahaha a day XD
this topic CAN'T be serious

anyway,
a day seriously isn't a big deal
when I saw this thread I though it'd be like 4 or 5 years but wow....are you SURE you're 17?

I wouldn't trust this guy if I were you
the coincidences sound TOO suspicious
I mean seriously, not wanting to send pictures? dropping cellphone?
and you believe him? that's insane.
ok are you SERIOUSLY 17?
why would you believe everything he says? he couldbe a 52 year old pedo from montana for all you know
just don't give him anymore information or anything
where did you meet him anyway? from your friend? or on a random site?

[kimchi hana]

I think the real question is,
IS IT OKAY TO LIKE SOMEONE YOU MET ONLINE?
It's hard to trust people on the internet nowdays.

And don't you listen to SHINee?!
Noona you're so pretty~
If younger people can like you, why not vice versa? :P

[hobobear]

a day... is nothing...
although you've talked to him for 2 years, i don't think you should get yourself attached. he hasn't even shown what he looks like, or anything. for all you know, he could be some fat middle aged man, who wants some young booty. and anyways, he could just be lying about the bathroom thing, and even the birthday. its too much of a coincidence. i think you need to go outside, go to the beach, and fawn over hot guys on the beach.

[clear_blue_rain]

a day is nothing

i like this guy and he likes me back too
i'm 18 (april 1990) and he's 16 but soon 17 (sept 1991)
no biggie

[XDinnocent]

Sure, but honestly.
I think i would never do that, if that ever even
crosses my mind, the guy must be pretty damn godly.

[FusionGT2]

woww thats a unique situation. unfortunately its probably not gona work out.. age difference is kinda wide for you being the older one esp. however crazy things happen in this world. try it out if u really want to.

[phenom-achine]

like some people have said, age is just a number. if you really do like him, and he does too, then go for it.
a lot of people i know have older woman-younger guy relationships, and they have turned out to be their longest, best relationships....